Abazali banakekela izingane zabo hhayi kusukela ekuzalweni, kepha ngisho kuze kube mzuzu nje wokukhulelwa. Emva kwakho konke, zonke izono zethu kanye nobuhle ziwumthwalo noma isibusiso ekupheleni kwezingane ezizayo.
Emikhayeni yobuKrestu ehloniphekile khulu, abazali ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kufanele bathole isibusiso somphristi. Ngaphambi kwalokhu, umuntu kufanele avume futhi aphenduke ezonweni zakhe (emva kwakho konke, ukungabi nabantwana ngokuvamile kuvunyelwa ukuziphatha kabi ngokobulili kozakwethu). Futhi ukwenza konke lokhu kusetshenziselwa kufanele kube ngumlingani, hhayi nje ngowesifazane kuphela.
Imiphi imithandazo efundwa ngaphambi kokukhulelwa?
Umthandazo wokukhulelwa kwengane akufanele ufundwe ethempelini ngaphambi kokuvuma noma isibusiso sompristi, kodwa futhi ekhaya nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ikakhulukazi ngaphambi kwesikhashana sokukhulelwa.
Ungazibona njalo emithandazweni efundwa ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kwengane, amagama athi "Intando yakho yenziwe". Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umuntu uzimisele ngokuthobela ukwamukela intando kaNkulunkulu empilweni yakhe, kanti ingane ayiyona into kodwa intando kaNkulunkulu.
Ukukhulelwa kwengane, imithandazo yaseSt. Xenia yaseSt. Petersburg, uMama Matrona, Theotokos, Alexander Svirsky nabanye bafundwa. Ngokungangabazeki, ngokuvamile abesifazane bafunda imithandazo mayelana nokukhulelwa kwengane kuTheotokos. Umthandazo olandelayo kufanele ufunde ngaphambi kwesithonjana "Umphikisi":
"Primi, O Wonke-Ubusisiwe Nonke-Mandlakazi Omkhulu, Umama WeNdlovukazi, Ukuzinikela, lo mthandazo odabukisayo, ngezinyembezi Ulethwa kusuka kithi, ongafaneleki ezincekwini zakho, ekuthumeni kwakho ngomfanekiso ukuhlabelela ngothando, Ubani ongokoqobo wakho kanye nomthandazo wokulalela nokucela kwethu ngokukholwa okucelayo. Ngokuhambisana nesicelo, ukukhishwa kwenziwa, insizakalo iyasizwa, abagulayo bayagula abagulayo, abagulayo nababuthakathaka, baphulukiswa, bevela emademoni kaDeveli, bekhutshwe yizinkinga, abanochoko bahlanzekile kanye nezingane ezincane, ngisho naseNdodanenikazi kaMama kaMama kaNkulunkulu, kusukela enkulumweni yenkululeko nenkululeko kanye nazo zonke izinhlobo I-passion vrachueshi: konke okusemqoka kungenzeka ngokuncenga kwakho eNdodaneni yakho, uKristu uNkulunkulu wethu. O, Umama Okhukhumezekile, Unina Ongcwele KaNkulunkulu! Ungayeki ukusikhuleka ngathi, ongafanelanga izinceku zakho, ukukhazimulisa nokukhuleka, nokukhuleka ngomfanekiso wakho omsulwa, nethemba lalabo abanakho ngeke babuyele, kanye nokholo oluhle kuwe, iNdodana ehlala ebusisiwe kanye noNgcwele, ekhazimulisayo futhi ehloniphayo futhi ekhala njalo naphakade. Amen. "
Yiziphi izinsuku ongazithatha ingane?
Umthandazo wama-Orthodox wokukhulelwa kwengane uzosebenza, kuphela uma uhambisana neminye imithetho yobuKristu yokukhulelwa. Umthetho obaluleke kakhulu usuku lokukhulelwa. Ekhalendeni lesonto kunezinsuku eziningi lapho izenzo zobulili phakathi komshado zibhekwa njengesono:
- ngesikhathi sokuzila;
- kusihlwa ngamaholide amakhulu;
- ngehora lesuku lokuzila ukudla - ngoLwesithathu nangoLwesihlanu (ngosuku ngaphambi kokuba lisho ukuthi awukwazi ukuya ocansini kusukela ngo-4: 00 ngoLwesibili noLwesine, ngokulandelana);
- ngeSonto;
- ngosuku lomshado.
EbuKristwini (ngokungafani nobuSulumane) umuntu akakwazi ukwenza uthando ngosuku lomshado, ngoba ukukhanya komshado umpristi kubhekwa njengemfihlakalo enkulu engangcoliswa.
I-Matrona Engcwele
UMatrona Ongcwele ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe wasiza abesifazane abaningi ukuba balahle umthwalo wokungakhulelwa, waba ngumsizi weqiniso wabesifazane. Emva kokufa kwakhe, abesifazane baqala ukumbuza ngokukhulelwa kwengane emithandazweni yeMatronushka.
"O mama obusisiwe uMatrono, umphefumulo ezulwini ngaphambi kwesihlalo sobukhosi sikaNkulunkulu sifikile, nomzimba phansi ekuphumuleni komhlaba, futhi lo
Namuhla, ngomusa wakho kithi, izoni, ezinsizini, izifo kanye nezilingo zamademoni, sinezinsuku zethu zokuphelelwa yithemba, siduduze, ukuphelelwa yithemba, ukuphilisa izifo zethu, okuvela kuNkulunkulu izono zethu zithunyelwe kithi, zisisindise ezinsizini eziningi nezimo futhi sithandaze eNkosini yethu uJesu UKristu, usithethelele zonke izono zethu, ukungalungi nezono, kusukela ebusheni bethu kuze kube yilolu suku nehora ngesono, nangemithandazo yakho, samukele umusa nesihe esikhulu, sidumisa uNkulunkulu kathathu - uYise neNdodana, noMoya oNgcwele, futhi manje naphakade namakhulu eminyaka. Amen. "