Unqume ukulungiswa ku-nursery, kodwa ungakaqedi ukuthi yisiphi iphepha lodonga okufanele ukhethe? Okokuqala udinga ukucabanga ukuthi ziphephile kanjani empilweni. Kubalulekile futhi ukucabangela iminyaka yengane. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma umntwana ungakhetha yonke into, udinga ukubonana nabantu asebekhulile, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke nje bafune ukuhlala ekamelweni elinjalo. Kuye ngokuthi uhlangabezana kanjani nomsebenzi, ukunambitheka kwengane, ukuqonda kwakhe kanye ne-psychotype kuzokhula.
Yimuphi iphephadonga lokukhetha ingane?
Ngusiphi iphepha lodonga lokunamathisela ekamelweni lomntwana wengane engaphansi kweminyaka emine, kuzodingeka uthathe isinqumo. Kodwa noma kunjalo, qala ngezifiso eziyisisekelo zomntwana. Kudingeka ukubeka kahle izikhalazo - ukukhanya okulinganiselayo kanye nenhlanganisela yemvelo yemibala.
Futhi yimuphi umbala wephepha lodonga ongakhetha kuwo, uzinqume kanye nomntanakho. Emva kwakho konke, le ndoda encane kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala iyithola i-shades ethandeka kakhulu futhi ibonisa ngokucacile lokhu. Ngakho umama olalelisayo uzohlale ekwazi ukuthi ingane yakhe idinga yini. Isibonelo, imibala enamandla iyohambisana nokuphumula, futhi kumuntu omncane onokuthula kungcono ukhethe imibala ye-pastel.
Emtholampilo womntwana kanye nesizukulwane esikhulile uzokwamukela iphepha lodonga. Kanti futhi ekamelweni labantwana alinayo i-oven, kodwa kumele kube yindalo. Futhi, naphezu kokukhanya noma ukudlula kwamathoni, kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi igumbi lomntwana yilo lonke izwe, indlu yakhe, lapho kufanele azizwe egcwele ukuphepha nokuzethemba. Ngakho-ke, thenga, uma i-pastel - izinqumo zombala ezibushelelezi, ziphenduke zibe beige, ukufika okungaphezulu, ukuze kube khona ukusekelwa okukhona. Umhlobiso omuhle wezindonga nge-apricot, umbala ophuzi ophuzi, ubukeka ubuhle hhayi obugcwele okwesibhakabhaka noma obuluhlaza. Imibala emibala kakhulu yekamelo lezingane akufanele ikhethwe, naphezu kwezintandokazi zomuntu omncane, ekamelweni elinjalo umntwana uzothola kunzima ukuphumula noma ukugxila ezintweni ezithile.
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Umntwana wakhula futhi manje uneminyaka emihlanu, eyisithupha noma ngisho nambili? Lapha ungathumela umcabango wakho futhi uvumele ingane ukuba iqhaza kwinqubo yokukhetha iphepha lodonga. Lapha futhi, kuyisifiso sokusebenzisa iphepha lodonga labantwana bemvelo, njengokwesimo sokuqala, esifanelekile ne-vinyl.
Singakwazi ukukhawulela ukukhetha ukwenza lula ukuthenga. Uma unekamelo lomfana, zithanda isithombe sangemuva ngezithombe zezimoto, izigebengu nezinhlamvu ezahlukene ze-cartoon mayelana neSperman, Batman njalonjalo. Izindiza nemidlalo kuzohlobisa izindonga zendawo yokuhlala yomfana.
Kumantombazane, izithombe zezimbali, amakhosazana, amakati kanye nezinye izinhlamvu zangempela nezinhlamvu zangempela kuzokulandela.
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Ikamelo le-adolescence lidinga indlela yokucophelela kakhulu futhi ngaphandle kokuhlala kwalo akufanelekile ukwenza noma yini. Nakuba ukuqala kungakhonza njengolwazi lwezinto zokuzilibazisa zomntanakho, umzali omuhle uhlale ekwazi lokhu. Bese ungakhohlwa, ngalesi sikhathi abangane bakho bavakashela ingane yakho. Kufanele baqonde ngokugcwele "umshayeli" ophumela ngesikhathi sokuhlala. Ngakho-ke, enkampanini yamadoda izobukeka kahle ezindongeni nge-graffiti, isihloko sezilwandle nokuhamba. Futhi amantombazane azothanda ukuflorisa ngezinto zezilwane, isibonelo, izinyoni. AmaFresco aveza amadolobha azodala u-romance. Kungenzeka ukuhlanganisa iphepha lodonga emtholampilo, okuzoqhubeka nokuthuthukisa umphumela wobuntu bekamelo.
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Kodwa konke lokhu akubalulekile, wonke umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhulu noma awuneminyaka yobudala, unezinkanuko zakhe kanye nezintandokazi zakhe, ngakho-ke ungafaki iphuzu lakhe lokubuka, kodwa uthintane futhi ucebise, kodwa ungafuni noma ucindezele. Hlonipha imibono yomunye nomunye.