Abazali bezingane esikoleni esizayo bahlale bekhathalela ngokufanele umbuzo - ukuthi yini abangayenza futhi okufanele bayenze ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yabo esikoleni ikhululekile. Ukulungela esikoleni akuqinisekisiwe kuphela ngamakhono okufunda, ukubala nokubhala. Futhi, uma kungenangqondo ngokukhululekile, isikole asinalo ilungelo lokunqaba ingane ekuqeqeshweni, uma engenalo lamakhono okwamanje. Umsebenzi nje wesikole ukufundisa iziqu zakho zonke lezi zici.
Noma kunjalo, isimo somntwana ongakulungeli izinsuku zesikole kunzima kunzima. Ikakhulukazi, enikezwa ukuthi iningi labafundi afunda nabo lizobe lilungiselela isikole.
Kuphi ukulungiselela ingane esikoleni?
Abazali abafuna ukusiza indodana noma indodakazi yabo abazizwa esikoleni "izimvu ezimhlophe", babe nezindlela ezimbili:
- Ukulungiselela ekhaya ingane esikoleni.
- Ukulungiswa okukhethekile kwezingane esikoleni ngosizo lwabaqeqeshi.
Ukuze ulungise ingane esikoleni ekhaya, ngeke ube novilapha kakhulu ukusebenzisana nomfundi ozayo. Ukunakwa kufanele kubhalelwe amaphuzu alandelayo:
- ukuthuthukiswa kombono jikelele (izingxoxo ezingenangqondo nengane "mayelana nokuphila", ukufunda izincwadi ngezinkulumo zabo ezalandela);
- ukuhlola izibalo, izincwadi, izibalo ze-geometric, imibala, imiqondo "ebanzi" futhi "emincane", "kwesokunxele" nelithi "kwesokudla", "enkulu" nelithi "encane";
- ukwakheka kwekhono lokufunda okungenani ama-syllables;
- ukwakheka kwekhono lokubala ezinyangeni eziyishumi nangaphezulu;
- ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono amakhono emoto (ukuxilonga kwamabhulashi neminwe);
- inkumbulo yokuqeqesha ngokukhumbula ngezingoma kanye nezingoma;
- ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okuhlaziya nokuhlukanisa (ingane kufanele ifunde ukuhlela indaba, ukukhomba ukuthi kungani kubangelwa ubudlelwane phakathi kwayo, ukwazi ukuqoqa konke kusuka ezithombeni ezingafani, ukubeka izinto ngezizathu ezithile).
Uma kukhona isikhathi nemali, kanye nokuhluleka ukulungiselela ingane esikoleni, inkinga yokulungiselela izingane esikoleni ingaphathwa ngokuzimela ngothisha abazimele nabachwepheshe bezengqondo. Abanye abazali nabo bayathanda ukuthuthukiswa kwentsha noma izifundo zokulungiselela (ikakhulukazi esikoleni lapho ingane izofunda khona).
Ukulungiswa kwengqondo kwezingane esikoleni
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izinga lokulungiselela izingane esikoleni libuye lithathwe ukulungela kwengqondo, hhayi nje ngesitoko solwazi. Futhi ukulungela kwengqondo kunamalungu amaningi:
- amakhono okukhulumisana nokuxhumana nabantu (ikhono lokuxhumana, ukuqonda nokusebenzisa ekuphileni kwansuku zonke izimiso zokuziphatha nezokuziphatha ezithathwe emphakathini lapho ingane ihlala khona);
- ikhono lokuthola ulimi oluvamile nabantu abadala nabangane;
- ikhono lokuvikela isikhundla sabo ngezindlela eziphucukile, ngaphandle kokubonisa ukuhlukunyezwa okungalungile noma ukwesaba ngokweqile;
- ukuqonda incazelo yenqubo yokufunda esikoleni, ukubaluleka kokuthola ulwazi, umyalelo wokufunda;
- ikhono lokulalela imithetho emisiwe, ukuqaphela isidingo sokuqondiswa nokuqonda okusemqoka;
- ukutholakala kwesisusa esihle nesifiso sokufunda;
- ikhono lokusebenza ngokuzithandela futhi uzisebenzele isabelo, uhlele izenzo zakho futhi ube nesibopho semiphumela yabo;
- isimo sengqondo esihle kuwe.
Ukulungiselela ngokomzimba izingane esikoleni
Ngaphambi kokungena ebangeni lokuqala, kungaba usizo kakhulu ingane ukuba yenze imidlalo ukuze iqinise umkhuhlane wakhe futhi ithuthukise ukuma kwayo. Ukuqala konyaka wesikole kuba yisilingo esibucayi sezingane ezingakalungi ngokomzimba.
Amakilasi esigabeni sezemidlalo angamniki ingane impilo kuphela, kodwa futhi amakhono okuqondisa izigwegwe. Umoya omusha, ukudla okunomsoco kanye nokusebenza ngokomzimba kungabasizi abathembekile bezingane esikoleni esizayo.
Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu enganeni yakho iyoba nokuzethemba nokwesekwa kwabazali, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani esikoleni.