Kukhona phakathi kwezinsuku eziningi nezinombolo ezimpilweni zethu ezibangela umphefumulo womuntu ukwesaba nokwesaba ukukhohliswa. Zihlanganiswa nezinkolelo ezihlukahlukene, zibhekwa njengezici zobungqingili, zivele ziyesaba futhi zizama, njalo ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuthi zingakhulumi ngokuzwakalayo. Enye yalezi zinombolo zemilingo nezomnyama yi-nombolo engu-40. Abantu abaningi bathi ngisho nangesinye isizathu akunakwenzeka ukugubha iminyaka engu-40 ngamadoda noma ngaphezulu nakwabesifazane. Iyini usawoti lapha, ake sizame ukuyihlola manje.
Kungani ungaqapheli iminyaka engamashumi amane?
Ngakho-ke, ingabe ungakwazi noma awukwazi ukugubha iminyaka engu-40 futhi ngani? Ukuze uxazululwe le nkinga enzima neyinkinga, okokuqala faka ulwazi lwabazali. Ekholweni lobuKrestu kungosuku lwamashumi amane lapho ekugcineni bethi bazuze umphefumulo womhlobo oshonile. Kukholelwa ukuthi isikhathi esiningi kakhulu uNkulunkulu anquma isiphetho sakhe futhi uyichaza ezulwini noma esihogweni. Kulandela ukuthi inombolo engu-40 ihlobene nokufa, futhi wayesethusa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokungaqiniseki kwakhe.
Ukuqinisekiswa kwencazelo evelele yenombolo 40 nakho kwenzeka encwadini enkulu yamaKristu eBhayibheli. Isibonelo, uMose nabantu bamaJuda bahamba bahamba ehlane iminyaka engama-40 ngaphambi kokufika emngceleni wezwe elithenjisiwe. Futhi emva kokubhapathizwa kwakhe, uKristu wazila izinsuku ezingu-40, futhi ehlane. Ihlane ezinhliziyweni zabantu abaningi lihlotshaniswa noma indawo yokudabuka nokudangala, noma ngokufa uqobo. Futhi ukuzila ukudla ezimweni eziningi kubhekwa njengento edidayo. Yingakho abaseYurophu bakholelwa ukuthi ukugubha iminyaka engu-40 akunakwenzeka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, amafutha kulo mlilo athululelwa ngabalimi abahlukahlukene, abatshakathi, abaqaphi nama shaman. Lapho omunye wabamele laba bazalwane abanesibindi ebuzwa ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa eneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, waphendula ukuthi akayincoma kakhulu. Futhi lapho ebuzwa ukuba aqinisekise isitatimende sakhe, uvumele inkungu ngokusho ukuthi ngemuva kweminyaka engamashumi amane umphefumulo ubulawa ukufa. Ngakho, ukuzijabulisa kulolu suku kufana nokudansa emngcwabeni wakho. Bullshit, Yebo, kodwa yini esihogweni akuyona ukuhleka.
Kungenzeka yini ukugubha iminyaka engama-40, umbono wezazi zengqondo
Kodwa izazi zengqondo ezinombono wama-shamans nenkolo azivumelani. Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani bengakwazi ukugubha usuku lwabo lokuzalwa lwama-40, bahlambalaza amahlombe abo bathi lokhu kuyindaba yangasese kubo bonke abantu. Konke kuncike kulokho okulindele wena kusukela kulolu suku. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kufana nokuheha. Uyolinda ukukhohliswa okungcolile, ngeke akhuphule phansi ngaye. Futhi zama ukudala imizwa yemikhosi, ngakho-ke iholide endlini yakho futhi uhlale. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, izazi zengqondo zincoma ukuthi zingalokothi zikhulume ngalolo suku inombolo 40, futhi zihalalisele usuku lokuzalwa ekupheleni konyaka we-39 wokuphila.
Ingabe abantu bagubha iminyaka engu-40?
Ngokuvamile, yebo, ngoba isigamu esiphezulu sesintu kuya ezinkolelweni ezihlukahlukene siyancipha, sibacabangela izinganekwane noma izingane eziyiziwula eziyingozi. Kodwa phakathi kwabo kukhona abantu abesaba impilo yabo nempilo yabo. Omunye umuntu osekhulile wake wabuzwa ukuthi ngabe amadoda agubha iminyaka engu-40 noma azimisele ukwenza kanjalo? Ephendula lokho, watshela indaba yonke eyenzeka kuye ngelanga leJubane lakhe lama-40.
Kuze kube yilolu suku olubi, ngokuvamile wayengakholelwa lutho futhi wayekholelwa ukuthi konke lokhu kuyize futhi kubika ugogo. Kusihlwa, lapho iqhawe lethu libuya ekhaya liphuma emsebenzini, umkakhe wayemboze itafula le-chic, izihlobo eziseduze nabangane abangcono bavakashela. Iholide yayiyimpumelelo. Yiqiniso, omunye wabavakashi wadedela ihlaya, bathi, iminyaka engama-40 ayigubhi, ungafa. Kodwa umsunguli womkhosi wale nsizwa wahleka, futhi iholide yayiqhubekela phambili. Sahlukana kakade emva kwamabili phakathi kwamabili. Abanikazi abakhathele nabajabulayo balala, kuhle, kusasa ngoMgqibelo, usuku luvuliwe. Phakathi nobusuku umfana wokuzalwa waphaphama ukoma futhi wanquma ukuya ngokuthula waya ekhishini, kodwa wavuka kuphela, wahlaba kabi kanjani ikhanda lakhe ngento enzima.