Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi izingane zidinga usizo lwezingqondo. Bathi, njengabantu abadala, babhekene nezinkinga ezingokomzwelo, bahlushwa ukucindezeleka, besaba ukwesaba. Kodwa ochwepheshe abanezingane kunzima ukusebenza kakhulu. Phela, badinga indlela ekhethekile.
Ukwelashwa kwemidlalo kuyaba okuvamile ekusebenzeni nabantu abadala. Umdlalo usiza izingane ukuba zilahle konke ukuhlukumezeka "okudlayo" ngaphakathi, kubonisa ukwesaba, umhawu kubafowabo abasebasha noma odadewabo, umuzwa wokunganaki noma ukungavikeleki. Ukubuka umdlalo, umuntu omdala anganquma ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga, izikhalazo zomlomo, ongavezwanga ngamazwi, okuhlangenwe nakho kwengane.
Izindlela zokwelashwa kwemidlalo
Ezikhathini zanamuhla zengqondo, ochwepheshe basebenzisa izindlela zokudlala ukwelashwa emsebenzini wabo nezingane. Ungasho ngokuphepha ukuthi isiqubulo sale ndlela "Ungaphathi, kodwa uqonde." Umgomo wayo awukuguqula ingane, kodwa ukufakazela ukuthi "Mina".
Izinhlobo zokwelashwa kwemidlalo
Njengamanje, ukwelashwa kwemidlalo kufakwa njengo:
- I-ego-analytic therapy (abahlengikazi, ngesikhathi semidlalo, banikeza ingane incazelo ehlukahlukene ukuze amsize aqonde futhi amukele izingxabano ezingokomzwelo ayephoqelelwe ngaphandle noma enqatshelwe).
- Ukwelapha, okugxile ekufundeni kwezenhlalakahle (isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sigxile ekufundiseni ingane ukuba idlale nabanye, hhayi ekuthinteni kokuqukethwe kwemidlalo yezingane).
- Ukwelashwa kwemidlalo engekho emthethweni (ezimweni eziningi, lo mhlengikazi awusizo futhi ingane isekela ngezigwebo ezingenangqondo, ezisiza ukuba ziveze izingxabano zabo ngokuthola isixazululo.) Lokhu kuchazwe ngokuningiliziwe encwadini kaG GL Landrett ethi "Game therapy: ubuciko bobuhlobo".
I-Game therapy - umzimba
Ukuqhuba ukwelashwa kwemidlalo ekhaya, ungasebenzisa le midlalo:
- "Ukukwazi". Hlela izingane ukuba wazi kahle. Zibhidliza zibe ngababili, zisize ukuba zibize futhi zivumele ukuba zibuze igama lomakhelwane wazo.
- "Usuku lokuzalwa". Ngenxa yalesi mdlalo, zonke izingane zizozizwa ziphakathi. Yenza ngokuhlukile
usuku lokuzalwa. Ngisize ngithi ukuhalalisela nezifiso. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi izingane ezinesihluku zidinga imidlalo ezisiza ukulahleka imizwelo emibi, kanye nalawo mdlalo ofundisa kahle ukuveza imizwelo nemizwa yabo. - "Toy." Nika enye yezibambiso ithoyizi elihle, bese usiza ingane yesibili ukuba imbuze yona, ngesikhathi esifanayo, uma kunesidingo, kudingeka ihlinzeke ngempikiswano.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane zingabantu abakhethekile futhi zidinga indlela ekhethekile. Phela, imikhuba yokuphila komuntu omdala isethwe phansi ebuntwaneni.