Abantu abadakiwe besifazane abaningi babangela ukucasuka nokwenyanya, ikakhulukazi uma kungumyeni wakho. Iningi elikhulu labamele abesilisa ababesilisa ocansini obuhle, bebona iphupho elifanayo, baqala ukulungiselela ingqondo nezinkinga empilweni yangempela. Ungathukutheli kusengaphambili, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi amaphupho amabi anesichazamazwi esihle, yilokho kunjalo, manje sizokwazi ukukuthola.
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Ngokuvamile kunalokho, iphupho elinjalo yiluphi uphawu olungathandeki, okungase lisho ukuhlangenwe nakho ngokomzwelo. Kungabuye kuhunyushwe njengophawu lokukhwabanisa kwezezimali. Umhumushi wephupho uyancoma ngaleso sikhathi ukuthi angaphetha noma yiziphi izinkontileka futhi angavumelani nezinselele. Kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi iphupho lapho umyeni ophuzile abhekwa khona kwakuwukubonakaliswa kweqiniso. Ukuze intombazane engashadile, lo mbono ebusuku kuyisixwayiso sokuthi kufanele athathe indlela enomthwalo wemfanelo yokukhetha abangane nomlingani wokuphila. Kungaba futhi uphawu lwezinto ezinengqondo, okungaholela enkingeni enkulu.
Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha kunolwazi lokuthi ukuphuza umyeni odakiwe, kusho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kukhona ingozi yokulahlekelwa umsebenzi. Owesifazane ozoshada, umbono obunjalo ebusuku ungabonakalisa ukuthi unengqondo kakhulu ukushada. Noma kunjalo kungase kubonakale ukuthi ekukhetheni uhlamvu oluyinkimbinkimbi futhi impilo yomndeni nayo kuyoba nzima. Kwezinye izimo, iphupho ngomyeni odakiwe lingathathwa njengezincomo ukuthi kufanelekile ukunaka kakhulu umfazi empilweni yangempela.
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