Yebo, lomshado ngokwawo umcimbi onzima kakhulu - awukwazi ukulandelela konke. Ziyini izibonakaliso, lapho umkhwenyana nomshumayeli ozayo bengena esikhwameni se-bachelor esikhatshana, ingubo ayifanele, futhi eTuris, lapho kwakuhlelwe khona i-honeymoon , izimvula zaqala. Yeka, sekuyisikhathi sokuma isikhashana futhi ubheke nxazonke, wenza konke okulungile, landela uhlelo, ukukhuluma. Uma kunjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi bonke bangakunaki amasiko amadala ukuthi imibhangqwana yanamuhla ayinake isikhathi eside.
Izimpawu zomshado
Okokuqala, ake sibheke usuku lomkhosi. Uma konke kulungile, ngokucacile lokhu akuyona inyanga kaMeyi, njengoba sekuyisikhathi eside saziwa ukuthi umshado uyisiboshwa ngalesi sikhathi, kuzokwenza bobabili bahlupheke. Kuyinto ejabulisayo ukuthi noma yimaphi ama-matchmaking ku-Apostoli uJacob (uMeyi 13) kufanele amiswe, ngoba isenzo esicatshangelwe njengento engacatshangwa kubhekwa njengento ehlambalaza umndeni womakoti - umlingo wezinombolo, uyazi. Imikhosi enomsindo ayihlelwe ngamaholide amakhulu esonto nangesikhathi sazo zonke izikhala ezine. Ukukhetha okulungile kungukungavamile, okuwela ngoMgqibelo noma ngeSonto, nakuba kungekudala, uLwesihlanu futhi usuku lomshado.
Sine-2014 ngaphambi kwethu - unyaka wehhashi. Abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi ngabe lo nyaka ulungile ekudaleni umndeni? Ngakho-ke, singasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi uma kukhethwe umlingani empilweni kucatshangwa futhi isinqumo sithathwa ngendlela elinganiselayo, umndeni ungadalwa kunoma yimuphi unyaka. Kodwa kulabo abangakwazi ukunquma nganoma iyiphi indlela, unyaka wehhashi yiyona enhle kakhulu, ngoba amahhashi akuzona izilwane ezingabodwa. Kungcono ukuba bahlale emhlambini noma babe khona ngezimbili.
Izimpawu ngosuku lomshado
Isibonakaliso esihle imvula ngosuku lomshado noma iqhwa, uma kuziwa ebusika. Uma ufuna ukuphila okuhlangene ukuba kube indebe egcwele, lungisa umkhosi ngenyanga. Okuningi kuzokuxhunyaniswa nesathelayithi yeplanethi yethu. Nakhu omunye - umshado nenyanga ekhulayo kuya ekugezeni okuqhubekayo nokuqhubekayo kwezimali zezimali emndenini, okungenakujabula kodwa! Kodwa-ke, uma uhlangana nenyanga ekhulayo, zonke izinselele nezinsizi zizophela, kodwa angazi isikhathi esingakanani.
Izimpawu ngaphambi komshado
Uma ukhuluma ngezibonakaliso ngaphambi komshado, cabanga ngesambatho sakho kusengaphambili, ngoba kukhona izimpawu eziningi ezibalulekile ezihlobene nezembatho zomkhwenyana nomlobokazi, noma kunalokho, izicathulo zabo. Umakoti kufanele akhumbule ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kushisa kangakanani, akukho izimbadada zomshado ! Izicathulo kuphela ezinezinyosi ezivaliwe neyesihlanu - ngokusebenzisa ukuvuza kwezwane ezivulekile ezivela ekhaya, kodwa izibopho ezingenabhantshi ngokuvamile ngokungahambisani nezibopho ezihlala emshadweni.
Izicathulo zomkhwenyana kufanele zibe mnyama noma zibe mnyama, ngoba izicathulo ezikhanyayo noma ezimpunga zomshado zibe nempilo encane yabasha. Uma usuqalile kakade mayelana nabamakoti, ngakho-ke asikwazisi, madodakazikazi abathandekayo ukuba akhethe i-butterfly yabo ethandekayo emcimbini womshado, ngisho noma kunjalo, ngoba okhokho bethu bakholwa - umkhwenyana e-butterfly uyoba ngumyeni ohambayo.
Bathi umakoti uthanda umakoti, uyalulekwa ukuba adonse i-lyastka emgodweni womshado. Yebo, futhi khumbula, awukwazi ukuzama izingubo zakho zomshado, ngisho nasemalungwini omndeni, ngisho nangemva komshado! Enye into oyidingayo yilapho enye i-postulate, ethi, isikhathi eside isikhathi sokugqoka umakoti, isikhathi eside sokuphila komshado kungakho kwamanye amazwe entshonalanga kuwumkhuba ukugqoka izingubo nge sitimela eside kakhulu.
Izinkolelo zemishado
Izimpawu nezinkolelo-ze emshadweni ziyizici ezifanayo, njengamahhashi namahhashi noma i-vinaigrette ne-olivier, konke kusuka ku-opera eyodwa. Kukholelwa ezinkolelweni, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi kufaka lezo zinyathelo zokuvikela ezihloswe ukuvikela umyeni noma umakoti, mhlawumbe kokubili. Isibonelo, lapho umakoti ephuma endlini ukuze abe khona, kufanele abeke isigqugquzelo, okufanele avikele umndeni wesikhathi esizayo esweni elibi. Bobabili abazalwane kudingeka bagqoke izikhonkwane zokuphepha zesiNgisi emcimbini nge-clasp. Lezi zikhonkwane kumele zifihliwe, ukuze kungabikho muntu ozothola. Yenzelwe futhi
Umakoti, ngokusho kwesiko esidala, kumele agqoke into entsha emshadweni, into ethi "engajwayelekile" (ngaphandle kweveli, amaglavu kanye, ngokwemvelo, izingubo zangaphansi, ukubeka impahla), into egugile. Kufanele wenze i-pair of stitches emgqeni wesigqoko noma kwenye indawo engabonakali yamehlo, okungcono ngezintambo eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, okumele ukuyivikele esweni elibi. Lokhu akuzona zonke izimpawu zabantu zomshado, kodwa sithinte amaphuzu amakhulu.
Yebo, ngisho noma umshado wakho ungasheshi, ngifisa sengathi uzohlangana nomshado - isibonakaliso esihle kakhulu. Ngubani othi - emshadweni, ngubani othi lokho ngenhlanhla. Kubonakala sengathi kimi ukubona ukuthi inkampani enkulu yabantu abahlanganiswe nenjabulo enkulu evamile sekuvele injabulo.