Abesifazane abaningi abakhulelwe bavame ukukhathazeka ngombuzo othi: "Kuvela zingaki izinyanga?" Noma "Iviki livelaphi isonto?" Lokhu akumangalisi, ngoba wonke umuntu ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele ayilungiselele. Omunye unomshado ekhaleni, futhi udinga ukwazi ukuthi yisiphi isitayela sokuthenga ingubo, kanti omunye udinga ukunquma ukuthi uzokutshela nini futhi ukuthi uzokhuluma kanjani nomphathi mayelana nesimo sabo esithakazelisayo. Omunye kungenzeka ukuthi uhlela i-wardrobe ehlobo noma ebusika, kodwa akazi ukuthi kuyoba yini isisu ngaleso sikhathi. Izizathu, njengoba sibona, ziningi. Kodwa impendulo engacacile, zingaki amasonto isisu sibonakala, yebo, cha.
Kodwa ukungafani ngesikhathi sokubonakala kwawo akuyona into enhle. Ngokuvamile isisu sibonakala emavikini angu-14-16. Kwenzekani, futhi, ngakho-ke, ukuthi kakade evikini lesi-7 lokukhulelwa, owesifazane akayithandi izingubo zakhe ezizithandayo. Kodwa ezimweni eziningi kungabangelwa ukukhula kwesisu, kodwa ngokunyuka okungadingekile kwesisindo somzimba wesifazane okhulelwe.
Kanti futhi kukhona amacala lapho kufika amasonto angama-20 okukhulelwa kwakungekho ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle (okungukuthi, isisu), okwenza owesifazane okhulelwe akhathazeke kakhulu. Ngempela, ngifuna nokuthi indawo yokuthutha ingaphansi, futhi lokho kuyenzeka, futhi uzizwa sengathi ukhulelwe ekugcineni! Kodwa ukubukeka okunjalo sekupheleni kwesisu kubuye kube uhlobo olujwayelekile, futhi ungakhathazeki. Futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi isikhathi lapho isisu sibonakala khona asithinti ubungako bokugcina besisu. Okusho ukuthi, kungabonakala emavikini angu-12, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kuyoba enkulu kakhulu ngamashumi amane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, odokotela abaningi batusa ukuthi kusukela ngesikhathi lapho isisu siqala ukuvela, gqoka amabhande. Kodwa asikwazanga ukuncomusa ukumphatha ngokulinganayo. Akubona bonke abesifazane abakhulelwe abanokufaka ubufakazi bokugqoka i-bandage.
Yini echaphazela ukukhula kwesisu?
Ngenyanga ngayiphi isisu sibonakala, izici ezilandelayo zithonya:
- Umthethosisekelo wesifazane ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhulelwa. Futhi akukwazi ukusho ukuthi uma owesifazane ethanda kakhulu ukugcwele, ngaphambili isisu sakhe siyabonakala. Kunalokho, ngisho noma kunjalo! Phela, emasontweni okuqala ingane iyingane encane kakhulu, futhi ukukhula okuncane kwesibeletho kubonakala kungabonakali kwabanye. Kodwa uma owesifazane enomzimba omncane kakhulu, khona-ke ngisho nokushintshwa okuncane kakhulu emzimbeni wakhe kuzobonakala.
- Ubukhulu bomntwana. Lapha isimiso silula futhi siyaqondakala, lapho umntwana ekhula kakhulu, isibeletho saqala futhi, ngokufanayo, isisu. Futhi kuze kube amasonto angu-15-18 umntwana ukhula kancane, futhi ushintsho kwisibalo sesisu asilona uma kuqhathaniswa nesonto elidlule. Futhi emva kwalesi sikhathi, ungaba cishe nsuku zonke ukugubha ukuthi ukhula kanjani.
- Akuyona indima encane edlalwa yinani le-amniotic fluid. Uma kukhona okungaphezu kwalokho okujwayelekile, isikhathi lapho abesifazane abathintekayo bebonakala bengaphansi kwesisu. Futhi uma engaphansi kwesimiso, isisu, ngokulandelana, sizovela kancane kancane. Ukungaphambuki emanzini ngokukhulelwa okuncane kuyinto evamile futhi akufanele kubangele ukukhathazeka. Iqiniso liwukuthi inani lamanzi nokuthuthukiswa kwengane kungase kube ngaphambi komunye nomunye, kodwa phakathi nokukhulelwa konke kufanele kube yinto evamile.
Ngakho-ke manje, uma wazi ukuthi isikhathi esilindeleke ukuba ubukeke besisu nokuthi yini echaphazela usayizi wayo, akukho okuyovimbela izinhlelo zakho ukuba zifinyeleleke.