Isithelo esivinjelwe siyaziwa sibe mnandi. Amantombazane abafisa ukunambitha lo mnandi kakhulu kufanele akhumbule imiphumela ekhona yezocansi zakuqala. Ukuthola ulwazi olufanele kule ndaba kusho ukuvikelwa. Mayelana nalokhu futhi ukhulume.
Izibalo, isayensi yezokwelapha kanye namagciwane
Ngokumelene nemiphumela yezibalo zomhlaba, isilinganiso seminyaka yamantombazane esangena ebuhlotsheni obuseduze yiminyaka engu-18, okuyinto enhle kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, eRussia, isipiliyoni sokuqala socansi sitholwa ngabantu abasha abaphakathi kweminyaka engu-15 no-17. Futhi ngokuvumelana nezibalo ezifanayo, u-7% wezinhle ezitholile zinezocansi zokuqala zobulili ngaphambi kokuzalwa kweminyaka engu-15. Lesi sigaba seminyaka sisengozini enkulu.
Ukulungela ukuziphatha
Iminyaka lapho amantombazane eqala ukungena nabo ngokocansi ayingxenye ebalulekile ekuhloleni ubulili kanye nokwakhiwa kobuhlobo obuseduze nabo. Kuyoba okulungile noma okungalungile - konke kuxhomeke ekuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala. Okushoyo, uma okokuqala kungaphumeleli. Akuyona iphutha lomlingani wakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi imbangela yokuxhumana engaphumeleli kwaba ukungahleleki kwengqondo komlingani wakho. Intombazane eqala ukusondelana nensizwa ngenxa yokwesaba uma kungavumelani ukuba inqatshelwe nguye noma ngenxa yokuthi "ingabeki emuva" izintombi, hhayi ukuba "izimvu ezimnyama", yenza iphutha elikhulu. Ukugxila emibonweni yabanye, okokuqala, ukuzilimaza. Ubani okhathalelayo ocabanga? Izintombi "ezithuthuka ngokobulili" maduzane ziyoba "izimpahla eziphindwe kabili", ngakho kufanelekile ukuba zibe kubo?
Ukuya ocansini kwasebancane kungaba nemiphumela emibi kubantu. Abafana abancane abanesifo socansi abaneminyaka engama-12 no-15 bavame ukubhekana ne-fiasco ephelele. Lokhu kubangelwa injabulo nokuntuleka kokuvuthwa kwaleyo nsizwa. Ngemuva kokuthi "i-début" efanayo, amathuba okwesaba ukusondelana, izinkinga nge-potency zikhulu.
Ukuzilungiselela ngokomzimba
Lapho eneminyaka engu-12 kuya kwengu-14, le ntombazane ayinalutho kodwa ilukuluku. Ingane ibhekene neminyaka yobudala obunzima. Into ebaluleke kakhulu eminyakeni engu-13 ukugcizelela nokuheha. Amantombazane ikakhulukazi afuna ukukhombisa ukukhula kwabo nokuhlukumeza abesifazane. Kodwa ngokomzimba isitho seminyaka engu-12 noma ngisho neminyaka engu-14 ubudala ayilungele ukuphila kobulili. Izitho zobulili zangaphakathi zentombazane ezisencane zisaqhubeka zingaphuthuki, zijwayele ukuvuvukala nokusabalala kwezifo. Umonakalo wezocansi zakuqala uhlotshaniswa nezinkinga zokuzala esikhathini esizayo, ukukhulelwa okunzima nokubeletha. Ngakho-ke ubulili bokuqala nokungafuneki phakathi kweminyaka engu-12 no-14 buholela eqinisweni lokuthi intombazane ngeke ikwazi ukuzwa i-orgasm uma ikhula.
Izinga elihlukile lokukhulelwa lenza abanye babe nethuba eliphezulu lokukhulelwa emva kokuxhumana okusheshayo. Ukukhulelwa okungafuneki ezimweni ezingavamile kungaqhubeka kahle ngempumelelo, kodwa umama wesikhathi esizayo akaqondi yonke imithwalo yemfanelo futhi akanakulungeli ukuba ngumama.
Inani eliphakeme kakhulu lokukhipha izisu livela emantombazaneni asebasha. Umphumela wokusebenza okunjalo ukungazalwa. Yilokho okuholela ekuhloleni kwesandulela ngculazi. Lokhu kufanelekile ukucabanga ngaphambi kokungena ekuphileni "omdala".
Zivikele
Bambalwa abantu abazama ukufunda emaphutheni abanye abantu. Ngomnikazi, ngokusobala, ukwenza okuthakazelisayo okwengeziwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, ukunquma ngesandulela ngculaza ebuntwaneni abaningi. Uma unquma, qaphela ukuvikelwa kwakho ezifweni ezihlukahlukene. Xoxa ngezindlela zakho ezithandanayo zokubeletha, ongakulungele ukuzalwa komntwana?
Ukuze ikhondomu yokuqala yezocansi ifaneleke. Cela le nsizwa ukuthi isebenzise le ndlela. Myeke ukukhetha kwakhe ngokuziphendulela. Ungathengi amakhondomu ema-kiosks ezinqoleni, kungcono ukuxhumana nekhemisi. Thembela brand odumile nabakhiqizi. Into ekhwalithi ayikwazi ukushiswa.
Ubuhle bobudlelwane obuseduze buza ngokugcwele "kumbali" yomuntu. Ukulinda, njengoba besho, kuqinisa ukudla futhi kwenza izinzwa zizwakale futhi zibalabala. Ungasheshi, linda kancane. Ngempela, konke kunesikhathi saso.