Ukuhlambalaza kumyeni wakhe kuyindlela ephumelelayo yokuqeda ukungasebenzi. Lokhu kwaziwa kwabaphili bamaNkathi Ephakathi, kodwa lolu lwazi alutholakali kubahlali ...
Imithi yamakhulu eminyaka edlule ibonakala ingenasayensi nanamuhla futhi kwento eyesabekayo. Isibonelo, phakathi NamaKhathi Aphakathi, indima yabaphilisa yayivame ukuqhutshwa ngabakwa-barbers-barbers. Babesebenzela ukulungiselela amafutha okugcoba, ama-joints alungisiwe, amagatsha angenqunywe futhi asusa umzimba wokuchitha igazi. Abambalwa kuphela abaye balahla umsebenzi wesikhonzi sokugeza futhi bagxila ekutadisheni kwemithi. Kodwa ngisho behluleka ukuveza izindlela zokwelapha ngempela. Yiziphi izindlela zakudala zokuphulukisa ukungasebenzi, okwakuvele kuvamile ngaleso sikhathi!
Indawo yokubeletha
Njengoba imithi yesayensi yayingakhulumi kahle, abesifazane (ikakhulu labo labo abayeni babo abangenayo imali ephezulu) bebasebenzela ngokuphindaphindiwe abahlengikazi nabakwa-shaman abathembisa ukwabelana nabo ngezigameko zomlingo wokukhulelwa okulula. Kwaphakanyiswa ukuthi isisu kufanele sishaye ngeso lengqondo, sibheke inyanga egcwele, sithele amanzi afudumele ekhanda, simile echibini noma ebhodini, sibamba izihlahla ezithela izithelo. Inamandla kunazo zonke kwakuyi-rite ngezinhlobonhlobo zezinyosi zansuku zonke efonini elibomvu noma ngentambo. Kwakudingeka ukuthi uqale ngosuku lokuqala lwenyanga futhi ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingu-40, ngokusho kwesithembiso samadoda omuthi, ukukhulelwa kwakuzofika.
Ukuzivocavoca njengendlela yokuba umama
Isazi emlandweni we-Exeter University, uDkt. Catherine Ryder, usanda kukhubeka ekuqoqweni kwemithi yezokwelapha yekhulu le-13 ngaphansi kwegama elithi Liber de Diversis Medicinis. Wathola kuzo izindlela ezingavamile zokuphatha ukungapheli okungapheli. Okuthakazelisayo ikakhulukazi ukuthi umbhali wencwadi uthi ngokucacile ukuthi zonke izindlela ezingenhla zenzelwe ukuzithiba-zinomphumela we-placebo, njengoba besho. Isibonelo, singathola amathiphu anjalo:
"Uma owesifazane efuna ukubekezelela ingane, kuyadingeka ukuthatha amashidi amancane bese ubilisa ngewayini kuze kube yilapho umqubu ushiya yonke ijusi. Ukukhulelwa okumele kutholakale kufanele kunikezwe indoda engenalutho izinsuku ezintathu. "
"Thatha isitho sobulili, soma bese usisika. Yidla ngesisu esingenalutho futhi ugeze ngewayini. "
Ayikho indlela yokwelashwa yokwenza lezi zokupheka ukwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa ngaphansi kwazo. Odokotela banamuhla bavumelana nomlobi wabo: kusobala ukuthi owesifazane kufanele akholelwe ukuthi bamsiza futhi baziphilisa ngokwabo.
Indlela yesikhathi esiphakathi yokuthola ukuthi ubani ogulayo ngengane
Kwezinye izici zasendulo, odokotela basitshela ukuthi kunendlela ethembekile yokunquma ukuthi yikuphi umbhangqwana ongakwazi ukuba umzali. Azikho izifundo zelabhorethri: owesilisa nowesifazane besidinga nje ukususa isidingo sokumbiza bese bebeka endaweni emnyama izinsuku eziyishumi. Ngemuva kwesikhathi esifanele, ngamunye wabo kwakudingeka abheke ebhodweni lakhe: uma izibungu zivela kuwo, kufanele zibhekwe njengombonakaliso wokuthi lo muntu akakwazi ukuba nezingane.
Ukwelashwa kungaphiliswa kanjani ngocansi?
Mhlawumbe, kuphela indlela ephumelelayo yokuphulukisa ukungabi nalutho ekhona eNkathini Ephakathi. Ngisho ngalezo zinsuku, owesifazane angayahlukana nendoda uma engakwazi ukukhulelwa ingane. Abantu abaye baphetha izinyunyana zezombangazwe noma ezinye izinzuzo, ukuhlukana ngenxa yalesi sizathu akuhambisani. Khona-ke odokotela bathola ukulinganisa: indlela esemthethweni yokwelapha ukungabi nabantwana yayibhekwa ... ubulili nabantu abavamile.
Indoda enhle yayimenywa ekamelweni lomfazi ocebile futhi yamthanda kuye ngaphansi kokulawula komyeni ngokuqapha. Lapho ubulili buqedile, naye wangena ebuhlotsheni nabathembekile. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngale ndlela ungakhohlisa imvelo futhi "udlulisele" emntwaneni ozayo izici zalabo abafuna ukuba uyise, kodwa akakwazanga.