Izimpawu zabantu ezahlukene zingahluka, ngakho ukuchazwa kwamaphupho kuncike ekubalukeni okuhlanganiswe kuwo yiqembu ngalinye lobuhlanga. Inkomo yisilwane esibonisa umhlengikazi womama ezizweni ezahlukene. Njengoba incwadi yephupho e-esoteric ithi, inkomo ephusheni isisindo esihle sezinguquko eziyisimangaliso kwabesifazane.
Iyini inkomo ephuphayo?
Yonke imininingwane yokulala, izimo zangaphambilini, indlela ozilala ngayo kubalulekile ekuchazeni. Ukubona inkomo yowesifazane ephusheni kungaba yisimangaliso sokuguquka okuhle okuzayo - kulezi cishe zonke izincwadi zephupho zezwe ziguquke. Kodwa ukuze iphupho lihunyushwe njengeqiniso njengoba kungenzeka, kubalulekile ukulalela amaphuzu alandelayo:
- yimuphi umbala isilwane;
- enobungane noma enobudlova;
- izenzo okwenziwa yiphupho ngenkomo (ukushaya, ukugaya, ukudla, ukudla);
- kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamathole;
- isimo sesilwane (enempilo, esigulayo, esiphila noma efile, esinobuhlungu noma enamafutha).
Kungani uphupha umhlambi wezinkomo?
Empeleni, inqwaba yezinkomo ezizohlangana, ingabangela ukwesaba , ngoba izinkomo ziyizilwane ezinkulu kakhulu. Ukuze siqonde ukuthi umhlambi wezinkabi uphupha kanjani owesifazane ephusheni, kudingeka sihlaziye okuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu abatholwe izinkulungwane ezimbalwa futhi kuboniswe abaphuphi bezwe:
- incwadi yephupho laseFrance emhlambini wezinkomo - amaphupho njengesixwayiso mayelana nokukhwabaniswa okuseduze kwabathandekayo futhi weluleka ukuphatha izimo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ngokuqapha nangokucabangela;
- ukubona okuningi encwadini yeVeles iphupho lwezinkomo - uphawu olubi, ukubikezela ukufa komuntu noma umlilo;
- uma owesifazane ephupha ukuthi unezinkomo eziningi - empeleni, ulindele impilo ephumelelayo nokugcwele.
Kungani bephupha ngokubamba inkomo?
Kuyinto eyodwa lapho ugwaza inkomo ephusheni ukuphupha komuzi ogcina izinkomo, futhi iphupho elinjalo, alisho lutho kuye, kodwa ingabe iphupho lisho ukuthini owesifazane ongazi ngisho nendlela yokusondela ku-Burenka? Kusele ukubuka ezincwadini zephupho bese uthola impendulo kubo:
- ukuphumelela emkhakheni wezezimali, ukwanda okukhulu kwenhlalakahle;
- ibhizinisi elikhulelwe, kodwa okuphakamisa ukungabaza ngokuzuza - leli phupho lithi leli ibhizinisi elifanele;
- owesifazane ophusheni inkomo, uzothola izipho ezingalindelekile noma afike emcimbini ojabulisayo;
- ukuphothulwa ngempumelelo kwamacala amalungiselelo kanye nokuhlonishwa kwabasebenzi;
- dream Miller - ukubamba inkomo ngenzuzo yokuphupha, ukungena kwezezimali, ukunqoba e-lottery;
- ngezinye izikhathi, ukumbamba inkomo ephusheni nokubona ama-jets amhlophe ebisi kungabonakalisa emzimbeni wokuthi awunakho izakhi kanye nokulandelela izici eziqukethwe ubisi, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukufaka umkhiqizo onjalo ewusizo ekudleni.
Iyini iphupho elimnyama eliphuphayo?
Umbala omnyama wesilwane ephusheni uvame ukuhunyushwa ngokungalungile yibo bonke abahumushi bephupho. Kusukela esikhathini esidlule kunezinkolelo-ze ukuthi umbala omnyama uhlotshaniswa namabutho amabi, ubumnyama. Ingabe lokhu kunjalo ngempela, futhi kufanele yini ukhathazeke uma uphupha njengaleyo? Konke kuncike ekuhlosweni nasekucabangeni komphuphi, ungathola futhi lokhu kukhulisa ukukhathazeka kwakho, futhi ungacabanga ngenye indlela: "Ngibonga ukuqonda kwami, okwanginika indlela yokulala futhi ngizozama ukuqaphela futhi ngiqaphe!". Lithini izincwadi zamaphupho ngenkomo yombala omnyama:
- ngoba owesifazane oshadile iphupho elinjalo ubonisa ukuthi ukuphikisana kwakhe okubi kuzama ukubhubhisa umndeni wakhe;
- incwadi yesimanje yephupho - inkomo emnyama, egijima ephusheni, ifanekisela umuntu onesifiso esibi ozama ukwakha izinkathazo kanye nezinkohliso;
- intombazane encane eye yabona inkomo emnyama ephusheni ingathemba ngokuphepha ukunikela ngengalo nenhliziyo evela kummangali othintekayo nonethembisayo;
- egibela inkomo emnyama - empeleni ukuba ingene enkingeni;
- ukuhola inkomo nge-black leash - ukuze uthole imali yamarisidi;
- incwadi enhle yokuphupha, inkomo emnyama ephusheni - ukulahleka, ukulahlekelwa, impilo ephikisayo yamalungu omndeni.
Uphupha ukuthini ngokuphonsa phansi izimpondo?
Amaphondo, izinselo, amazinyo yilokho okuvumela isilwane ukuba sizivikele futhi sibonise ukuhlukunyezwa. Ngakho-ke, amaphupho anjalo njalo isixwayiso sokuthi kunesimweni esimweni esidinga ukuzitholela noma ukusongela ngokuqondile, futhi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kubalulekile ukugcina ithrekhi yemizwa yakho nemizwelo, uzama ukucabangela nabathandekayo nabantu abakuzungezile. Izinhlobonhlobo zezincazelo zephupho:
- Ibhuku lephupho laseNgilandi - ukuhlaselwa kwezinkomo ephusheni - empeleni ukuphikisana nomuntu ozoba yisitha;
- Ibhuku lezincwadi zaseShayina - inkomo ephusheni inonya futhi iboditsya - impilo izoletha uchungechunge lwezikhazamiso;
- UMiller uphatha iphupho njengesilumkiso - ungaliboleki imali kubangani, ngoba ukuhlelwa okuhlelwe ngesikhathi kungasebenzi, futhi lokhu kungalimaza ubungane;
- iphupho lixwayisa ngokuvela kwezivakashi ezinonya endlini;
- Ibhuku lephupho lomndeni lithatha incazelo enhle yokulala futhi ifanekisela amarisidi angakalindelekile.
Kungani inkomo nephupho liphupha?
Inzalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isilwane noma isintu, ihlale isisindo somama esivusa imizwelo yokumangalisa kanye nesethenda, okubonisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwezincane nezinkulu, yonke izinhlayiyana. Indlela yokuhumusha leli phupho:
- incwadi yesimanje yephupho - inkomo enezinyane ngokutholwa ngokuthula emadlelweni ingahunyushwa ngokuthi isancantism kanye nokungacabangi, ubunzima ekwenzeni izinqumo eziphathekayo, le kholi-iphupho lokuba umuntu ozimele;
- Ibhuku lephupho lasekhaya - inkomo enezinyane, lifanekisela ibhizinisi elingaphumeleli;
- ukugcwaliseka kwazo zonke izifiso zabo;
- owesifazane okhulelwe - iphupho lapho inkomo enezibalo zamathole amancane, ngezinye izikhathi ukubhekwa kwezibalo ezinzima, kufanele uzinakekele kangcono impilo yakho;
- Ngokuzilalisa uMiller - kuveza ukuphila okude, okujabulisayo ngezikhathi eziningi zenhlanhla nenjabulo, ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso eziyimfihlo.
Kungani iphupho elifile liphupha?
Inyama efile ephusheni iwukuqedwa kwanoma yiziphi izinqubo noma ukuzithola esiteji "sokubola". Ukubonakaliswa kokulala kuthatha incazelo engalungile, ngokungafani okungajwayelekile, futhi incazelo ichazwe ngezici ezithile:
- incwadi yasendulo yephupho - inkomo efile ephupho lokufa kwabajwayele noma abangane, umkhankaso wokungcwaba ozayo;
- ukubona empilweni indlela inkomo idwengulwe ngayo izilo zasendle - isixwayiso ngengozi engenzeka, ingozi;
- ukulala ngokulahlekelwa kwezimali, ukuphazamiseka okuzayo emkhayeni womndeni;
- ephusheni kungabonisa ukungabi nakakhulu komsebenzi, ukuthanda nokwebuthakathaka, ngenxa yokuthi yiziphi izinto eziphonswa ngomgwaqo;
- encwadini yephupho kaTsvetkov - inkomo efile iwuphawu lokuncipha kwebhizinisi.
Kungani iphupho elimhlophe liphupha?
Inkomo emhlophe ephusheni isisindo esihle kokubili owesifazane nendoda, uma ngesikhathi esifanayo izinkomo ezondlekile kahle zigcwele ubisi, khona-ke ukukhathazeka nokuphila okujabulisayo kuqinisekisiwe. Ukuchazwa kokulala kwabalingani abahlukahlukene:
- incwadi ye-dream yaseShayina ibonisa owesifazane owambonile inkomo emhlophe ephusheni lakhe-indlela yokuphuma esimweni esinzima izotholakala, amandla aphezulu azosiza;
- Miss Hasse ubikezela injabulo eye yabona iphupho elinjalo;
- Ibhuku lephupho le-psychoanalytic ngokusho kukaFrud lichaza ukulala njengesifiso esinamandla esingenakuqhathaniswa sokuthola inzalo;
- okhulumela izinkulumo zikaTsvetkov ngefa elingalindelekile, uma ephusheni amaphupho amhlophe, aphethwe kahle;
- ku-ncwadi yendawo yokuphupha isho kanje - kuyinkumbulo-iphupho lomuntu olele, mayelana nomuntu owake wafa.
Iphupho lenkomo eliyindoda liphupha ngani?
Ukubona ephusheni inkabi evuthayo iyiphupho elingathandeki kakhulu kowesifazane, okuhunyushwa ngokuthi iphupho ngabaphuphi bekhokho ekuphileni komunye owesifazane, onqume ukubhubhisa umndeni, ubudlelwane. Ukuze uthole umsebenzi - futhi iphupho, okubonisa ukuthi emvelweni kukhona isisebenzi, ukukhwabanisa izinkathazo ngemuva kwakhe. Kufanele uqaphele ngokwengeziwe, ugcine ithrekhi yenkulumo yakho, ungasho okuningi futhi ukhumbule ukuthi ukulala kuyindlela yengqondo yethu engaphansi kokunakekelwa nokuqapha.
Kungani uphupha ukubalekela inkomo?
Inkomo egijima ephusheni - iphupho elinjalo libhekwa njengesabekayo, kodwa hhayi njengalokhu libukeka sengathi libukeka kuqala, kanti lophupha angakwazi ukumamatheka inhlanhla esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Kanjani okunye ukukwenza iphupho lokuhumusha leli phupho:
- lo wesifazane wayenephupho yenkomo egijima futhi ilandela - ifa elingalindelekile noma inzuzo izowela ekhanda lakhe;
- impumelelo ezindabeni zezezimali;
- isichazamazwi se-dream esoteric sichaza iphupho ngokushushiswa yenkomo njengento engathandeki emandleni umuntu, umuntu uzama ukunciphisa umuntu olele, kubalulekile ukuqapha isimo sempilo ezinsukwini ezizayo, uma kuqhubeka, izinyathelo zokuvikela kufanele zithathwe.
Kungani uphupha ukukhalisa?
Iphupho liyinkimbinkimbi, elinenzuzo enhle kuphela ekuchazeni isiShayina, ithembisa ukuthi zonke izifiso nemicabango zigcwaliseka ngumuntu obonile inkomo eveza iphupho, kwezinye izincwadi zephupho umuntu angahlangabezana nalezi zihumusho:
- ukubeletha esilwaneni - umthwalo wemfanelo yomuntu siqu ngokugcwele kumuntu ophuphayo;
- ithole lalifile - ukuphishekela uchungechunge lokuhluleka;
- owesifazane okhulelwe - uveza ukulethwa okunzima kwendodakazi;
- Ibhuku lephupho lase-Ukraine lichaza ukulala njengokubalulekile ukulungiselela izinhlekelele;
- indoda, iphupho linomqondo omuhle - ukuzalwa kwendlalifa.
Kungani izinkomo ziphuza?
Iphupho lapho owesifazane noma indoda edla khona umhlambi emadlelweni ngokuvamile uphethe umthwalo omuhle we-semantic, futhi lapha kubalulekile ukulalela izinombolo eziningana, ukunemba kokuchazwa kuncike kulokhu:
- ukuze athole umhlambi futhi abone ephusheni inkomo ehluke kwabanye bonke ababala - ibonisa ukufaneleka ngaphambi kweziphathimandla kanye nentuthuko, amakhono okudala ngeke aqondwe;
- yiziphi izinkomo nezinkomo ezidla emhlambini owodwa kanye nokuxubana okuphuphayo - lokhu kungatholakala encwadini yephupho kaFreud, ngoba owesifazane iphupho elinjalo likhombisa impilo yakhe esondelene nayo, ekhombisa ukuthi ayikho indawo yokuhlukahluka kuyo;
- ukuze badle ephusheni umhlambi ozolile, ongeyena onobudlova - ngenxa yemizamo yethu nomsebenzi esizophumelela;
- ibhuku le-dream esoteric litshela umphuphi ukuthi "ukondla izinkomo" yikhono lokuhola inhlangano yomphakathi noma yezombusazwe ngenxa yeminye ethile.
- ukushayela umhlambi, ukugqugquzela isibhamu - ukulala kubonisa ukushayisana ngengozi, kuyisigqila esingazi lutho mayelana nokuqapha nokuqapha okukhulu.