Ukuzalwa kwengane ngokuqinisekile kuyindlela ebalulekile futhi eguqukayo kuyo yonke imindeni. Kodwa ngaphandle komzwelo, lo mcimbi ubuye ubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba isakhamuzi esisha sezwe sibonakala, impilo yakhe, njengabo bonke abanye, kufanele ilawulwe yimithetho efanele. Amaphuzu aphathelene nokuqinisekisa ukuthi impilo yomntwana ngaphambi kokuthola ukuzimela ilawulwa yimibhalo eminingi yezomthetho, kuhlanganise neKomidi loMndeni, elibeka amalungelo kanye nazo zonke izinhlobo zomsebenzi zabazali.
Ukuhlaziya idokhumenti, kungenzeka ukuhlukanisa amalungiselelo amakhulu okuzocacisa ukuqonda kwencazelo yamalungelo kanye nemisebenzi ehlukahlukene yabazali ebantwaneni, kanye nezinqubo zokulawula ukuhambisana nokusebenza kwazo.
Izizathu zokunquma ubudlelwane bomthetho bomzali wengane
- Umama uxhunywe nengane ngegazi, ngakho-ke ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, unikezwe ngokuzenzakalelayo wonke amalungelo kanye nemisebenzi efanele futhi kufanele abheke.
- Ubaba unqunywa kuye ngokuthi isimo somshado somama. Uma owesifazane eshadile, kukhona "ukucabangela kobuhlobo", okungukuthi, umyeni wakhe unguyise wengane.
- Uma owesifazane engashadile, ubaba wengane ubhalisa umuntu owakhulume isifiso futhi wathumela isicelo esifanele ehhovisi lokubhalisa.
- Ezimweni lapho ubaba wengane enqaba ukuvuma leli qiniso futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ethatha umthwalo wemfanelo yokukhuliswa nokugcinwa kwakhe, unina unelungelo lokufuna ukuqashelwa kobunikazi enkantolo , ukunikeza ubufakazi nokudlulisa ukuhlolwa .
- Uma abazali bebeshadile kodwa behlukanisile, indoda yangaphambili ingabonakala njengenguyise wengane uma kwenzeka ingane izalwa zingakapheli izinsuku ezingama-300 ngemuva kokuqedwa komshado.
Amalungelo nemisebenzi yabazali ezinganeni
- ukukhuliswa kwengane akuyona nje umsebenzi ongenakutholakala, kodwa futhi unelungelo elingenamthetho;
- Abazali kumele basekele izingane zabo ngokwezezimali;
- Abazali banomthwalo wempilo nokuphepha kwezingane zabo;
- abazali baphoqelekile ukuba bafaka emgomweni ingane imigomo eyisisekelo yokuziphatha, ukuziphatha kanye nomthetho osebenza emphakathini;
- abazali baphoqelekile ukuba banikeze ingane yabo ngemfundo egcwele futhi, mayelana nalokhu, banelungelo lokukhetha isikhungo esikoleni, ngenkathi bethembele embonweni nasesifiso somntwana;
- Abazali abakwazi ukusebenzisa amalungelo abo kanye nemithwalo yabo ekulimazeni ingane, okungukuthi, ukusebenzisa isikhundla sakhe ukumlimaza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo;
- uma abazali bengahlali ndawonye, leli qiniso alisuse kubo isidingo sokufeza imisebenzi yabazali ekukhuliseni izingane;
- Abazali abaphila ngokwehlukana nabo banelungelo lokusebenzisana nokuxhumana nengane yabo, kanti uma omunye umuntu ezama ukulinganisa, bangakwazi ukuvikela amalungelo abo enkantolo futhi bathole isinqumo esihleliwe seziphathimandla abanekhono.
Ngokomthetho wemisebenzi kanye namalungelo abazali, kunesibopho sokuwagcina nokuwagcwalisa kuze kube yilapho ingane ibhekwa njengomuntu ozimele ohlukile. Lokhu kungenzeka kumacala alandelayo:
- ukutholakala kwengane eningi, okungukuthi, iminyaka engama-18;
- uma ngabe ingane ingakafiki eminyakeni yobudala obukhulunywe ngaye ngenhla, kodwa ngemvume yabazali sekuvele ingene emshadweni womthetho;
- uma kwenzeka ingane ingeneminyaka engu-16 ubudala esikhathini esithile ihlonishwa njengezimele - uma kwenzeka kunqulwa.
Ngezizathu eziningana, ezichazwe nomthetho, isibonelo, ngenxa yokungakwazi ukukhubazeka noma ukuhluleka komsebenzi womuntu, abazali noma omunye wabo angase anqatshelwe amalungelo kumntanakho. Kulokhu, abakwazi ukuxhumana nengane, bayifundise, ithonya. Kodwa kusukela emthwalweni wokunikeza ingane izinto ezibonakalayo lokhu akuyikuyikhulula.