Uma kukhona isifiso sokushada, ungakwazi ukwandisa amathuba akho wokwakha ubudlelwane obuqinile futhi obujabulisayo, usebenzisa iziqephu kuZiqu-zintathu zomshado. Yonke imikhuba ilula futhi ifinyeleleka, kodwa ukuthi isenzo kumele sibe nezinhloso ezinhle kanye nokholo olukhulu emphumela omuhle. Uma kungenjalo, akufanelekile ukubala ekusizeni Amandla Aphezulu.
Yimiphi imikhuba kaZiqu-zintathu ngomshado?
Ukuze uthole ukuthi yikuphi uhlangothi ozoshada naye ozovela khona, udinga ukufaka i-wreath ngezandla zakho bese uyibeka emanzini. Ngakuphi ukuqondisa uzohamba, ukusuka lapho bese ulindele uthando.
Kukhona umkhuba olula wokushada komunye uZiqu-zintathu, lapho ngaphambi kokuya enkonzweni udinga ukudiliza amaqabunga amaningi e-birch uwafake esifubeni sakho. Yenza yonke inkonzo ngaphandle kokuyithola, futhi ngemva kokubuya ekhaya kusuka emaqabungeni ukulungiselela umhluzi phezu ukushisa low. Ngesikhathi sokulungiswa kwalo, tshela isenzo esinjalo:
"Yeka ukuthi abantu bathanda kanjani uZiqu-zintathu, ngakho-ke inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) mayingithande, ivuselele inhliziyo yami, ishise ngomzimba wami, unginike uthando".
Ake sicabangele isenzo esisodwa esilula esizovumela ukuhlangabezana nengxenye yesibili. Ukuze kusetshenziswe indlela endleleni eya esontweni ngenkonzo, kubalulekile ukuphula imifula yezimbali zasendle kanye namakhambi. Ethempelini bahlanjululwa, futhi ekupheleni kwesevisi bafaka amakhandlela amathathu phambi kwezithombe ezinemifanekiso yabesifazane. Uma ufika ekhaya, gaya izitshalo, uthele ngamanzi abilayo uphinde ulungise i-decoction. Uma amanzi epholile, kufanele ahlanze, ngenkathi etshela uZiqu-zintathu iqhinga lomshado nothando:
"I-Travushka-mug, wakhulela ensimini, wayinakekela indlela. Ngilethele umkhwenyana (noma umakoti), ukuze umphefumulo uzotshisa ngothando, ukuze impilo izobilisa ngesihluthulelo. "
Kukhona omunye umkhosi olula ozoletha umhlangano oseduze nengxenye yesibili. Ukuze kuqaliswe ukusebenza kwayo, kubalulekile ukuqala umkhuba cishe phakathi kwamabili ngaphambi komkhosi kaZiqu-zintathu. Thatha isixha sezimbali zasendle futhi ubeke umqhele ovela kuwo, bese uwela kuwo. Ukubamba ezandleni zakho, funda lo njongo:
"Emantombazaneni aluhlaza ahamba, ekhetha izimbali, izigqoko ezigqoke futhi ziphonswe emanzini. I-betrothed-mummer, uthatha isigqoko, unginike yona, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama). Kwaphakade naphakade. Amen. "
Ngemva kwalokhu, udinga ukuya echibini lemvelo uphonsa i-wreath kuyo, ukuze ilandwe yi-current. Hamba ekhaya futhi kungabikho icala ujikeleze futhi ungakhulumi nanoma ubani.
Izimpawu zomshado kuZiqu-zintathu
Kunezinkolelo-ze eziningana namasiko aqondene namantombazane angashadile kuphela. Isibonelo, ukuthola ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukushada ngonyaka ozayo, kuyadingeka ukuba uye esitolo esiseduzane phakathi nobusuku kaZiqu - zintathu bese u-"curl" umuthi we-birch osemusha. Uma amagatsha ebuna noma ekhula ngesikhathi seholide, ke akufanele ulindele ukuhlangana nalabo abathandekayo, kodwa uma behlala bedidekile, khona-ke umshado uzoba, futhi umndeni uyojabula. Ngokusho kwesinye isaziso, uma ubeka amahlumela amasha we-birch ngaphansi komcamelo, ungabona umlingani wakho wesikhathi esizayo ephusheni.