Yini ingane edingayo ngenjabulo?

Ngesikhathi nje ekhuluma ngokubonakala kwengane emndenini, abazali abangase baprofethe ingane yabo ikusasa elijabulisayo nethemba elihle. Kodwa akubona wonke umuntu ocabanga ngalokho ingane edingayo ngenjabulo nokuthi ingamvikela kanjani ezinkingeni nasemaphutha. Okokuqala, abazali abasha kufanele banakekele impilo yengane yabo, ngoba ngaphandle kwakhe lo mfana ngeke abe nobungane obuhle futhi obuhle. Umntanami okhanukisayo unamathuba amaningi ngenxa yalokhu, ngoba umama nobaba baqala ukumnakekela nempilo yakhe kaningi bekhona esigabeni sokuhlela: bahlolwa, bafuni ukusebenzisa utshwala kanye nogwayi. Ezungezwe uthando, ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa, owesifazane okhulelwe uveza lezi zifiso zomlingo kanye nomntwana, ozalwa ejabule futhi egcwele ukufisa ukuphila.

Ukuzijabulisa komndeni

Kodwa kukhona ukukhathazeka okulodwa kuphela mayelana nempilo, nakuba impendulo yombuzo "indlela yokukhulisa ingane ejabule?" Ingabe akuxhomeki ngokuqondile ezingeni lemali engenayo, isimo senhlalakahle, izimo zokuphila zomndeni. Okokuqala, ingane ifuna ukunaka nokukhulumisana njalo nabazali bayo. Khumbula, yikuphi isikhathi sakho esijabulisayo sobuntwana esixhunyiwe! Ngokuqinisekile ngokuhamba okuhambisana namageyimu, imikhankaso esekisini naseshashalazini, ukudla okudliwayo komndeni kanye nemikhosi ejabulisayo, futhi-ke, uthando lwabazali ubusuku. Beka eceleni umsebenzi, imisebenzi yasendlini - bayolinda, futhi bazinikezele kumntanakho - uzobona injabulo ingabi nje kuphela ewusizo, kodwa ngokuhlanganyela.

Isimo sasekhaya

Esinye sezimpendulo indlela yokwenza ingane ujabule ukudala isimo somusa nomusa emndenini. Vumela izinyane, naphezu kwezinkinga ezingxenyeni zezingane nasezinkingeni zokuphila, uzizwe ekhaya othandekayo futhi uvikelekile, lapha kumele uthole ukuthula, ukuqiniswa nokuqonda. Fundisa ingane ukuthethelela, futhi wena ngokwakho ubonisa ukubekezela: ukugxeka nokuxabana kwakho ngeke kubenze okuhle, ingane yakho kufanele ithembele abazali bayo, ngaphandle kwalokho imsongela ukungabi nobuhlobo obuqotho ekuphileni komdala.

Izifundo eziwusizo

Ngaphezu kokuthandana nokunakekelwa, abantwana bethu badinga isiqondiso sabazali. Yabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho nomncane wakho, umfundise umthwalo wemfanelo, ikhono lokubhekana nezinkinga zokuphila, uchaze "okuhle nokubi." Ngemva kokuba ingane yakho izwa okungenani ukuzimela kancane, iyoba nomqondo wokuzethemba nokuzibiza. Ngikholelwa, ukunakekelwa kwezingane ngendlela yokuphila komuntu omdala ongakulungele futhi ongakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga ezincane kakhulu.

Beka konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, uthando olungenamkhawulo lungene kumntanakho, ake unakekele futhi unakekele ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzoziqhenya esikhathini esizayo athi uneminyaka encane kakhulu.