Uyazi ukuthi ikhefu lokubeletha eSweden lingenye yezona zide kakhulu emhlabeni? Ngakho, ukuhlala nosana olusanda kuzalwa lungaba nezinsuku ezingamakhulu angu-480, "ukuthatha" kuzo izingxenye - ngezinyanga, amasonto, izinsuku ngisho nangehora.
Futhi iziphathimandla zizokhokha imali engama-80% wehora, futhi uma uyisisebenzi sikahulumeni, uzothola u-100% wento yonke. Kodwa zilungele ukufunda iqiniso elithakazelisayo kakhulu - kusukela ezinsukwini ezingama-480 kanye ncamashi 60 nengane kufanele ihlale ubaba, futhi uma enqaba, ukuthi lezi zinsuku zithathwe futhi zingakhokhiwe!
Kwacatshangwa ukuthi le nqubo ephoqelekile ingasiza abazali baqondane kangcono, bafunde ukusabalalisa imithwalo yabo futhi bacabange ngemindeni yabo kanye nemisebenzi ngokulingana okulinganayo.
Kodwa-ke, eqinisweni kwathiwa ngu-12% kuphela wamapapa amasha alungele ukusizakala ngamabhonasi avela kuhulumeni futhi anike izinyanga ezimbili zokunakekelwa nokukhuliswa kwengane yabo. Futhi umdwebi wezithombe uJohan Bävman ungomunye wabo:
"Ngaqala le phrojekthi lapho ngihlala ekhaya nendodana yami encane. Kwabe sekubonakala kimi ukuthi kuleli bhizinisi nginesizungu futhi ngingenaso ukusekelwa. Futhi ngivela nomqondo wokuthatha izithombe nokuqoqa izindaba zamapapa, njengami, abangazange bayeke isabelo sabo sekhefu labazali, thola ukuthi kungani bathatha lesi sinyathelo nokuthi yisiphi isifundo abafunda ... "
Ake sithole ukuthi kwenzekani kulokhu?
1. UJohn Ekengård, oneminyaka engu-38, umthuthukisi womkhiqizo eSandvik noPapa Ebby (oneminyaka engu-7 ubudala), uSayra (iminyaka emihlanu) noSteen oneminyaka engu-1 ubudala:
"Ngaphoqeleka ukwenza ukulahleka kwezimali ngeholide, kodwa ngenxa yalokho nginqobe kabili - ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngenzeke njengobaba futhi ngaqala ukuqonda kangcono umlingani wami. Futhi ukuxhumana kwethu okuqinile nezingane kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo ... "
2. I-Urban North, 32, umxhumanisi wezingqalasizinda kanye nobaba ka-Holger oneminyaka engu-10:
"Ekuphileni kwansuku zonke mina nomkami sizama ukulingana ngangokunokwenzeka. Ezinyangeni zokuqala kwakunzima kithi, kodwa namuhla ngiyaziqhenya ngale nkathi. Ingane yethu yenqabe izidumbu ezinyangeni ezingu-4! Futhi usuku lwangolusuku lwami luqukethe ukuthi kufanele ngipheke ukudla kukaHolger futhi ngidlale naye. "
3. U-Loui Kuhlau, oneminyaka engu-28 ubudala, umlingisi noyise ka-Elling indodana yakhe:
"Emndenini wethu akukaze kube khona ingxoxo - ngubani ozodingeka ahlale nomntwana. Kusobala ukuthi bobabili abazali kufanele bahlanganyele! Kodwa uma ngingakaze ngibe nethuba lokuba ne-Elling for a year, bengingeke ngisho ngiqagele ukuthi wayekuthini nokuthi yiziphi izidingo zakhe. Kuyamangalisa, ngoba emthethweni bayakhokha usuku olusebenzayo, ngakho kungani abantu bengathandi ukuhlala ekhaya nengane yabo? "
4. USamad Kohigoltapeh, 32, unjiniyela wezolimo kanye namawele amabili eParis naseLeia:
"Wanikeza umhlaba omusha amadoda futhi kuwumsebenzi wakho wokuziphathisa empilweni yakho yonke! Kodwa ngiphikisana nomkami, ukuze ngithole izinyanga "zami"! "
5. U-Ola Larsson, 41, umdayisi kanye noyise kaNdodana kaGustav:
"Lesi isipho sangempela - sikwazi ukusondelana nengane futhi sithole izibopho ezingokomzwelo eziqinile! Abesilisa abakwazi ukuthi balahlekelwa nini uma bekhetha umsebenzi esikhundleni sezinsuku zokuphumula. "
6. UTjeerd van Waijenburg, 34, umthuthukisi womkhiqizo e-Ikea noyise kaNdodana kaTim:
"Ngisho namanje, lapho izinsuku zami ezingu-60 seziphelile, ngifakazela ukunciphisa isonto elisebenzayo ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nendodana yami. Hlonipha kulabo abababa abangaboni nanoma yiziphi izinzuzo ohlelweni lokulinganisa! "
7. U-Andreas Bergström, 39, isisebenzi sikahulumeni futhi ubaba wamadodana amabili:
"Ngemva kokuzalwa kwendodana yami encane, umkami wayenenkinga. Ngathatha ingxenye yengonyama emfundweni yomntwana osekhulile futhi ngizizwa ngithintana nobaba ngokudla okunomsoco omncane. Manje izingane zami ziyangithembela njengamama, futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kimi! "
8. UMarcus Bergqvist, oneminyaka engu-33 ubudala, unjiniyela wezobunjiniyela kanye noyise wamadodana kaTed noSigge:
"Abesifazane balungiselela umama kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokukhulelwa, kanti abapapa bavele ngokuzumayo, ngemva kokubeletha. Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi uma ngingabhekana nemisebenzi yami eholidini, ibha yokuziqhenya yayizoshiywa! "
9. UMarcus Pranter, oneminyaka engu-29 ubudala, umthengisi wewayini kanye nendodana eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala:
"Lezi yimithetho eyisiphukuphuku! Obaba kufanele bahambe emthethweni, uma befuna, hhayi ekuqondisweni. Futhi uma ama-papa ephuza isikhathi eside kuleli holide, kunzima kakhulu ukuqala ukuxhumana nengane. Emndenini wethu, mina nomkami sasiba nomthwalo wemfanelo wokubafundisa ngokulinganayo. "
10. UGöran Sevelin, 27, umfundi kanye nendodakazi kaLib's indodakazi:
"Ngisho noma ulahlekelwe yimali, ukuhlala nengane kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu! Amama athola ukuxhumana ngesikhathi sokuncelisa, ngakho-ke obaba kufanele banakekele ubudlelwano babo obungokomzwelo nengane ngalesi sikhathi. "
11. UJonas Feldt, oneminyaka engu-31, ongumqondisi esikhungweni sokuqashwa kanye noyise wamadodakazi aseSiriya (unyaka owodwa) noLovis (iminyaka emithathu):
"Isibonakaliso sami kwakuyi-poll emagazini omusha. Kwakukhona ukuthi iningi lezingane, uma zigula noma zingakhululekile, zifuna ukuvikeleka kumama wazo. Futhi ngifuna ukuba amantombazane akwazi ukuthembela njalo kimi! "
12. Ingemar Olsen, 37, umxhumanisi we-IT noyise wamadodana kaLinus noJoel:
"Ngami kwakuyisinqumo esinzima, ngoba embonini engiyisebenzelayo, amadoda alawula. Kodwa umqashi wami wayengumkhaya omuhle kakhulu, owangiphefumulela. Namuhla ngiyajabula ukuthi ngichitha isikhathi nezingane futhi ngiyazi kahle izidingo zabo. "
13. UMartin Gagner, 35, umqondisi weNyuvesi yaseMalmo noPapa Matilda (iminyaka emine) noValdemara (unyaka owodwa):
"Ngendodakazi yami ngangingekho eholidini, futhi ngizizwa nginecala. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngilahlekelwe kakhulu, futhi ngisondele kakhulu njengoba ngingenaso nendodana yami ... "
14. UJan Cardenal, oneminyaka engu-34 ubudala, umfundi kanye nobaba Ivo (unyaka owodwa) no-Alma (iminyaka emine):
"Ukushiya komzali kwashintsha ngokuphelele impilo yami - nginesikhathi sokucabanga ngento eyinhloko, ngakwazi ukushintsha kakhulu umsebenzi wami, futhi ngathola nethuba lokubona izinyathelo zokuqala zezingane!"
15. UMichael Winblad, oneminyaka engu-35, ubaba kaMasisse ongasebenzi (2 iminyaka) noVivian (izinyanga ezingu-5):
"Nginenhlanhla nomkami. Ngezikhathi ezinzima, imali engenayo ingakwazi ukumboza izindleko zomndeni wethu. Futhi nami, ngazama ukuba ubaba ongcono kunabo bonke obaba "!
Kuze kube manje, amaqhawe omthwebuli wezithombe uJohn Bävman asevele eba namapapa angu-30 ngesikhathi sokubeletha, kodwa umgomo ukuqoqa izindaba ezingu-60 (ngokusho kwenani lezinsuku), ngakho-ke kuqhubeke ...