Ungavusa kanjani ingane ukutshala?
Lokhu kuyadingeka ngesikhathi sesibalo sokulala. Kubonakala ngokunyakaza kwamajwabu amehlo, izindebe, izitho zomzimba, futhi ingane ingamomotheka ngalesi sikhathi. Ungasebenzisa izindlela ezilandelayo:
- Umama angaqala ukukhuluma, ahlabelele ingoma, - i-crumb ingasuka emazwini omama;
- ungakwazi nje ukuvula umntwana, susa ingubo, kwezinye izimo lokhu kwanele;
- Ngezinye izikhathi kulula kakhulu ukuthinta ama-knob noma imilenze ye-crumb, ukugqugquzela, ukushaya ingane;
- uma ingane ingalali embhedeni womntwana, kodwa e-sofa enkulu, khona-ke umama angalala phansi eceleni kwakhe bese ekhukhumeza umntwana, ezwa ukusondelana komuntu wesilisa, uzovuka;
- indlela ephumelelayo ukushintsha izingubo zengane noma ukuguqula i-diaper, i-crumb izwa ukuguqulwa kokushisa nokuvuka, ngaphandle kwalokho, lokhu kuyisenzo esivamile se-karapuza, ayamesabi;
- Ungathatha ingane ezandleni zakho bese uyibamba endaweni eqondile, ngokuvamile kubangela ukuthi i-crumb ivule amehlo akho.
Zonke lezi zincomo ezilula zingenziwa kalula nanoma yimuphi umama. Ukwazi ukuthi ungavusa kanjani usana olusanda kuzalwa ngokudla ebusuku noma ntambama, Umama angakwazi ukubhekana nalesi simo njalo.
Iseluleko kumama
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali, abafisa ukuvusa i-crumb, bangene ekamelweni bese bevula ukukhanya. Ukukhanyisa okukhanyayo, ngokuphambene nalokho, kubangela umntwana ukuba agcine amehlo akhe ivaliwe. Kungcono ukusebenzisa ukukhanya okungapheli, kuzosiza ekuxazululeni inkinga.
Owesifazane angacela ekhaya lokubeletha ukuthi ungavusa kanjani umntwana osanda kuzalwa ekudleni. Abachwepheshe basebenza lapho, futhi bayonikeza izincomo eziningiliziwe kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, unganqikazi ukubuza imibuzo kubasebenzi bezempilo. Uma abazali beqaphela ukuthi lezi zindlela azizisi, futhi umntwana ulele kakhulu, khona-ke kubalulekile ukubonana nodokotela. Kungenzeka ukuthi umama ongenalwazi wenza okuthile okungalungile, kanti udokotela uzovele eqondise izenzo zakhe. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi ukusabela okunjalo kwengane kuyoba isignali kudokotela ukuqhuba ucwaningo.