Bakhokhelwa nini umama?

Udaba lokuvikeleka kwezinto ezibonakalayo luya lukhuni kakhulu kumama ozayo, ngoba ukuzalwa kwengane ngayinye kukhulisa kakhulu izindleko zezimali zomndeni futhi kuvame ukubeka endaweni ephazamisayo. Yingakho abesifazane abaningi bekulindele ngokulangazela ukukhokha kwekhefu lokubeletha, okuvunyelwe ngokomthetho futhi njalo kaningi inani elibalulekile.

Ngiphi isikhathi futhi ukubeletha kubhalwa nini?

Ngokususelwa egameni lale nsizakalo yokusiza ngezezimali, akunzima ukuqagela ukuthi ikhefu lokubeletha likhokhwa lapho owesifazane ehamba ngekhefu lokubeletha, futhi ngokushesha isikhathi sonke. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi sonke isikhathi sokukhululwa kwekusasa nomama osemncane kusuka emsebenzini kuhlanganisa izingxenye ezimbili - ikhefu lokubeletha kanye nekhefu lokunakekela izingane.

Ngaphansi kwemali yokubeletha, kuvame ukuqonda inani lemali isinxephezelo sezimali owesifazane othembele ngesikhathi sakhe sokubeletha. Ubude bale nkathi bunqunywa ngokusemthethweni ngumthetho. Ngakho-ke, eRussia, umama ozayo ozobe esilindele ukuthi ukuzalwa komntwana oyedwa kuthole ikhefu lokugula isikhathi esiqalile kahle amasonto ayishumi ngaphambi kosuku olulindelekile lokulethwa kanye namasonto ayishumi emva kwalolu suku.

E-Ukraine, le nkathi isancishiswe kakhulu - ingxenye yayo yokubeletha ibuye ibe nezinsuku ezingu-70, kanti isikhathi sesishiyagalolunye sineminyaka engu-56 kuphela. Uma isakhamuzi saseRussia sigqoka izinyanga ezimbili noma ngaphezulu ngenhliziyo ngesikhathi esisodwa, unelungelo lokuhamba ngekhefu lokubeletha isikhathi esiyizinsuku ezingu-194 - liqala amasonto angu-12 ngaphambi usuku olulinganisiwe lokudiliva futhi luphela kwezinsuku ezingu-110 ngemuva kwalo.

Ikhefu lokugula lonke ikhefu lokubeletha linikezwa owesifazane endaweni "ezithakazelisayo" cishe ngeviki lama-30. Nakuba kubonisa uhla oluqondile lwezinsuku zokukhululwa emsebenzini, lesi sikhathi asihlali ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma ukuzalwa komama osemncane kwenzeka ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma uma kuhambisane nezinkinga, kungadluliselwa izinsuku ezingu-14 e-Ukraine nezinsuku ezingu-16 eRussia.

Uphoqelekile nini ukukhokhela umama?

Ngomthetho, abaqashi kumele bakhokhele ikhefu lokubeletha lapho owesifazane ehambisa ikhefu lokugula, kungakapheli izinsuku eziyishumi emva kokuzinikela kwakhe. Noma kunjalo, lolu "suku lweshumi" luqala lapho isisekelo esibhedlela sesibhedlela kanye nesicelo esibhaliwe somamazala omusha sifika kumnyango wezimali wokuqashwa, hhayi kusukela ngesikhathi sokuqala kweholidi ngokwayo.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, inhlangano ngayinye inelungelo lokunquma ngokuzimela uma ukhokhela ikhefu lokubeletha. Kwezinye izimo inkokhelo enjalo ishiwo esitatimendeni esithile, kanti kwabanye kuphelelwe usuku lokukhokhwa kweholo elilandelayo kubo bonke abasebenzi bebhizinisi.