Inkosi yeqiniso yezilwane nenkosi, ulindela izikhonzi zakhe ezithembekile ukuba zikhonze futhi zikhulekele, futhi kubesifazane abazowa phansi. Amadoda azalwa ngaphansi kwalesi sibonakaliso se-Zodiac azikholelwa ngokweqile futhi akwazi nje ukucabanga ukuthi owesifazane angabenqaba. Abalingani bakhetha ukuzikhethela ukuba abe indlovukazi - indlovukazi, nokuthi indoda ithande kanjani iLeo - kulesi sihloko.
Ukwazi kanjani ukuthi owesilisa uLevi uyakuthanda?
Indoda ethandwayo izobe ilungele ukuguqula impilo yowesifazane wayo ibe inganekwane. Esikhathini sokuthandana, uzokwenza izenzo ezingenangqondo nezenzo ezingenangqondo, njengokungena ebusuku efasitela esitezi se-20 nokunikeza izimbali noma ukunikeza indandatho elwandle. Amadoda alesi sibonakaliso anika ngokuphana kakhulu futhi azobonisa lokhu kwabanye nabesifazane babo, njengokungathi uthi: "Unami futhi ngibonga ngalokhu." Nokho, kusukela othandekayo, ulindele ukudumisa nokukhulekela, ukuncoma okuqondene naye njenge-balm enhliziyweni. Futhi nakuba owesilisa uLevi ethanda abesifazane abaqinile nabanethemba, abafanelekayo ngokubukeka, isimo kanye nezinye izindlela, lo mlingani kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi abe yisinyathelo esisodwa ngemuva futhi anikeze indoda yakhe ithuba lokuphumula.
Kubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukuthi abangane, izihlobo namanye amalungu omphakathi azokutshela ngowesifazane wakhe, ngakho uzokhathalela ukuthi unakho konke okusemandleni akhe. Ngokuvamile, ubudlelwane balo mbhangqwana beboshiwe ngemuva kwesinye isenzo esesabekayo nesibindi esibucayi kulabo abalaleli, emva kwalokho u-Leo ozimela ngokwakhe angakhuphula kuphela owesifazane owawa ngasezinyaweni zakhe. Kodwa-ke, lo mlingani ophanayo nomlingani uzodinga kakhulu futhi aphangi, ngoba udinga ukulawula konke, wazi isinyathelo ngasinye somlingani wakhe futhi uqiniseke ukuthi akashintshi.
Yini indoda efana neThub ethanda ubulili?
Yiqiniso, kunomlingani onjalo, engazijwayele ukwenqaba, kunzima ukumangala, ngoba unolwazi ngempela kulezi zindaba futhi kungase kuthiwa uyadliwa. Owesifazane kuzomele azame ukuhlala eduze komuntu onjalo, ngoba alindele hhayi nje ngokocansi, nokuzilibazisa ngokocansi. Ukuba nesithakazelo kulokho okuthandwa yindoda yamuntu embhedeni, ungahamba ngaphandle kokwesaba kunoma yikuphi ukuhlolwa futhi unikeze ucansi ezindaweni ezingalungile nakwezinye izinto ezibucayi kakhulu. Ngenhliziyo ejulile futhi enesithakazelo, ulinde ukuzwa okufanayo komuntu wesifazane futhi udumazeka kakhulu uma lo mlingani ephenduka engavuthi futhi ebanda.
Udinga ukulungele ukuthi angeke achithe isikhathi esandulela isikhathi eside, ngoba ukholelwa ukuthi kakade kunomunye waba khona kwakhe kumholela ekujabuliseni. Uzothatha okungaphezu kokupha, nakuba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umlingani onjalo angase aphinde "aphinde afundiswe", kodwa akwenze ngokungahambisani futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi akhululwe ngokudumisa.