Kubonakala sengathi ukuba udade wenkanyezi kuhle. Isihlobo esidumile sizohlinzeka ngokuphila okunethezeka, sizothenga izindlu ezibizayo futhi sizoletha ngezambatho zoboya kanye nedayimane. Kuhlala kuphela ukuhlala enjabulweni futhi ujabulele izipho zesikhathi esizayo.
Kodwa empeleni, konke ukuphila kusemthunzini womunye umuntu kunzima ukuvivinywa okunzima, njengoba kuboniswa yikusasa lama heroines ethu.
UJamie Lynn Spears - udadewethu uBritney Spears
Ngesinye isikhathi, uBretney Spears nodadewabo bahlazisa unina. U-Lynn Spears wabhala incwadi ngezincebiso zokukhulisa izingane futhi wayekulungele ukuphumula emithonjeni yakhe. Noma kunjalo, noma ubani owazi ngemfundo yinto yonke: ULynn uye wakhulela indodakazi enhle kangaka, ingane yangempela!
Kodwa-ke, amacebo omama onobugovu ayengakahlelelwe ukuba agcwaliseke: le ncwadi yayizokwenzeka ukunyatheliswa, ukuthi izinkinga zaqala kanjani. Ekuqaleni, indodakazi endala, uBrithney, yayinqatshelwe ukugcinwa kwamadodana akhe futhi yafakwa emtholampilo wezemvelo, kanti umncane kunazo zonke, uJamie Lynn, owayeneminyaka engu-16 ubudala, wakhulelwa isoka lakhe. Lapho kwaziwa umphakathi, uLynn Spears wagxekwa kakhulu ngokuvumela uJamie Lynn ukuba ahlale ebusuku emakhaya abo futhi akazange akhokhele indodakazi yakhe endala. Ngokuvamile, izindlela zokukhulisa kwakhe zaba ukwehluleka, futhi le ncwadi kwakufanele ihlehliswe.
Phakathi naleso sikhathi, osemusha uJamie Lynn wanquma ukugcina umntwana, futhi ngoJuni 19, 2008, wazala indodakazi kaMaddie. Ngomunye wentombazane, lo mama osemncane washeshe waqeda futhi washada nomsebenzi webhizinisi uJamie Watson. Ngokusobala, wabhekana kahle nemisebenzi yakhe yomama, ebiza indodakazi yakhe umngane wakhe omkhulu.
NgoFebruwari 5, 2017 kwakukhona inhlekelele. UDaddie oneminyaka engu-8 ubudala ugibele noyise wakhe ku-ATV lapho kungazelelwe bawela echibini. Umntwana wachitha imizuzu embalwa ngaphansi kwamanzi. Manje usesimweni esibucayi esibhedlela. Imininingwane yomndeni ayikudalula, kodwa ku-Instagram Britney Spears kwakukhona irekhodi:
"Umshana wami udinga yonke imithandazo yakho"
U-Ashley Kaufman - Udadewethu Lindsay Lohan
Ngokuphathelene nodadewabo omncane uLindsay Lohan wafunda kakade esemdala. Kuvela ukuthi ubaba wakhe wayenokuxhumana okuyimfihlo, okuvela kuyo intombazane egama layo lingu-Ashley. Ukufunda ngalesi sihlobo, uLindsay uthe akayikugcina ubuhlobo naye.
Kodwa u-Ashley ukhuluma ngokuqondile nodade wakhe odumile. Usuvele usele amashumi ezinkulungwane zamaRandi ukuze abe njengamaconsi amabili amanzi njengoLindsay. Intombazane eneminyaka engu-21 ubudala yenze i-rhinoplasty, kanye namahlumela epulasitiki namazinyane. Ngenhlanhla, ezama ukufana noLohan ngaphandle, akazange athathe imikhuba yakhe embi: U-Ashley ugwema amaqembu amomsindo, akaphuzi futhi akazisebenzisi izidakamizwa.
Solange Knowles - Udadewethu Beyonce
Udade osemncane kaBeyoncé unomhawu kakhulu ngempumelelo yakhe. USolange naye ungumculi, kodwa akakwazi ukufika ezingeni elifanayo nomzala wakhe wezinkanyezi. Intombazane isaba kakhulu.
Ngokusho kwamahemuhemu, kwakunomona wakhe udadewabo okwakungenye yezizathu zesigameko esidumile uSolange nomyeni wakhe uBeyonce - Jay Z. Ngokuqinisekile, wathembisa intombazane ukuthi uzokwenzela inkanyezi, kodwa ukhohlwe ngesithembiso sakhe. Ukunganeliseki kukaSolange kwaphenduka ukuhlukumezeka, futhi wadonsa umkhwenyana wakhe ngamanxeba akhe.
U-Alison Carey - udadewabo kaMariah Carey
UMariah Carey akakhulumi nodadewabo omdala u-Alison iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-20. Sekuyisikhathi eside uCary Omkhulu ube yindlela yokuziphatha okubi: esebenza "njengentombazane", uthatha izidakamizwa futhi uyithwala we-HIV. Ngonyaka ka-2015, u-Alison wahlaselwa ngamphangi kanti, njengoba elimale kabi, ububanzi bezinwele kusukela ekufeni, udade odumile akazange amvakashele esibhedlela futhi akazange asebenzise ipeni ekwelapheni isihlobo sakhe.
UMfoweth 'uMariah Carey no-Alison babethukuthele, wathi udade osemusha ungumuntu ongobugovu ochitha izigidi zamadola ezinja zakhe, kodwa akafuni ukuphakamisa umunwe ukusindisa izihlobo. Enhliziyweni yakhe wabiza uMariahua umlumbi. Ummeli womculi washesha ukuphikisa ukuthi uMariah uzame ngokuphindaphindiwe ukusiza udadewabo ukuqeda ukulutha izidakamizwa, ngaphezu kwalokho, iminyaka eminingi empeleni uqukethe u-Alison nabantwana bakhe.
Konke lokhu okungafani nakho akubanga nomthelela ekuziphatheni kuka-Alison. Ushiya esibhedlela, wathatha umdala. Ngentwasahlobo ka-2016, udade oneminyaka engu-55 ubudala we-superstar wabanjwa ngokubomvu futhi waboshwa ngenxa yokufeba.
UNancy Mouts - udadewabo kaJulia Roberts
Kuwo wonke ama-heroine ohlu lwethu, inhlekelele eyingozi kunazo zonke, mhlawumbe, nguNancy Moots - odade bakaJulia Roberts. Ukuphila kwakhe konke okuneminyaka engama-37 ubudala kwaphazamiseka kakhulu ngodadewabo odumile. Ngokusho kukaNancy, uJulia wayehlale emhleka ngonya, ecabanga ukuthi likhulu kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokhu ukuhleka usulu, amaMotshi amabize ngisho anqume ngomsebenzi wokunciphisa isisu. Kodwa-ke, ubuhlobo phakathi kwabaodade abuzange buthuthuke: UNancy wamangalela uJulia ngazo zonke izinkinga zakhe, wambiza ukuthi wayengenandaba nabangenangqondo, wabiza abalandeli benkanyezi ye-movie ukuba "bavule amehlo abo" futhi baqiniseke ukuthi uJulia ungumuntu "ononya" kakhulu.
NgoFebhuwari 2014, uNancy watholakala efile ebhodini eligcwele amanzi, eceleni kwamapilisi kanye nencwadi yokuzibulala eyatholwa eduze kwalowo ozibulala owamangalela udadewabo omdala wokufa. Abantu abajwayelene noNancy baphikisana ngokuthi ngokufa kwakhe wayefuna ukuphazamisa idumela likaJulia. I-Mouts ngokusobala ayizibophezeli ngokuzibulala ngoFebhuwari, amaviki amabili ngaphambi kwama-Oscars, ohlwini lwabaphakanyisiwe ababekhona noJulia. Ngenxa yokufa kukadadewabo, lo mdlali wathinteka ukushiya lesi senzakalo.