Indlela yokuhlela ukugcinwa kwengane encane, yiziphi izinhlobo zokulondoloza (ukunakekelwa) kunezingane, nezinye izici eziphathelene nalolu daba, ake sikhulume ngalesi sihloko.
Kuyadingeka nini ukuhlela ukunakekelwa nokugcinwa kwengane?
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi umndeni uyisiqalo sokuqala, abantu abasondelene kakhulu futhi abathandekayo, umama onothando nomnakekelayo, lokhu kusekelwa nokusekelwa, lezi ziholide kanye namasiko, lokhu kuyisiqinisekiso sokuthuthukiswa komuntu ogcwele nokwanele. Ingane ngayinye evelayo kumele ikhule emndenini, ube nobuntwana obujabulisayo. Kodwa-ke, izibalo azikwazi ukuxolisa, futhi ukusebenza emzimbeni wokulondolozwa kanye ne-trusteeship akusho ukuthi kube ngaphansi kweminyaka.
Izingane eziningi zihlala zingenakunakekelwa abazali ngoba:
- ukufa kwabazali;
- ukunqandwa noma ukuvinjelwa kwamalungelo omzali.
Esikhathini sokuqala, konke kusobala. Izinhlekelele, izifo, imililo, izinhlekelele zemvelo - kuthatha amakhulu ezinkulungwane zabantu. Futhi kuyesabisa ukucabanga ukuthi zingaki izingane ezihlala zihlala izintandane.
Ngokuqondene nokulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali, kunezinketho eziningi. Isinqumo sokwahlulela singasusa, njengomunye, nabazali bomalungelo omzali ngezizathu ezinjalo:
- ukwenqaba kwabazali kusukela emntwaneni;
- ukungabi khona isikhathi eside (ukuhamba ngokuqhubekayo kwebhizinisi, isikhathi sokukhonza ezindaweni zokulahla inkululeko);
- ukwephulwa kwamalungelo kanye nezithakazelo zomuntu omncane;
- ukuphatha kabi ingane;
- ukuxhaswa kwezidakamizwa noma utshwala.
Ngokusobala, ezimweni ezinjalo, ingane idinga umgcini noma abaphathiswa. Ngokuvamile lezi ziyihlogogo, noma ezinye izihlobo eziseduze.
Izidingo kanye nezimpawu ezikhethekile zokugcinwa kwabantwana
Okokuqala sizokwenza ukubhuka ukuthi ngaphansi kwamaphuphu wokugcina, kuthathwe ngaphansi kweminyaka engu-14 ubudala, futhi ngaphansi kwezingane zokugcina kusukela eminyakeni engu-14 kuya kwengu-18. Ukufaka esitokisini noma ukugcinwa kwengane, omele ukhetho kumele:
- kufanele ukwazi ngokomthetho;
- ungekho izinkolelo zangaphambili;
- ukuze uthole imali engenayo ephakeme kunobuncane bokuhlala;
- unendawo yokuhlala yokuhlala unomphela;
- angabikelwe amalungelo omzali futhi ngeke asuswe esitokisini noma ekugcineni.
Futhi ukugcinwa nokugcinwa kwezingane ezincane akukwenzelwa abantu abanezifo eziningi: i-oncology, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, isifo sofuba kanye nabanye. Uma umqashi wabalindi (abaphathiswa) eshadile, lowo oshade naye noma oshade naye kumele ahlangabezane nazo zonke izidingo ezingenhla.
Ukuze ube ngumlondolozi wengane, kuyadingeka ukuthi uthumele imibhalo eceliwe eziphathimandla ezifanele bese ufaka isicelo nabaphathi bokugcinwa kanye nabaphathi be-trusteeship.
Umgomo oyinhloko wokulondolozwa nokugcinwa ngumsebenzi ukukhuliswa nokufundiswa kwengane, kanye nokuvikelwa kwamalungelo kanye nezithakazelo zakhe.
Umthetho unikeza izinkokhelo ezikhethekile nezinzuzo:
- Ukukhokhwa kwezindleko ezincike ekuthembekeni ekuqaleni nokuqedwa kokugcinwa;
ukukhokhelwa ngenyanga, ikhokhwe njalo ngenyanga kuze kube yilapho ingane ifinyelela eminyakeni yobudala. Inani lezinzuzo lixhomeke esifundeni sokuhlala.
Ukugcinwa okuhlanganyelwe kwengane
Ukubamba iqhaza okulinganayo ekukhulisweni kwengane kababa nomama emva kokuhlukanisa akuyona into nje yokugcinwa kokubambisana, okuvumela bobabili abazali ukuba bahlanganyele empilweni yengane, babe nemfanelo efanayo ngomntanakho. Imishanguzo enjalo emthethweni inikeza indlela enengqondo yokukhulisa izingane kulezo zimindeni lapho abazali bahlukanisile futhi bahlala ngokwehlukana.