Amadoda ayiyingxenye ebalulekile yomphakathi wethu. Futhi lokhu akufanele nje kuphela ukuthi emakethe yezabasebenzi kunezinzuzo ezingekho ngaphansi kobulili besifazane. Ukubaluleka kwezenhlalo zomuntu ekuphileni komuntu oyedwa wesifazane noma ingane kumenza angahlali emphakathini wethu. Yingakho amadoda anikezelwe emaholide emhlabeni jikelele.
Ngukuphi usuku usuku lwesilisa?
Emasimini asoMkhandlu, kuyisiko ukucubungula uSuku Lomvikeli Wezwekazi njengosuku lwesilisa. Kungani u-23 kuFebhuwari - lolusuku lwamadoda kunzima ukuqagela. Phela, okokuqala leli holide linikezelwa kuma-servicemen, futhi namuhla empini ungabhekana nenani elikhulu labesifazane. Kodwa ukuhalalisela ngoFebhuwari 23 kunikezelwe kuphela kubantu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, emazweni ahlukene kunamaholide kazwelonke anikezelwe amadoda. Ngakho eRussia, usuku lwamadoda emhlabeni wonke, uMikhail Gorbachev wamenywa ukuba ayogubha ngoMgqibelo wokuqala kaNovemba. Kodwa okuncane kuyaziwa ngalolu suku futhi ukuthandwa akukwaneli iholidi.
Eqinisweni, uSuku Lwabantu Basezizwe Wonke ligujwa ngoNovemba 19. Isikhathi sokuqala sagubha ngo-1999 esifundeni sase-Trinidad naseTobago, esiseLwandle lweCaribbean. Kodwa umsunguli weholidi nguJerome Tylunsingh, owamisa usuku lokugubha usuku lokuzalwa kukayise.
Umlando weholide kanye nomkhosi wawo
Umqondo wokwakha iholidi efana neSuku Lwabesifazane LwaseMhlabeni Wonke, lwavela phakathi nekhulu leminyaka elidlule. I-Strange njengoba izwakala, kodwa inkinga yokucwaswa ngokobulili iye yabathinta amadoda. Lokhu kuboniswe ikakhulu ekungalingani kwezenhlalo kobulili. Phela, emazweni amaningi emhlabeni, uhlelo lwezokwehlulela kanye nama-ejensi yokulondoloza ngaso sonke isikhathi limela ukuvikelwa kwezintshisekelo zikamama, futhi kuphela ezimweni ezingavamile ukuthi obaba bathola ukugcinwa kwezingane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iZizwe Ezihlangene zikhathazekile kakhulu ngempilo yabantu. Izenzakalo ziphelelwe usuku lwe-International Men's Day zikhombisa njalo noma izinkinga eziningi ezibhekene nomphakathi futhi zithinta amadoda kuphela. Eminyakeni ehlukene, imigomo yomkhosi yaba yikhambi lemibuzo enjalo:
- ukuvunywa kwesibonelo esihle somuntu emphakathini. Ngokuvamile, abantu abawaziwayo kuphela abavela ekubuyekezweni okujwayelekile, futhi abantu abafanelekayo nabathembekile, abasizungezile nsuku zonke, bahlale bengaboni;
- ukunikezwa kwegalelo elihle lamadoda emphakathini kanye nombuso wonke, nasemndenini nokukhuliswa kwezingane ngokukhethekile;
- isidingo sokunaka umphakathi kubantu ngezinkinga zempilo yabantu, ngokomzimba, ngokomoya nangenhlalakahle;
- ukucwaswa kwabantu emkhakheni wezenhlalakahle;
- ukulinganisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane, kanye nokuvimbela ukungalingani ngokobulili;
- ukudalwa kwemibandela yentuthuko kanye nokudalulwa okugcwele kwamandla abantu.
Ukuze ufeze imigomo ebekiwe kwiSuku Lomhlaba Wezinsizwa, amazwe abambe iqhaza abamba amaminithi athile abonisa izinkinga zabantu,
Kuze kube manje, amazwe angaphezu kuka-60 ajoyine umkhosi weSuku Lwabantu Basezizwe. Phakathi kwazo yi-USA, Russia, Ukraine, Kazakhstan, Great Britain, France , China, India , njll. Uhlelo lwe "Abesifazane kanye nokungalingani ngokobulili" oluhlelwe ne-UNESCO kubo bonke, lusekela ukuthuthukiswa kweholidi, futhi libheke phambili ekubambisaneni okuqhubekayo. Kodwa, ngeshwa, leli holide ayithandwa kakhulu okwamanje kanti nezinkinga zamadoda zihlala zingabonakali. Kodwa-ke, njengoba kucabangela ukuthi kwavela ngo-1999 kuphela, umuntu angathembela udumo olukhulu esikhathini esizayo.