Usuke uphendukela ku-40? Kuyinto yobuhle obudala.
Ungacabangi ngakho, ungachithi isikhathi kuso. Kungcono ukuthatha ingilazi yewayini nokuphuza eminyakeni ezayo - iminyaka yokuzethemba!
1. Usuvele useneminyaka lapho umbono wakho ulalelwa ...
"Ngokuqinisekile udinga ukushintsha imisebenzi!".
2. ... kodwa useneminyaka leyo lapho ungashintsha ingqondo yakho.
"Hhayi, cha".
"Buyela emuva - ngicabanga ukuthi ngiphuthumele eziphethweni."
3. Awunandaba kakhulu ngalokho abanye bacabanga ngokubonakala kwakho nokuziphatha kwakho ...
Isigqoko esiseduze nesikhumba nje ngesikhathi.
4. ... futhi lokhu ukunganakwa kukukwenza ube namandla nakakhulu.
"Ngimnandi - futhi konke kupholile kimi."
Futhi intsha engavikelekile ikuthokozela nje!
5. Uyazi kakade ukuthi umgca onomqondo onengqondo ukuma, futhi kungakanani ongakwenzi.
Lowo omi emgqeni wamahora, kusobala ukuthi uchitha isikhathi sakhe.
6. Uphezu kokuzethemba, uthando lwakho futhi uzibalele wena ...
7. ... futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi akudingeki ukuba umuntu aziphoqe ukuba ahambe nge-yoga.
(Kodwa uma ungakaze uzame ngaphambili, iminyaka engu-40 yisikhathi esihle sokuqala ukusula).
8. Futhi usuvele uqonde ukuthi yikuphi uhlobo lokudla ozozizwa lungcono kulo, futhi kusuka kulokho - okubi nakakhulu.
Okuncane kungcono, kodwa kungcono.
9. Usuvele uhlele uhlelo lomsebenzi wakho. Uma kungabizwa lokho.
Futhi nakuba ngalesi sikhathi abantu bavame ukushintsha kakhulu umsebenzi wabo, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abantu abaningi banquma emva kweminyaka engama-40 ukuba baphishekele ngokujulile imisebenzi futhi bathuthukise inhlalakahle yabo.
10. Futhi awusayikuchitha amandla amandla ...
11. ... kepha usakwazi ukuhambisana nabantu abasha.
Futhi uma ungafiki kule neminyaka engama-40, mhlawumbe uzofika ku-50. Manje izingane zilandela emva kweminyaka engu-40.
12. Uyazi ukuthi uzoyeka nini.
Amanzi noma ubhiya?
Futhi ufunde umthetho owodwa wemilingo: ukuphuza ingilazi yamanzi ngemva kokuphuza.
13. Usuvele usondliwa ngehhovisi.
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Bavumele bawenze izingane ezineminyaka engamashumi amathathu ezithandweni zabo eziqinile.
14. Ulwazi lwakho mayelana nokuphila lwanele ukuqonda ukuthi kufanele usebenzise iholidi.
Futhi inkampani iyamangalisa kuwe! Ngendlela, isilinganiso seminyaka yabantu baseMelika abahamba ngenjabulo singama-47.5.
15. Futhi kakade unethemba kakhulu ukuthola umlingani womphefumulo ...
"Uma uthando lungabi ubuhlanya - lokhu akusilo uthando," - uPedro Calderon de la Barca.
16. ... ngoba lapho uneminyaka engu-40 uqale ukuthembela kuwe kuphela. Futhi othandweni, futhi.
"Ngiyakuthanda, kodwa ngiyakuthanda kakhulu", - uSamantha Jones (Sex & TheCity).