Namuhla, ukufunwa okungakaze kube khona kubhekwa ngezincwadi nokuqeqesha ekukhuleni komuntu siqu nokuzikhukhumeza. Amakhulu ama-"coaches" asekhaya asetshenziselwe ukusiza ekutholeni incazelo yokuphila, ekwenzeni isimo esihle, esindisa umshado futhi athole izigidi zokuqala.
Kodwa ingabe kufanelekile, belahlekelwa ukholo ngokwabo, bathenge izincwadi zabo kanye nama diski futhi banikele imali yokugcina yokubonisana nabo bakholelwa ekushintsheni okujabulisayo? Ngamagama, sekuyisikhathi sokudalula amamephu futhi ukhumbule lezo zithombe zomuntu owafundisa "indlela yokuphila kahle", kodwa bona ngokwabo abakwazi ukubhekana nalo!
Umbhali wencwadi ethi "Indlela yokulondoloza umshado" uDerek Medina wabulala umkakhe futhi wathumela isithombe ku-Facebook!
Kulokhu akunakwenzeka ukukholelwa, kodwa kuvela ukuthi indoda eyelulekwa yizinkulungwane zabafundi yayingakwazi ukugcina umshado wayo. U-Derek usongela umkakhe ngokuphindaphindiwe - uJennifer Alfonso wayemthuka, uma nje efuna ukumshiya. Ngosuku lwango-Agasti lwango-2013 olwenzekile kabi kwenzeka. Ngokushesha ngemva kokubulala, umbhali we-bestseller wathatha umkakhe oshonile efonini yakhe ephathekayo, ngemva kwalokho wabeka isithombe enkundleni yokuxhumana nabantu ngesignesha:
"Ngiya ejele noma ngizobulawa ngenxa yokubulala umkami. Ngiyakuthanda nonke, ngizokukhumbula. Zizinakekele futhi ubuke izindaba mayelana nami ... "
Ngendlela, incwadi yakhe ingathengwa namhlanje!
UDale Carnegie wafa wedwa
"Indlela yokunqoba abangane nokuthonya abantu", "Ukuyeka ukukhathazeka futhi uqale ukuhlala", "Ukujabulela ukuphila nokujabulela umsebenzi" - lezi zincwadi sezivele ziyizigaba ezijwayelekile, futhi ngeke sikholelwe ukuthi awunamathele ezandleni zakho omunye wabo.
Ngakho-ke, bewazi ukuthi lapho incwadi enesihloko esithi "7 ilawula impilo yomndeni ojabulisayo" yayilungiselelwe ukushicilelwa, yahamba ngesahlukaniso sayo sokuqala, okuthi ngenxa yezizathu ezisobala yayigcinwe imfihlo? Uhlulekile ukulondoloza imali yakhe - bathathwa ngumkakhe wesibili. Futhi akazange aphumelele ukunqoba abangane noma. Kuyaziwa ukuthi uDale Carnegie uhlushwa isifo sikaHodgkin, nakuba kunamahemuhemu ukuthi wazibulala. Emva kokufa ngoNovemba 1955 ephephandabeni elithi "I-New York Times" kubonakala sengathi kwakuyizinto ezifuywayo, okushiwo ngabantu abangaba ngu-500 000 abaye basizwa yizifundo zesikhulumi-sikhuthazo. Kodwa-ke, akekho owayefuna ukuya emcimbini wokulahla - uCarnegie wangcwatshwa kuphela kuphela.
UMaria Montessori wanikela indodana yakhe ukuba ikhuliswe emndenini wasemaphandleni
Namuhla, uhlelo lwe "Montessori" lungenye yezindlela ezine zokufundisa eziye zaqashelwa emhlabeni jikelele, futhi izigidi zamamazana ziyisebenzisa nsuku zonke ekukhulisweni kwezingane zabo. Kodwa, kuvela, ku-biography yalesi wesifazane ofanelekile, futhi, kunamakhasi ayengacabangi ngawo. Ngakho, lapho eneminyaka engama-28, uMaria wakhulelwa nomlingani wakhe, uDkt. Giuseppe Montesano. Isiphakamiso "izandla nezinhliziyo" ngakho-ke akazitholanga, futhi esikhundleni sayo - isivumelwano somlomo ngenxa yemisebenzi yesayensi nezenhlalakahle ukuze kuhlanganiswe inhlangano engokomoya (namuhla izobizwa ngokuthi umshado wesimenywa). Eyesaba ukuwa kwedumela, uMaria wanikeza umfana Mario imfundo kwenye yemindeni yasemaphandleni, lapho efika khona ngokuvakashelwa ngempelasonto. Kuyaziwa ukuthi lapho uMarcus ekhula, wamyisa kuye futhi wamenza umngane wakhe. Indodana yeqiniso, uMontessori wamthola cishe ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, ebiza umfana umshana wakhe noma ingane eyamukelwa.
Umbhali wencwadi ethi "Ingane Nokunakekela Yena" uBenjamin Spock wayengatholi ulimi olufanayo nezingane zakhe!
Uthi, shoemaker ngaphandle amabhuzu? Kodwa empeleni, cishe ngendlela okwenzeka ngayo. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ebusika ka-1998 owesifazane wesibili wesidokotela sesidakamizwa washeshe wafuna imali yokwelashwa kwakhe. Kwakudingeka ukuqoqa cishe abayizinkulungwane ezingu-16, okwakubonakala kube isamba esingenakubekezelela umndeni. UNksz Morgan wabuye wamemezela ephephandabeni elithi "Times", ngesibheno: "Siza ukukhokhela ukwelashwa kukadokotela. Wayekhathalela impilo yakhe yonke izingane zakho! ". Khona-ke abafundi baqaphelisisa owesifazane ukuthi unamadodana angamnakekela. Yiqiniso, uMariya usuvele esebabuze, kodwa uMichael ophezulu, isisebenzi seYunivesithi yaseChicago noJunior omncane - umnikazi wenkampani yokwakha eLos Angeles, wenqabe ngenkani, wameluleka ukuba anikeze uyise okhulelwe ekhaya, ukuze anakekelwe nguhulumeni!
U-Allen Carr wabulawa ngumdlavuza wamaphaphu
U-Allen Carr ungumbhali wezincwadi ezizinikezele ekukhululweni kokuxhunywa kotshwala, isisindo esindayo nama-phobias ahlukahlukene. Kodwa mhlawumbe i-bestseller edumile kunazo zonke eyamzisa ekuqaphelisweni emhlabeni jikelele kanye nokuthandwa kwaba yincwadi - "Indlela Elula Yokuyeka Ukubhema." Lapho uCarr esho: "Kusukela ngibhema ugwayi wami wokugcina eminyakeni engaba ngu-23 edlule, ngangingumuntu ojabule kakhulu emhlabeni. Namuhla ngisenomuzwa ofanayo. " Injabulo kuphela ayizange ihlale isikhathi eside - ehlobo ka-2006 wayenomkhuhlane ongenakusebenza emaphashini, ngenxa yokuthi akazange aphile ngisho nangaphambi kokuba ubusika ...
Umlobi wezincwadi ezingu-20 ngenjabulo, u-Choi Yong-hee wazibulala
Umlobi waseNingizimu Korea uCoi Yong-hee wafundisa iminyaka eminingi ukuthi angaphila ngokujabula njalo. "Umshumayeli Wenjabulo" - abafundi bakhe abathokozelayo babizwa ngamagama amabili angabalulekile ngokupheka ngenxa yokuphila okungenasici nokuvumelanisa. Futhi-ke, njengebhokisi elivela eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kwavela izindaba ukuthi owesifazane oneminyaka engu-63 ubudala wakhetha ukuxazulula ama-akhawunti ngokuphila okujabulisayo, ngisho nangenkampani enomyeni wakhe oneminyaka engu-72 ubudala! Yilokhu akuloba encwadini yakhe yokuzibulala:
"Udokotela wangitshela ukuthi kwakukhona uketshezi oluningi emaphashini, ngenxa yalokho, kunzima kimi ukuphefumula. Inhliziyo yami nayo isifo. Ngangingafuni ukuhlala esibhedlela esibanjwe nezidakamizwa. Futhi angikwazi ukumelana nobuhlungu futhi. Indoda yami ayizange ivumele ukuthi ngife ngedwa. Ngakho sanquma ukuhamba kuleli zwe ndawonye. "
URobert Atkins wabulawa ukukhuluphala
URobert Atkins ungumhlengikazi wase-United States futhi, mhlawumbe, umbhali wesimiso sezwe esidumile kakhulu sokudla okuncike ekutheni kunciphise ama-carbohydrates. Uyakhumbula-udle amanoni futhi ulahlekelwe isisindo? Ngakho-ke, namuhla imbangela esemthethweni yokushona kwakhe ngonyaka we-72 wokuphila kwakhe yingozi yokuhlukunyezwa kwe-craniocerebral ngenxa yokuwela emgwaqeni ophuthumayo. Kodwa ngemva konyaka, I-Wall Street Journal yakwazi ukufika eqinisweni ngokushicilela ukwaziswa okuthusa embikweni wezokwelapha oyimfihlo othi imbangela yokuwa emgwaqweni ophuthumayo kwakuyi-attack heart, ngenxa yokuhluleka kwenhliziyo kanye ... nokukhuluphala!
Kubonakala sengathi abathengisi nomndeni womuntu oshonile bazama ngokufihlakele ukufihla leli qiniso futhi behluke ngokumelene ne-autopsy, kodwa manje sekuyaziwa ukuthi ngaphambi kokufa udokotela-nutritionist wayelinganise 117 kg futhi waba nezinkinga zempilo esibi.