Emphakathini wanamuhla, isimo sengqondo siyinkinga ephikisana kakhulu futhi ezindaweni ezahlukene kunezincazelo ezahlukene. Umuntu uhlangana naye nsuku zonke, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho angayiboni. Noma kunjalo, into eyinhloko incazelo yayo - lokhu kuyisenzo ngokuvumelana nesimiso, nesimo esenziwe kusengaphambili.
Ukuhlukaniswa - kuyini?
Umthetho wethu womthethosisekelo unomunye wemigomo esemqoka - isimo. Lena incazelo ephelele yemithetho yokuziphatha esimweni esithile sokuphila, esilungiselelwe kusengaphambili. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi kuyisisekelo sesimiso sezomthetho, futhi kubonakala njengesiyalo sokuphoqeleka kwesenzo esifundweni ngasinye. Ukuhlukaniswa yizimo ezingenakwenzeka ezisiza ukucubungula izenzakalo ezingenzeka kusengaphambili, ekupheleni komcimbi.
Ukuhlukaniswa kwe-Psychology
Ochwepheshe bayazi ukuthi kunjani isimo sengqondo futhi basebenzise ngenkuthalo lolu hlelo emsebenzini wabo. Bahlola ukulungela komuntu ukwenza inombolo ethile yezenzo ezingabangela kokubili imiphumela emihle nembi. Ukuhlaziya umhlaba wangaphakathi wabantu, ungaqonda ukuthi yiziphi izenzo abakulungele ukuzenza. Ukuhlola okulungile kuzosiza ukukhomba izigebengu ezingaba khona futhi uzivimbele ukungena emphakathini ngaphandle kosizo olukhethekile.
Umqondo wesimo sokusebenza kwengqondo kubanzi kakhulu. Kwaqala ngisho nokusetshenziselwa umsebenzi womphakathi, ukuze ubone umbono ophelele womuntu namakhono akhe. Ubuntu obungaguquguquki kumele buzivumelanise futhi bube nemigomo ejwayelekile, futhi ukuphambuka kubo kuholela emiphumeleni emibi noma emihle. Kunoma yikuphi, ngeke kwenzeke ukuba iseli eligcwele lomphakathi, ngaphandle kwezinyathelo zalo, ngisho noma kungenjalo ngokuphelele.
Ukunikezwa kokulahla
Ochwepheshe bachaza indlela yokulahlwa kwezinto ezithintekayo ezingqondweni, okubangela ukuqonda izenzo nezenzo ezenziwe ngumuntu. Lokhu kuyincazelo yezenzo zomuntu siqu noma zabanye ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Abantu abanjalo bajwayele ukungazinaki isixazululo esijwayelekile kule nkinga, bathambekele ekuthembeleni kuphela kwabo futhi banikeze iseluleko kumuntu siqu futhi badlulise lolu hlelo. Ukunikezwa kanje kulandelayo:
- Incazelo yabantu isekelwe kumfanelo yomuntu siqu (funny, nomusa, ohlakaniphile), kunokuthi ngokucacile kubonisa isimo, ukuziphatha, ukubukeka noma idatha yomuntu .
- Ukungamukeleki kokuziphatha okuphoqelelwe ezindaweni ezahlukene.
- Chaza isenzo esifisa abantu kanye nezinyathelo zabo ezihlose ukuzuza.
- Ukulahla ngokugcwele izimo zangempela nokucwiliswa ekubikezelweni okucatshangwayo ngezinyathelo ezihleliwe.
Ukuhlukaniswa ubuntu
Noma yisiphi isakhiwo esimisiwe somuntu sakhiwe ezweni langaphakathi lomuntu futhi lichazwe ngezenzo zakhe. Umbono ovelele wemibandela ethathwa ngumphakathi kanye nokuziphatha kulezi zimo, lokhu kuyisimo somuntu siqu. Izilungiselelo zomphakathi zinikeza inkululeko yokuzikhethela kunoma yisiphi isimo futhi umuntu unelungelo lokukhetha inkambo yokuqhubeka. Into esemqoka akukona ukulahlekelwa ukuxhumana nomphakathi, ngoba lokhu kungaholela ekulahlekelweni kokujwayela.
Izindlela eziphakeme zomuntu zakha uhlelo oluchaza umqondo wokuphila. Ngokuxhumana nabantu abasebenza kancane, bangakwazi ukuzilungisela bona noma ngokumelene nabo. Ukuxhumana njalo kufundisa umuntu ukuba azimele, abonise umbono wakhe futhi avikele izikhundla zabo. Kulesi simo, indima ebalulekile idlalwe isipiliyoni, wonke umuntu othola ngesikhathi sokuphila.
Ukuchitha - ifilosofi
Kufilosofi yokuhlaziya, indlela elahlayo isetshenziselwa ukucubungula izimo ezingenzeka. Izikhathi ezinjalo azange zivivinywe ngokuzikhandla futhi ziyizicabangela. Noma kunjalo, ukuvela kwalesi simo kuyinto engokoqobo, futhi ngaleyo njongo uhlelo lokuqala luyasungulwa. Uma umuntu elula, kuyamsiza empilweni, ngoba uyakwazi ukuhlela izenzo zakhe kusengaphambili, ngaleyo ndlela enze amaphutha kancane kancane.
Efilosofi, leli gama lisetshenziselwa ukuchaza izincazelo eziningi ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze akulindeleke ukuba zibhekwe ngabanye. Kule sayensi, ukumelelwa kwengqondo nokuqhubeka nokusebenza kuyo kubaluleke kakhulu. Ochwepheshe bathi le ndlela isiza abantu ukuba bajoyine imvelo yezenhlalo ngokushesha futhi bathole uhlangothi lwabo lokuxhumana, lapho ungaba khona khona.
Ukuhlukaniswa - inhlalakahle
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwezenhlalakahle kubamba ezinye izimo zabantu ezibhekene nesimo esithile. Kushiwo ukuthini ngalesi simo? Ukubona okuqondile nokuhlola kwemibandela yemisebenzi yabo kanye nokuphendula kwabantu abakuzungezile. Ngakho-ke esimweni sengqondo sezenhlalakahle senziwa lapho kwenzeka isimo esithile kanye nesisombululo sayo esifanele. Isimo sangaphakathi somuntu nesipiliyoni sakhe sidlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu lapha.
Umphakathi wamanje ubeka umuntu ngaphambi kokukhetha. Ochwepheshe bahlele lesi simo futhi baqaphela amazinga amane amakhulu:
- Izimo ezishintshayo ngokushesha, kokubili okuyisisekelo futhi kwangempela.
- Izinkinga zesimo seqembu, lapho isinqumo senziwa okungenani abantu abayishumi.
- Isimo eside sokusebenza - umndeni, sebenzisa.
- Izimo ezithatha isikhathi eside nokuzikhandla - ezombusazwe, isiko nokunye.