Ngokweziko zama-Orthodox, izingane zibhapathiziwe. Kukholelwa ukuthi emva kwalesi siko ingane ithola ingelosi yakhe yokuqapha. Yingakho isakramente sokubhapathizwa sizama ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze singashiyi umntwana ngaphandle kokuvikelwa. Umkhosi wokubhapathizwa awubalulekile kuphela ingane kanye nabazali bakhe, kodwa futhi kulabo abahlonishwayo ukuba babe onkulunkulu nomama wengane. Ngakho unina unamathela ezandleni zakhe phakathi nomkhosi wonke bese edlulisela umntwana kubaba ngokungena emfonini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, onkulunkulukazi kufanele banikeze isipho sikaNkulunkulu, ngakho kubalulekile ukucabanga ngokucophelela ngalokho okumele kunikeze ekubhapathizweni kwengane.
Yini engokwesiko ukunikeza umfana umKristu?
Abantu abangaqapheli ikakhulukazi umhlangano wokubhapathizwa abazi njalo ukuthi banganikeza uNkulunkuluson for christening. Ukuqeda ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo, okokuqala sizoqonda ukuthi yini enqunyiwe ukunikeza amasiko. Ngokwesiko lendodana encane, onkulunkulukazi kufanele bembethe konke okusha kusukela enhloko kuya enyaweni. Kodwa kusukela cishe wonke umkhosi ingane isesandleni sikaNkulunkulu, ngakho-ke nguye okufanele anikeze izingubo ezinganeni. Ngaphandle kwehembe lokubhapathizwa nekhanda, kudingeka futhi uqaphele ingozi (indwangu noma ithawula, ehlanganiswe nengane, ephuma efolini). Iziphi izipho zomfana we-christening - isilungiselelo esilungile noma ukuthunga uNkulunkulu yonkana zonke izinto ezidingekayo ngezandla zakhe? Azikho ukulinganiselwa okunzima lapha, sivumela kokubili izinketho. Esikhathini esidlule, konke, konke kwakutshelwa ngesandla, kodwa manje ungathenga isethi esihle se-christening. Lezizinto ngokuvamile zihlala isikhathi eside, ngakho-ke ukukhetha ithawula, i-cap nekhati kunikezwa ukunakwa okukhethekile. Zonke izinto kufanele zivumelane, futhi umbala wengubo mhlophe, ubisi noma ukhilimu, njengoba kubonisa ukuhlanzeka nokuhlanzeka. Ngaphezu kobuhle, kudingeka uqaphele ukulula kwengubo - indwangu ithambile, izingcezu zifihlekile, ukuze zingacasuli isikhumba esibucayi besane, futhi zonke izakhi zokuhlobisa zikhonjwe kahle.
Futhi, izipho ezidingekayo zihlanganisa isiphambano kanye nolayini, ngokwesiko, bathengwa ngu-godfather. Kusukela kulokho okuzokwenza ukuthi isiphambano sokuqala asibaluleke kakhulu, uma sifisa, u-godson angashintsha, futhi isiphambano sokuqala sigcinwe kuphela. Uma ingane inikezwa uchungechunge kanye nesiphambano, kungcono ukuyiyeka "ekuphumeni", futhi manje kungcono ukugqoka isiphambano phezu kwebhebhoni elithambile, ukuze ingane ingatholi ukucasuka kusukela ukuxubana kwamaketanga esikhumbeni.
Yini enye ongayinika umfana ukuze abe nesonto?
Yini ongayinika isipho godson? Ngokuvamile, isipho esinjalo senziwa nge-christenings - umfana (noma intombazane) unikezwa iBhayibheli lezingane ezinemibala enemibalabala, kanye nesithonjana esincane esinomfanekiso wesanta ohlonipha ingane. Ngokuqinisekile, abaningi baye bazwa ngesiko lendabuko elinjalo ukunikeza imifanekiso yobukhulu. Isithonjana esinjalo sabhalwa ebhodini ekukhuleni kwengane. Isithonjana sibonisa umsanta wengane yomntwana, futhi isithonjana safakwa ekamelweni lakhe. Ngisiphi isithonjana okufanele ngibonise kuNkulunkulu wami namhlanje? Namuhla, njengamanje, umfana okwenzela i-christening akunakwenzeka ukuba anikezwe isithonjana esinjalo, kodwa ukuthenga okujwayelekile
Futhi yendabuko yisipho sesipuni sesiliva "emazinyo." Kodwa ngokujwayelekile, azikho izidingo ezikhethekile zezipho. Uma ungabaza ukukhetha, ungacela umama wengane ukuthi yini engcono kakhulu yokunikeza umfana wakhe umbuzo. Ngokuvamile banikela izinto zezingane ku-christenings, kodwa omama abaningi banomthelela kakhulu ekukhethweni kwabo futhi bafisa ukuthenga konke ngokwabo. Mhlawumbe amathoyizi, abahamba ngezinyawo noma abahamba ngezinyawo bazobe bejabule. Ungasiza futhi abazali abasha ukuba balungiselele itafula leholidi, isibonelo, bathenge ikhekhe elihle.