Amakhono okuxhumana nokuhleleka kubaluleke kakhulu kubaholi nabaholi, ngakho-ke bavame ukucabanga ngendlela yokuthuthukisa ngayo. Ngenxa yalokhu, kubalulekile ukutadisha ingqondo yezobuhlobo nokuthuthukisa izimfanelo ezithile ezikhethekile kubaholi.
Amakhono omhlangano afaka hlangani?
Umholi onamakhono aphezulu enhlangano unezimfanelo eziningi ezikhuthaza umsebenzi osebenzayo endimeni yomholi. Umuntu onjalo uyakwazi ukuxazulula izingxabano, ukubeka imithetho, ukulawula isimo sengqondo seqembu, ukubeka imisebenzi nokufeza ukugcwaliseka kwayo.
Amakhono enhlangano ahlanganisa:
- ukuqondisisa, okusho ukuthi uyakwazi "ukufunda" isimo somzwelo wabantu futhi anqume ukuhambisana kwabo kwengqondo, ukuhlakanipha, ukulinganisela, ulwazi lwezingqondo mayelana nobuhlobo;
- wabonisa izimfanelo zemizwelo, ezinjengomsebenzi, ukulingana, ukugxeka, ukufaneleka, ukuqonda, ukuzimisela;
- ukuqhubekela phambili ebuholini, okubandakanya ukugqugquzela, izici zomuntu siqu, imfundo ekhethekile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umholi onamakhono aphezulu okuhleleka nokuxhumana anemibono ebanzi, i-erudition, amazinga angenalutho nokucabanga okufana ne-cliché-like, isinyathelo, ukubekezela ekufezeni imigomo yakhe, ukumelana nokucindezeleka, ukuzimisela ukufunda nokushintsha, ikhono lokubala umphumela womsebenzi.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono enhlangano nokuxhumana
Ukuthuthukisa amakhono enhlangano, kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa izimfanelo zomholi. Yenza uhlu lwezimfanelo ongekho, futhi usethe umkhawulo wesikhathi ngemuva kwalokho okumele ube khona okuqhubekayo, okugxile emigomeni, njll. Zama, isibonelo, kanye nezivivinyo ezilandelayo:
- "I-Pantomime" - ngaphambi kwesibuko, ukujwayela ukuveza imizwelo ehlukahlukene (intukuthelo, injabulo, injabulo, njll), okuzokwenza kube lula ukudluliselwa kolwazi olubalulekile kulabo abangaphansi kwakho.
- "Ukucula" ngenye indlela yokuzivocavoca
ukudluliswa kwemizwelo eyanele, udinga ukubuza imibuzo uphendule ngosizo lokucula. - "Ukuqiniseka" - bhala ephepheni lakho isifiso sakho bese uzama ukuqinisa umphikisi wakho ukuthi kumele enze lokho abhale ngakho.
- "Phuma embuthanweni" - umsebenzi womholi kulo msebenzi ukuphoqa umuntu ukuba aphume embuthweni odwetshiwe.
Amakhono entuthuko athuthukile asho futhi ikhono lokugwema ithonya lomunye umuntu. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kudingeka usebenze ngokwakho: hlaziya ukuziphatha kwakho, impendulo kwimicimbi ehlukahlukene, njll. Uma wazi izindawo zakho ezibucayi, uzokwazi ukuqonda kangcono abanye abantu.