Yiqiniso, wonke umuntu omele ubulili obuhle uhlale ehlushwa umqondo wokuthi ungaba kanjani mnandi ngisho nakakhulu manje. Lokhu kuyaqondakala, ngoba kungokwemvelo ukuthi amantombazane afune ukubukeka ekhangayo, ngoba uma amadoda ethandwa amandla abo, abesifazane basuke behle kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba kube mnandi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi njengoba kubonakala, futhi abesifazane bazi kahle kakhulu lokhu. Phela, akunakwenzeka ukuba ube mnandi ngesikhathi esifanayo, udinga ukuziqaphela. Ngakho ake sibheke ngokucophelela indlela yokuba mnandi kakhulu nokuthi yini okudingeka uyenze kuqala.
Indlela yokuba amathiphu amahle -
- Khumbula ukuthi impendulo yombuzo "indlela okusheshayo ukuba ibe yinhle ngayo?" Ingabe eyodwa kuphela - ukuhlinzekwa kwepulasitiki, nayo yonke enye, izindlela ezincane kakhulu, kuthatha isikhathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwenza, isibonelo, umzimba wakho, kufanele wenziwe ngokuhlelekile, hhayi ngezikhathi ezithile. Akukho lutho olunikezwa umane, kalula futhi ngokushesha.
- Ngendlela, mayelana nesibalo. Kudingekile ukwabela nsuku zonke isikhathi esincane okungenani ukushaja okuyisisekelo, futhi kungcono ukwengeza kulokhu nokugijima ekuseni, kanye nokuhamba endaweni yokuzivocavoca noma echibini lokubhukuda. Kodwa ekuqaleni kokuncane okwanele, into esemqoka ukwenza konke njalo. Futhi khumbula ukuthi akudingeki ube mncane ukubonakala ubheka, udinga nje ukugcina iso kuleso sibalo futhi uhlale unzima.
- Abaningi bakhathazeke ngombuzo wokuthi bangaba kanjani amahle ngaphandle kokwenza? Manje ngempela inani elikhulu lamantombazane lombono wokuthi ngaphandle kobuhle, awukwazi ukufeza ubuhle, kodwa awukwazi ukukhohlwa mayelana nemvelo kalula, ngoba nayo iyakhaka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda amaningi akhetha ukuthi ukwakheka kwakuncane ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukuze ube mnandi ngaphandle kwalo, unakekele isikhumba sakho, thola ukulala ngokwanele ukuze ugweme izivunguvungu phansi kwamehlo akho nokubukeka "okuqhutshiwe".
- Ziqaphele wena. Yiya ezikhungweni ze-spa, hamba ukusikhipha umzimba, yenza imaski evuselelayo, ukuguqula umzimba, ukuhamba ngezinyawo ... Owesifazane kufanele ahlale ebonakala ephelele futhi ehlelwe kahle.
- Gqoka njalo stylishly. Ungashiyi ikhaya lakho ekugqoke izingubo zokugqoka noma ama-hoodies angaqondakali. Kungenzeka njalo ukuthi uhlangana emgwaqweni isikhulu esifanayo, kodwa kuthiwa unezinwele ezindala ezigqoke kanye nezinsipho zenjoloba. Owesifazane wangempela kufanele ahlale ebukeka njengokungathi usanda kukhishwa isembozo somagazini wezemfashini.
- Khombisa indlela yokuphila enempilo: yidla kahle, hamba okuningi, hamba imvelo. Konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ubukeke uphelele futhi uzizwe uhle, okubalulekile futhi.
- Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - zithande wena. Uma uzithanda wena, uma ujabule ngokwakho, khona-ke lokhu kuzwakala, futhi labo abaseduze nawe banokuzwela ukuzwelana nawe ngokuzethemba okufanayo. Uma lokhu kukuzethemba, kunokuziqhenya ngokweqile.
Eqinisweni, azikho izimfihlo ezikhethekile zokuthi zizoba zihle kangakanani. Konke kuncike kuwe: kusuka kwesifiso, kusuka enhlosweni, futhi kusuka othandweni ngokwakho.
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