Izimpawu eziningi zihlobene nokuphila kwethu nezinto, esizisebenzisa nsuku zonke. Enye yezinto ezinjalo ngummese - umsizi othembekile kanye nesikhali esinamandla - ngesikhathi esifanayo. Yingakho abantu befuna ukwazi ukuthi bangathola yini ummese - uphawu oluhle noma olubi? Kuvela ukuthi kukhona kokubili okukhethwa kukho, okungukuthi, kwezinye izimo kuhle, kodwa kwabanye kubi.
I-Bad omens mayelana nommese
- Uma uthola ummese okhuni, lokhu kungaholela ekuhlukaneni nomuntu omthandayo.
- Ummese okhaliphile ungatholakaliswa ukulahleka okuzayo, izingxabano ezikhona kanye nokuhlukana .
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kunendlela enhle yokuxazulula izinkinga ezikhona: uma ummese ungatholakali kahle, isibonakaliso sitshela ukuthi kufanele senzeni: kungcono ukuthi ungakuphakamisi nhlobo, ungayithathi. Ngempela, kungani, ukwazi kusengaphambili ngezinkinga ezingenzeka, udlale ngekusasa! Kodwa-ke, uma kwenzeke ngesizathu esithile sokusebenzisa ummese esikhathini esizayo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuzilimaza, kuyadingeka ukwenza umkhuba wokuhlanzwa kwayo, ngoba awaziwa ukuthi lo mkhwa ube ngowokuphi futhi lapho umnikazi wasebenzisa khona.
Ungasusa kanjani umphumela kusuka kummese?
Ummese, uma ufuna ukuwushiya wena, ungakhululeka ekungabi nandaba nokuthola ulwazi olusuka kumnikazi wangaphambilini, ngezindlela ezimbili:
- singazibophezela ekufundeni umthandazo othi "uBaba wethu" noma "Ukuhlanzwa kwazo zonke izinto," futhi, uma kungenakunye okukukhathazayo, yilokho kuphela;
- Ukuhlanzwa nokukhishwa kwezinto ezingalungile kungenziwa ngamanzi asentwasahlobo noma amanzi asebenzayo, okumele kube ngummese, ngenkathi ufunda enye yemithandazo.
Emva kwalokho, ungaqala ukuyisebenzisa, ukhokhe, noma kunjalo, uqaphele ukuthi "uhola" kanjani.
Ukuthola ummese ehlathini kuyingozi, njengokuthi, ngokuqondile, nanoma yikuphi okuhlotshaniswa nale nto. Akubalulekile kakhulu lapho uthola khona, okubaluleke kakhulu omunye - obengobani ngaphambili, futhi okungabalulekile - kungani uyithatha futhi uyiphathe ekhaya. Kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi awunayo imimese ekhaya. Azikho izibonakaliso ezihambisana nommese owatholakali, akubhekwa njengokuhle, ngakho isibonakaliso , ukuthola ummese emgwaqweni, asithwali lutho oluhle.