Iphupho ngamakati, njengoba umhumushi wephupho uyayichaza: ikati elimthanda noma elidlalayo, yimuphi umbala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isilwane noma isitaladi - lezi nezinye izinhlobo eziningi zithinta ukuchazwa kwephupho nokubonakaliswa kwemiphumela empeleni.
Yini owesifazane ephuphayo?
Emasikweni amaningi emhlabeni, amakati abhekwa njengezilwane eziyimfihlakalo ekwazi ukubuka ngaphesheya kwesihenqo somunye umhlaba ngaphesheya, kukhona ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi ikati isilwane esake sewela eMhlabeni kusukela eNyangeni, kanti amaphupho afaka lezi zidalwa athatha umlayezo womunye wesifazane. Ngakho-ke yini ikati eliphuphayo ngentombazane noma owesifazane omdala oshadile? Kukhona isigaba samaphupho esibonisa ukuthi kunezitha noma abantu ababi emvelweni futhi ngokuvamile amaphupho amakati abizwa ngamaphupho angalungile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunjalo - lesi sihloko sizosiza ukubona zonke izicabha kanye nama-nuances amaphupho anezidalwa ezinobuthi.
Kungani uphupha ikati elimnyama?
Ngaphambi kokuhumusha iphupho labesifazane ngekati elimnyama, kubalulekile ukuba unake lezi zinto ezilandelayo:
- kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isilwane sasifuywayo noma "owangaphandle";
- kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isilwane sibonisa ukuhlukunyezwa noma ukukhohlisa;
- yimuphi umuzwa lapho uhlangana nekati elimnyama.
Ukuze wenze umbono ophelele wephupho, kungcono ukudweba ulwazi kusuka emithonjeni eminingi-izincwadi zokuphupha:
- incwadi yamaphupho yasendulo - ikati elimnyama elinenwele elikhanyayo nelanga elikhanyayo elikhanyayo elikhanyayo, lixwayisa owesifazane ngesilingo, elungezwe yindoda, indoda yabesifazane;
- incwadi yesimanje yephupho - ikati elimnyama noma ikati ukuhluleka ebhizinisini;
- Incwadi yeVelesov iphupho - ikati noma ikati elimnyama ephusheni libikezela inkathazo encane nenkulu;
- incwadi yephupho Grishina: ukubona ukuthi amakati amnyama alwa kanjani ephusheni - ukuthola ingcebo, eqaliswa ngokumelene nomuntu olele.
Amanye amanani avela emithonjeni ehlukene:
- ikati elimnyama elinobungane - kuyofika isikhathi esihle, lapho zonke izinto zizoba lula ukwenza;
- ikati elimnyama lidlula owesifazane ngendlela yokuphupha - ukuwa kwamathemba nezinhlelo;
- ama-kittens amnyama - ngenzuzo eqinile.
Kungani iphupho elimhlophe liphupha?
Ikati elimhlophe empeleni liyilwane elimhlophe, kodwa kuthiwani ngephupho? Kukholelwa ukuthi ikati elimhlophe linembile engaphezulu kwephupho kunekati elimnyama, kodwa hhayi kuzo zonke izizwe hhayi kuzo zonke izincazelo. Ngakho, ikati elimhlophe ephusheni labesifazane:
- ngokusho kukaMose Hasse, ibhuku lephupho - ikati elimhlophe ezandleni zakhe lisho ukuthi kukhona umlutha wemvelo endaweni, umuntu ongakwazi ukufaka indawo nganoma isiphi isikhathi;
- Ikati elimhlophe - ukuya ekuphileni okungenalutho nokulingana esikhathini esizayo esiseduze;
- umphuphi uMiller - ikati elimhlophe amaphupho ezinkinga ezinkulu zezezimali, ukubandakanya ekukhwabaneni kwezezimali ;
- ibhuku lezincwadi zanamuhla: ikati elinomsoco omhlophe libheke intombazane noma owesifazane ekuqaleni kwezinkinga ngempilo, kodwa kungasho futhi ukuthi umgomo obalulekile uzotholakala uma lo mphupho ephazamisekile ikati lokugunda;
- Incwadi ye-Medea iphupho yenza iphupho ngekhamera elimhlophe elimhlophe njengesixwayiso owesifazane, ukuthi akufanele athembele emadodeni azungezile.
Kungani uphupha ikati elibomvu?
Umbala obomvu noma umbala ovela ezikhathini zasendulo kuhlotshaniswa nobuqili nobuqili, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi kuwumthombo wamandla amakhulu, ngakho-ke babesaba abantu abomvu noma izilwane ezibomvu ezitholakale ngengozi, kungaba ikati noma ipukane. Iphupho elinesibhakabhaka esibomvu libuye lithembeke ekuhloleni kwayo. Abaphuphi abahlukahlukene bahumusha amaphupho anjengale ndlela ngendlela elandelayo:
- Ibhuku laseRussia - ikati elinemibala ebomvu amaphupho owesifazane uma kwenzeka okhethiweyo wakhe engathembeki kuye, noma endleleni yokukhohlisa;
- ibhuku lephupho labesifazane: ikati elibomvu lidlala ngokulinganayo luthando oluthandayo oluqhakazile kodwa oluphila isikhathi esifushane;
- ukukhahlela ikati elibomvu - ukuguqula empilweni, ukuphula ubuhlobo nomlingani wangaphambili;
- phupha uMiller - ugijima ikati elincane elibomvu endlini ngephupho lenhlanhla nenjabulo;
- Ikati elibomvu elibomvu ephusheni libikezela ukukhulelwa noma isifiso esingenasici sokuthi owesifazane abe ngumama.
Kungani uphupha ikati elifile?
Amaphupho anjalo awajabulisi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ashiya umhlabathi, i-alamu nemibuzo eminingi ekuvusweni. Yeka iphupho lamaphupho ephikisayo - kubalulekile ukunaka imininingwane:
- imbangela yokufa;
- umbala wesilwane;
- indawo yokufa (indlu yephupho noma indawo yangaphandle).
Lokho abakushoyo ngaleli phupho kukhona abaphuphi abahlukahlukene:
- Incwadi yamaphupho yaseRussia yasendulo: ukubulala ikati ukubhekana nezinkinga zangempela nomthetho;
- Iphupho likaMiller eliphuphayo iphupho lapho owesifazane egoba khona ekati elifile elibonisa lokho anakho, ukuthi yini okufanele ayifihle empeleni, futhi uma engafuni ukuthi imfihlo ibe yinto ebonakalayo, kufanele ilondolozwe;
- incwadi enhle kakhulu yokuphupha - ukubona ikati elifile ekushabalaleni komuntu ongenalwazi okungahambi kahle ekuphileni;
- ama-kittens afile ephusheni-impumelelo yezimpikiswano zezezimali;
- ibhuku lezincwadi zanamuhla: ukubona ikati elifile emngceleni wendlu yakhe intombazane inomusa futhi ibikezela ukubukeka komuntu, owesifazane oshadile ukuthi isikhathi sokungahambisani nomyeni sesiphelile - yisikhathi sokuba idyll yomndeni.
Kungani iphupho elikhulu liphupha?
Kungani uphupha ikati elikhulu elimnyama - umbuzo ovamile, ngoba lo mbala ungaphansi kwezinkinga nezinkinga, nezilwane eziphupha zombala ohlukile - la maphupho ashiywa ngaphandle kokunakwa. Akubona bonke abaphuzi abavame ukugxila emgqeni ekugxileni, ngokuhumusha i-angle ngokuqondile ngamakhulu amakhulu amakati, ngoba lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Amaphupho abesifazane, aphethe amakati amakhulu, incazelo:
- ibhuku lephupho lomndeni - i-cat enkulu, ekhathele ama-cat okusebenzisa imali nokuthenga;
- incwadi ephuthumayo yencwadi - umhlangano nomuntu ohloniphekile, onomusa;
- indodana yendodakazi kaTsvetkov - ikati elikhulu elimnyama libikezela ukuphikisana nesitha esinamandla;
- ikati elikhulu lanoma imuphi umbala ephusheni lingabonisa ukubonakala komphikisi empilweni yowesifazane;
- yondla ikati elikhulu ephusheni - ukujwayele abantu abanethonya.
Kungani uphupha amakati amaningi?
Uma owesifazane noma intombazane enekati nekati enenhloso enhle, lokhu kuyiphupho elihle kunalokhu lapho izilwane zinobudlova. Yini enye okufanele ilalele lapho ihlaziya iphupho, lokhu kuhunyushwa ngezincwadi ezahlukene zokuphupha, ngakho-ke kuzuzisa ukuzibamba ngolwazi oluhlukile ukwenza isithombe esiphelele:
- incwadi yokuphupha i-gypsy - amakati amaningi aphakamisa isixwayiso mayelana nezinkinga ezingenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze;
- Ibhuku lephupho laseNgilula lembula owesifazane iphupho, ekhwela ngamakati njengesixwayiso esithandwa ngubo abathandekayo futhi hhayi nomlingani oyedwa;
- amaphupho ukuthi amakati athwala e-attic ahunyushwa yi-snitch engokwengqondo njengokungqubuzana okujulile okungapheli;
- amakati alambile, alambile futhi alambile ephusheni - ngokungalindelekile ukuba alulame, uma emndenini omunye wezihlobo egula, nokuqedwa kwezintambo zokuhluleka;
- amakati kanye namakati wezinhlupho ezahlukene aphuphe impumelelo enkulu nempumelelo .
Iyini ikati elikhulumayo eliphuphayo?
Ikati liyisilwane esiyingqayizivele, futhi njengesikhulumi ephusheni kubalulekile ukubheka eduze, mhlawumbe amandla aphakeme afuna ukunikeza iseluleko esihlakaniphile noma inkomba. Amaphupho mayelana nokukhuluma amakati kowesifazane angasho lokhu okulandelayo:
- Ibhuku le-Felomene iphupho - ikati elikhuluma likhombisa izinkinga eziye zavela esigabeni socansi;
- Iphupho libekwe Lofa - ikati noma ikati ngokuthula likhuluma ngokuvela kwabahlobo abanokwethenjelwa futhi abanomusa;
- I-Dreambook Meneghetti - isilwane esiphusheni ephusheni saqala ukukhuluma, kufaneleka ukunaka umlingani, angaba yiphampi yamandla, ukudonsa amandla;
- ephusheni ikati ikhuluma ngokuhlukunyezwa, ngisho nokuhlaselwa - isizathu sokucabanga ukuthi empeleni akukhona isibindi esanele nokuzimisela ukusebenzisa lokho okukwakhiwe, yisikhathi sokubonisa lezi zimfanelo.
Iyini ikati enezithombe?
Amaphupho namakati futhi ngokuvamile athwala inkulumo engalungile, kunomqondo omuhle, futhi uma isilwane sinezinyosi, kulungile nje ukucasula isimo esinjalo. Ngakho kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubi njengoba kubonwe kusukela ekuqaleni - yisikhathi sokubuka nokuqoqa ulwazi mayelana nokulala kusuka emithonjeni ehlukene:
- dream ndodana kaTsvetkov - i-cat ekhukhumezayo amaphupho enzuzo, kodwa uma ephusheni iqala ukubhubhisa amafoshi kuso, ngokuphambene - nokulahleka;
- Iphupho libeka Lofa - owesifazane ukuze abone ukuthi isilwane sibheka kanjani izinhlanzi, esiveza ngokungazelelwe umuzwa wokuhawukela ngokuphumelela kwezinye izimpumelelo zezimali;
- yini ikati elimnandi eliphuphayo, futhi ngisho ne-fleas - incwadi yephupho likaVanga iphakamisa ukuthi lokhu kuzinhlalakahle;
- i-fleas emzimbeni wekati - ukuya emkhosini ozayo futhi uhlala;
- incwadi yesimanje yephupho - ukusindisa ikati kusuka emafreyini owesifazane amaphupho okumbonisa ingxenye yakhe yokuphana kumuntu ongazange amenze kahle.
Kungani ikati ibamba igundane?
Ikati liyisilwane esiyingozi, kuyathakazelisa ukugcina ukuzingela kwayo izinyoni noma amagundane, kuhle kakhulu, kepha kuyiqiniso. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ikati ukuzingela umthunzi omubi ephusheni singafunda ngokubheka abaphuphi:
- Ibhuku lezincwadi zamaSulumane - ikati labanjwa igundane elifanekisela inhlanhla kanye nesizathu sokujabulela impilo;
- incazelo yephupho kaFreud ihumusha iphupho lapho ikati elithatha igundane njengendlela yokubonakaliswa kwezinto ezibuhlungu, ngezinye izikhathi iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukungabi nalutho lwe-adrenaline, nokubonakala okuthakazelisayo;
- Ibhuku lephupho laseFrance - ikati libulala igundane futhi lithwala ukuze libonise inkosikazi libonisa iphupho lokuba neze;
- Miller - iphupho elinokuthi ukuzingelwa kwegundane elifana nekati kuyisilumkiso mayelana nengozi evela kubantu abazimele.
Kungani uphupha ikati elihlabayo?
Ukubonakaliswa kokuhlukunyezwa yizilwane ephusheni, ikakhulukazi ikati - incazelo yokulala ixhomeke emibhalweni ethile, isibonelo, lapho ikati elila khona, ngoba amakati awaziwa ukuxilongwa kwezifo nokuluma endaweni ethile yokunaka - lokhu kungaba ukubonakaliswa kokugula kokuqala. Okunye ukuhumusha kokulala:
- Ibhuku le-Felomene iphupho - ikati elinywe ephusheni ezinkingeni zesikhashana ekusetshenzisweni kwamacala;
- incwadi yephupho kaFreud ichaza iphupho lapho isidalwa esinomlilo sikhala khona njengokuba khona kokuthambekela kobulili;
- ukulunywa ikati emlenzeni - izinkinga ngebhizinisi, ukulunywa kwesandla ekulahlekelweni kwezimali, futhi uma ikati lihlaba ngomunwe, kuyadingeka ukulinda ukuwohloka kobudlelwane bomphakathi nabangane.
Kungani iphutha elibi liphupha?
Umhlaseli ekati eliphupho uyamangala, ahlabelele, ahlasele, ahlabe futhi ahlasele - ithuba lokuba owesifazane noma intombazane ukuba acabangele imvelo nalokho akwenzayo kwabanye, ngoba izwe liyisibuko esibonisa imizwa yethu, imizwelo yethu, imizwelo yethu. Kuthiwani ngalokhu okushoyo abaphuphayo:
- Incwadi yamaphupho yasendulo - iphupho elimbi lezinguquko zezinguquko nokuhlolwa;
- ibhuku lephupho lomfazi - ukukhawulwa komuntu othandekayo ;
- ukulwa nekati elibi - ekuguleni;
- ukuhlasela kwekati ephusheni - ezizungezwe izitha noma izifiso ezimbi.