Kuze kube manje, ayikho indlela eqondile, yesayensi evunyelwe ukuthi ivumela umphumela we-100%. Kodwa-ke, enye yezindlela ezidume kakhulu nezithandwayo yikhalenda lamaKhina lokukhulelwa kwengane.
Ikhalenda lokukhulelwa lineminyaka engaphezu kwekhulu ubudala kanti izigidi zabantu baseShayina ziyayisebenzisa ekuhleleni komndeni. Ekuqaleni, ikhalenda yokukhulelwa isetshenziswe emndenini wasebukhosini waseChina yokwandisa uhlobo lohlobo. Ngokwesiko e-China, ubulili bezingane ezizayo bunikezwa ukubaluleka okukhulu. Ngakho-ke, ikhalenda yokukhulelwa ayizange ilahlekelwe ukuhambisana kwayo.
Yiziphi izinzuzo zekhalenda lokuzalwa kwengane yaseChina?
- ukukhululeka kokusetshenziswa;
- kuvumela ukunquma ubulili bomntwana kunoma yisiphi isikhathi sokukhulelwa;
- kungenzeka ukuthi ukuhlelwa kusengaphambili kwezocansi zezingane ezizayo;
- AmaShayina athi ukuphumelela kwendlela kufike kuma-98%.
Ikhalenda lokukhulelwa kweShayina linikezwa ngesimo setafula.
Phezulu kwetafula ngokuzenzekelayo kubonisa izinyanga (kusukela ku-1 kuya ku-12). Futhi ingxenye engakwesokunxele yetafula ehambisana ne-vertical iqukethe idatha eneminyaka yobudala (kusukela eminyakeni engu-18 kuya kwezingu-45).
AmaShayina akholelwa ukuthi ubulili bomntwana buxhomeke kuphela kumama. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ukwazi ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa, kwanele ukuba nemininingwane mayelana nonyaka wengane nenyanga yokukhulelwa kwengane.
Indlela yokubala ubulili bezingane ezizayo ngokuvumelana nekhalenda lokukhulelwa kwamaShayina?
- Ekholini lesobunxele letafula siyakhetha ubudala bomama esizayo.
- In line line sichaza inyanga yokukhulelwa kwengane. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kunembile kakhulu.
- Emgwaqeni sithola ubulili bomntwana ozayo (D-girl, M-boy).
Isibonelo, uma umama wesikhathi esizayo uneminyaka engama-21, futhi ukukhulelwa kwengane kwenzeke ngoJuni, bese ngokuvumelana nekhalenda lokukhulelwa yaseChina, intombazane ilindeleke ukuba izalwe.
Indlela yokuhlela ubulili bomntwana wesikhathi esizayo kusengaphambili?
Ikhalenda lokuzalwa kwengane yaseChina libuye likuvumele ukuthi uhlele ucansi lomntwana ongakazalwa. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukunquma unyaka wokuzalwa komama ozayo futhi ukhethe inyanga efanelekile yokukhulelwa, ehambisana nobulili obufunayo wengane. Uma izinyanga ezilandelayo zobulili obufunayo azihambisani - ungahambisa inyanga yokukhulelwa ibe ikholomu edingekayo.
Ake sithi umama ozayo uneminyaka engu-20 ubudala. Ukuze ubelethe umfana, ukukhulelwa kwekhalenda lesiShayina kufanele kwenzeke kusukela ngo-Ephreli kuya kuSeptemba.
Yini okufanele ngiyicabangele lapho ngithatha ucansi wengane ngokusho kwekhalenda lamaShayina?
Ukuze unciphise amathuba okuphutha, kungcono ukuhlela ukukhulelwa ezinyangeni ezizayo eduze nesikhathi esiphakathi. Kubalulekile ukugwema ukuhlela umklamo ekuhlanganiseni kwezinkathi ezishintshayo.
Kubalulekile ukulungisa ngokucophelela izinsuku ezihlotshaniswa nengane ezayo. Phela, uma abazali besikhathi esizayo bengasazi usuku oluqondile lokukhulelwa kwengane - ukunquma ukuthi ubulili bomntwana buzobe bunzima. Ngisho nephutha lezinsuku ezimbili kuya kwezingu-3 linganikeza imiphumela ehluke ngokuphelele.
Amathuba okuthola umphumela weqiniso uphakeme. Kodwa namanje, akuhambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukuhlela ubulili bomntwana ngumsebenzi othakazelisayo. Ikhalenda le-Chinese lokukhulelwa kwengane ingenye yezindlela ezithandwayo kakhulu, okuvumela ukucacisa nokuhlela ubulili bezingane ezizayo. Sekusetshenziselwe amakhulu eminyaka futhi kunabasekeli abaningi. Noma kunjalo, amathuba okuphutha awafakiwe.
Kodwa noma ubani ozalwa naye unendodana noma indodakazi, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba ingane iphile futhi impilo yakhe ijabule.