Nsuku zonke sidlula emgwaqweni womuntu, kwenzeka njalo. Kukhona abantu abathethelelayo, kukhona labo abagcina intukuthelo ngokwabo. Intukuthelo enjalo iba yingozi nakakhulu nsuku zonke. Kulokho okuthululela khona - ezifisweni eziqotho kakhulu zokufa.
Namuhla sizokhuluma ngezinhlamvu ezimnyama ekufeni, mayelana nokuthi umuntu angakwazi yini ukwehla kuleso sinyathelo, nokuthi yini okumelwe akwenze uma umuntu ezwa ukuthi uyaphansi kwezinto "zezifiso ezinhle".
Kusho ukuthini "ukufa okungazelelwe"?
Uzizwe kangaki / ufunde / ubonwe ngamehlo akho, uma ngokungazelelwe ugula, ingabe lo muntu uyabuna futhi adilika phambi kwamehlo akho? Ngenxa yalokho ... uyafa. Yini eyabangela lesi sifo - amagciwane, amabhaktheriya, izifo ezingakatholakali ososayensi? Umzimba wesintu ungazakhela wona lezi zifo ezingekho emvelweni, kuyadingeka kuphela ukunikeza umyalo ofanele.
Lo myalo uyipela ekufeni.
Kungani beboshwa ukufa?
Umbono ohloniphekile kakhulu futhi oqondile wukuthi umuntu akufanele abulale umuntu, ngaphandle kwalokho uwela umzila wobuntu bese ephela, uthethelele for tautology, kube indoda. Asicabangi ngempi - lokhu kungenye indaba, nakuba kungenasisekelo. Izinhlamvu zobuciko zokushona komuntu yizindiza nezinkathazo. Emva kwakho konke, uma isifiso sokubulala nokubhubhisa singaphezu kwamandla akho, kungani ungafiki futhi ubulale? Kuziqhenya ukuya ejele ngenxa yalokho okwenzile futhi ukhamuluka ukuthi awuzisoli nhlobo, ngoba u-HAPPENED!
Ngokusebenzisa umlingo ofanayo, ugwema umthwalo wemfanelo. Indoda yafa ngesifo esingavamile - kanye nokuthinta.
Awuvumi ukuthi "ngokunethezeka" kufanele ukhokhe ngokukhululekile ngempilo yakho?
Kuthiwani ngezitha?
Awuwona owokuqala / owokuqala hhayi owokugcina / owokugcina, obani umuntu oye wadlula ngendlela ehlelwe kahle ngokucophelela. Uma wonke umuntu esebenzisa ukubhekisela ekufeni kwesitha, umhlaba ngabe wawungenalutho esikhathini esidlule.
Ukuphila kunqoba izithiyo nesayensi, ebheka konke "ngeminwe yakho". Umngani omkhulu kakhulu ushaya umyeni wakho / umyeni wakho / umfel 'ukholo? Ucabanga ukuthi lesi sono esibi sizuzisa impilo yakhe? Yiqiniso, kuyafaneleka. Kodwa ungabheka le ndaba kusuka kolunye uhlangothi. Mhlawumbe wakusindisa emshadweni ongajabuli, kusuka ezifweni zofuzo angayidlulisela ezinganeni zakho ezivamile, ekudumeni, empikiswaneni nasezinhlamvu "ezingabambisani"?
Cabanga kahle, mhlawumbe ngelinye ilanga, uma ungambulali, empeleni, emva kweminyaka eyishumi, uyombonga, ngoba emva kokuhlukana nalolu daba, uhlangabezane nothando lweqiniso lwempilo yakho.
Ngesibhamu sokufa
Ake sithi awufuni ukufa komunye, kodwa ulangazelela. Ungaba kanjani, ukuthi ungasindiswa kanjani, uma unomuzwa wokuthi odokotela lapha angeke basize?
Ukushada komgodla kuzodingeka ukukhipha, kodwa udinga ukufuna umlingo omuhle. Kuhle, ngoba abasindisi "abamnyama", kodwa abamhlophe. Ungathengi ama-charlatans, bheka (ngokushelela, ngaphandle kokumemeza) phakathi kwabangane, mhlawumbe othile ube nolwazi olunzima kangaka. Vele ubuze kuphela labo abathemba i-90% (100% ayinakuthenjwa ngisho nakwezinye).
Umlingo omuhle uzokusiza ukuvimbela umonakalo ovela kuwe futhi ubeke isipele sokuvimbela esizovikela ngokumelene "nokubuyela emuva". Futhi umsebenzi wakho esikhathini esizayo, hhayi ukuxhumana nabantu abanganikeza izipho ezinjalo, ungasho okuningi embuthanweni wabafokazi futhi uzame, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungabonakali kanjani,
Izizathu zezinhlamvu zokufa zingothando?
Uthando, yebo, lunye lwezinto ezinamandla kunazo zonke (uma kungenamandla kakhulu) ezithinta umhlaba wethu. Futhi egameni lothando ukuthi sesilungele ukuthatha izinyathelo ezingaphenduki kakhulu. Yingakho, isibonelo esingenhla sothando.
Khumbula futhi uqaphele lokhu okulandelayo: ukuthanda kusho ukufisa okuhle kwezinto ozithandayo. Uma lesi "sihloko" siphelile, mfisa injabulo endleleni yakhe yokuphila futhi ungazami ukumphoqa ukuba acindezeleke. Kungenxa yokuthi ngeke kusaba khona uthando, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ngeke kusabiza ukuthi lezi ziphonso zife.