Ikhono lokugqoka isitayela ngendlela ephathekayo kanye nemfashini kuyinto yobuciko. Kungakhathaliseki ubudala, uhlobo lokubukeka, umzimba, abesifazane abaningi basebenzisa amandla amaningi, isikhathi nemali ukuze babukeke kahle, ngenkathi bebona inqubo yokudala isithombe sabo sokuzijabulisa. Indlela yokugqoka intombazane ephathekayo ebusika noma ehlobo? Indlela yokugqoka isitayela kanye nenhle nentombazane egcwele? Njengoba kunikezwe izici ngabanye besifazane, isimo sezulu kanye nezinye izinto ezibucayi, lezi zindaba nezinye izinto zikhathazeka kubo bonke abamele isigamu esihle sabantu. Ake sibone indlela ehlelekile ngayo ukugqoka intombazane ukuba ihlale ibukeka ibe mnandi futhi ivumelana.
Izifundo zesitayela samantombazane
Ukuncintisana ngokulinganisa amandla akho wezimali nezifiso zakho. Kubalulekile ukunquma ukuthi yisiphi isitayela sokunamathela kuso, unikezwe isimiso sakho somsebenzi nsuku zonke, umsebenzi kanye nezinye izinqubo. Ngakho-ke, la ma-nuances kudingeka agcwalise ikhabethe lakho.
Khetha kahle uhlelo lwemibala: isikhathi esifudumele, imibala ekhanyayo, nesikhathi esibandayo, esimnyama. Uma uthenga izingubo, cabanga ngalokho oyokugqoka. Njengoba uthenge amasethi amaningana, zama ukubenza baguquke futhi phakathi kwabo. Ngemva kokudala ikhabethe lakho lesigqoko , ngezinye izikhathi, ungayifaka njalo ngazo zonke izinhlobo zesekeli, zombili zangempela futhi ezilula, kuye ngokuthi yimiphi imiphumela ofuna ukuyifinyelela.
Futhi khumbula ukuthi izingubo azikuhlosisi, futhi uhlobisa izingubo, ngakho-ke ukuze ube mnandi futhi unhle kakhulu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungenasici kukho konke. Ukuhleleka okulula, ukuhleleka okuhle, imikhuba kanye nenkulumo efanele kuyisici esibalulekile.
Njalo intombazane ingafunda indlela yokugqoka isitayela, vele usebenzise amandla amancane nokubekezela: ukubukela imidwebo yemfashini, ukufunda omagazini, ukutadisha imfashini yokutadisha, thatha isibonelo kubantu abadumile abaziwayo njengezithonjana zesitayela.
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