Ukuvuma kuyithuba lokuqeda imizwa engokomoya futhi uzihlanzwe ezonweni. Ukuze uhambe ngale ndlela futhi uzizwe ukuhlanzwa okungokomoya, kuzodingeka unqobe izinselele futhi usebenze ngokwakho.
Ungalungiselela kanjani ukuvuma?
Isithiyo sokuqala siyovela ngisho nasesiteji sokuhlela umkhankaso wesonto , ngoba kuningi ukungabaza ekhanda mayelana nokuthi kufanele kwenziwe noma cha. Kubalulekile ukukhubaza futhi ngeke usabuyele kulezi zinkinga. Abapristi bathi ukuphela kokubonisa ukuqina ezinqumweni kungasuswa kokubili ukuhlolwa kwangaphakathi nangaphakathi.
Into yokuqala okumele ikhulunywe mayelana nendlela yokulungiselela ukuvuma nokwabelana, ukuthi umuntu kufanele adlulise ukuhlolwa ngenhliziyo kuyisihlamba. Kuyadingeka okungenani phakathi nesonto ukugwema nokugqoka ukudla, futhi usaqhubeka nokukhulekela futhi uthandaze.
Indlela yokulungiselela ukuvuma:
- Iqala ngokugcwaliseka kwezono zomuntu. Abaningi baqinisekisa ukuthi akenzanga lutho olwesabekayo noma izono zabo zincane kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele zonke izintuthwane zakho nezenzo zakho eziphambene nentando kaNkulunkulu.
- Esinye iseluleko esibalulekile esiphathelene nendlela yokulungiselela ukuvuma akulona uhlu lwezono zakho ohlwini. Namuhla, ungathenga izincwajana ngezinhlu ezifanayo, eziphendulela ukuvuma zibe uhlu lwezikhathi zakho ezimbi. Kubalulekile ukutshela konke ngamazwi akho, ukuthululela umphefumulo wakho.
- Ukulungiselela ukuvuma, akudingeki ucabange ngendlela yokuveza kahle imicabango yakho bese ushayele izono. Kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngamazwi avamile azoveza iqiniso. Abaningi besaba ukuthi umpristi ngeke aqonde noma alahle, kodwa lokhu kungukubandlulula kuphela.
- Umuntu olungiselela ukuvuma kufanele aqale ukushintsha ngaphambi kwalo. Ukuvuma kuveza ushintsho empilweni nokulahla izenzo nezono zesono.
- Udinga ukuthula nabanye. Kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukucela intethelelo, kodwa futhi ukuthethelela abanye. Uma kungekho
ithuba lokuxolisa ngokwabo, lokhu kufanele kwenziwe okungenani enhliziyweni yakho. - Ukuze uqonde ngokugcwele ukuthi ungalungiselela kanjani ukuvuma, kudingeka ukwazi ukuthi imithandazo kufanele ifundwe. Eqinisweni, ukulungiselela umthandazo akubandakanyi ukufunda imithandazo ethile. Umuntu angaphendukela kuNkulunkulu ngamazwi akhe bese efunda ngokucophelela ukuthi "uBaba wethu" ukunakwa okukhethekile, enikeza umugqa ngezono.
Ngaphambi kokuba uvume, kufanele uthole esontweni lapho ungafika khona ingxoxo yangasese nompristi. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi inani labo abafuna ukwandisa ngaphambi kweLente Elikhulu namaholidi.