Ukuhlukanisa akujabulisi muntu, ikakhulukazi uma lokhu kuhlukaniswa kungenxa yobuwula noma ukungaqondi kahle. Ngifuna ukubuyisa konke emuva, kodwa angazi kanjani? Akukho okungeke kwenzeke. Uma indoda yakho inguLeo, udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi udinga owesifazane ophumelelayo , ohlonishwa ngamanye amadoda, kodwa akaze aqiniseke ukuthi uphakeme ngaphezu kwakhe. I-Lion yesilisa ayithandi, futhi ayikwazi ukuxolisa, naye kuyadingeka ukwenza ukuyekethisa okuthile. Ngakho-ke, kuzodingeka wenze imizamo eminingi ukuqonda ukuthi ungabuyisela kanjani ingonyama yomuntu.
Ungabuyisa kanjani inzalo yeSilwane?
Ingonyama ayithandi ukungqubuzana, ngakho-ke, ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungayenza kanjani, kufanelekile ukuzikhandla futhi ufunde ukubuyisela ukuthula. Zama ukwamukela amaphutha akho bese umbiza engxoxweni engagwegwesi. Ukuze ubuyisele le-ngonyama-muntu, kufanele, okokuqala, sishintshe ngokwayo. Kubalulekile ukuguqula ukubukeka lapho ukuziphatha nokungafaneleki kufanele kuvunyelwane khona. Mhlawumbe uzothola enkampanini evamile, bese-ke kufanele uziphatha ukuze amadoda okuzungezile ahlasele ngawe. Kumelwe futhi ube bushelelezi futhi ube nokuzola, ukuze kungabikho muntu osolisayo. Zama ukwenza ukuncoma okulula ku-Leo wakho wesilisa, ukuze azizwe inhlonipho yakho, ukuzimela kwakho nokuzimela.
Sebenzisa ubuthakathaka bakhe
Kubo bonke baphenduka embuzweni, ukuthi bangabuyisela kanjani ingonyama-mbono, izazi zengqondo zeluleka: kumele sidlale ngokuzihlonipha kwakhe. Amabhubesi afisa kakhulu ukuthandaza, ngakho-ke udumo oluqotho, luzosiza okhethiweyo wakho
Ungabuyisa kanjani uthando lweS Lion?
Kulula uma ungalindeli ukuba avume amaphutha, uxolise, futhi umsize ukuba aphumele kuleso simo ikhanda lakhe liphezulu. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngeke uzithobe, uphenduke noma ucele intethelelo. Ungasho kuphela ukuthi ukuxabana akuyona iphutha lakho. Kodwa usamthanda futhi ungathanda ukwethemba ukuthi imizwa yakhe ayizange ihlile noma. Khumbula ukuthi kufanele ufanise okhethiweyo wakho ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Futhi-ke ngeke ube nombuzo ukuthi ungabuyisela kanjani ingonyama-muntu ngemuva kokuhlukanisa , ngoba angeke akushiye.