Umlingo wengqondo yikhono lokufunda imicabango yabantu, futhi ukubathinta. Ukuze uqaphele lokhu, udinga ukufunda ukulawula imizwelo yakho nemicabango yakho.
Ukuzivocavoca kwemilingo yengqondo
Kunezenzo eziningana ezizosiza ukuthuthukisa ikhono elingaphezu kwamandla:
- Ukubukeka ngokomzimba . Ngalokhu ungathatha noma iyiphi into, isibonelo, i-apula. Ukubamba ezandleni zakho, ukuhogela, ukuzizwa, ngokujwayelekile, yenza konke ukukhumbula yonke imininingwane. Bese ubeka eceleni, vula amehlo akho bese uqala ukukhumbula ukukhumbula i-apula. Phinda izinsuku ezingaba ngu-10, bese ushintsha isihloko. Imfihlo yemilingo yengqondo ingamandla okucabanga, futhi ngokufunda ukubuka ngeso lengqondo noma yikuphi into, uzokwenza isinyathelo esikhulu ekufinyeleleni umgomo.
- Ukubukwa kwetheksthi . Zibuke wena ohlangothini, njengokungathi umile izicathulo ezinotshani obuluhlaza, futhi ngemilenze amandla weMhlaba eza kuwe. Yenza lokhu kuze kube yilapho umzimba wonke ugcwele futhi uqala ukukhanya. Ngokufanayo, ake ucabange ukuthi uphethe i-goblet yesiliva futhi uphuze uketshezi oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Kumele ubone ukuthi igcwalisa kanjani umzimba futhi uchithe konke okubumnyama. Khumbula ukuthi imfihlo eyinhloko yemilingo yengqondo ingamandla okucabanga futhi kuphela ngokuthuthukisa lekhono, uzofinyelela eziphakeme kakhulu.
- Ukubukwa kwengqondo . Hlaziya isimo sakho sengqondo, uma kukhona okungalungile, ngakho-ke kudingeka ufunde ukuthi ungayilahla kanjani. Cabanga ngeso lengqondo yakho endaweni kusuka esifubeni kuya kwinkaba, ngokuma kwe-oval. Cabanga ukuthi kuba kanjani okugqamile futhi kugcwele amandla. Uma ungakwazi ukususa isimo sengqondo esibi ngale ndlela, bese uqala ukuqhuba nabanye abantu.
- Impembelelo yengqondo . Sekuyisikhathi sokufunda ukuthi ungalawula kanjani imicabango yakho.
- Ukubukwa kwe-Causal . Njengoba uvuka ekuseni, ucabange usuku lwakho lonke: ukuthi usuka kanjani endlini, ukuthi ukuthutha okudingekayo kufike kanjani ngesikhathi sokumisa. Ngokuvamile, cabanga ukuthi konke kuzoba kuhle ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuvele kuwe noma cha, ungahlola phakathi nosuku.