Ngakho-ke, ngabafana nabamantombazane abavame ukuzala bafika nini ngesikhathi esithile: amanye amaqiniso nezibalo - ake sixoxe.
Lapho ubeletha okuyisimangaliso?
Ukuthatha nokubeletha umntwana kuyilingo langempela lomzimba wesifazane. Uma umama wesikhathi esizayo enempilo futhi ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka ngaphandle kwezinkinga nezinkinga, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi umhlangano okhangayo uzokwenzeka ngaphambi kwamasonto angu-40-42, ngezinye izikhathi ukwanda. Ngokwezibalo, owesifazane oyedwa kwabayishumi abakhulu abaqothule ukukhulelwa ngokweqile kwamasonto angaphezu kwangu-42. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi lesi simo siqondakala kahle. Njengoba ukukhulelwa kokuqala kuvame ukuqala ngesikhathi sokuqala, lapho impilo kamama isifo esinamandla kakhulu futhi singapheli.
Kuyaziwa nokuthi ukuzalwa kokuqala kuhlala isikhathi eside. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umlomo wesibeletho uvula kancane kancane, futhi ukuthuthukiswa komsebenzi akuyona ngokushesha njengoba okwesibili.
Ngendlela, kusungulwe ukuthi izingane zingasheshi ukuvela, kokubili kokuqala nangesibili, ngaphansi kwezimo zangaphandle ezingalungile. Isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokubhujiswa kwempi emva kokulwa, amacala alotshwe lapho abesifazane beyingane cishe izinyanga ezingu-11.
Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi impendulo yombuzo wokuthi yiliphi igama elivame ukuzala abantu abayinhloko, ngokuyinhloko lixhomeke kobulili bomntwana.
Njengoba ubona, akulula ukuphendula umbuzo ukuthi yiliphi igama elivame ukunikezwa ukuzalwa kwe-primiparas. Ekubalweni, izici eziningi, ezifana nokuzalwa, ubudala bomama, ubulili bomntwana, uhlobo lwesifundo sokukhulelwa nesimo sokuphila, kufanele zicatshangelwe.