Uma ubuza abaflorisi ukuthi bayathenga izimbali eziphuzi, ungazwa impendulo enamandla. Izitshalo ezitholakalayo ezine-inflorescences eziphuzi abathandi bonke abaphuzi. Bangobani laba bantu? Izazi zengqondo zithi abantu abaphuzi bafana nabantu abathokozile, abakhuthele, abahle. Laba bantu abanethemba bangaphila kalula, banomusa kakhulu futhi banokuncane.
Yini i-tulips ephuzi efanekisela?
"I-tulips ephuzi, izithunywa zokuhlukana ..." - njengengoma ethandwa kakhulu eyenziwa nguNatasha Koroleva. Kodwa kuyiqiniso yini ukuthi ama-tulips aphuzi abonisa ukwehlukana kokuhlukanisa okusheshayo?
Njengoba sesifunde imithombo eminingi, asizange sithole iqiniso elilodwa noma olunye ulwazi oluthembekile ukuthi izimbali eziphuzi ziphethe amandla amabi noma zibhebhethekisa izinkinga. Mhlawumbe kukhona impendulo yombuzo wokuthi kungani ungakwazi ukunikeza izimbali eziphuzi, futhi sizozama ukuyihlola manje.
Kunomlando owodwa we-Arabhu wasendulo okhuluma ngomlando wokukhashelwa komfazi we-sheikh. Lapho indoda ehloniphekile isuka ekunqobeni amazwe, omunye wabafazi wayengathembeki kuye. Lapho befika ekhaya izilimi ezimbi zeluleka umbusi ukuba ahlole umkakhe ngosizo lomqulu obomvu. Uma kwenzeka ukungathembeki komfazi imbali kufanele iphenduke iphuzi ekuseni. Ngakho-ke, futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuye kwakholelwa ukuthi izimbali eziphuzi ziwuphawu lokukhohlisa, ukuhlubuka nokuhlukana .
Kukhona futhi ukuhumusha okwedlule kwalesi signali. Izimbali azinikezwa kuphela ngezinsuku zokuzalwa, amaholidi, abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo, kunabo bantu abahambisa izimbali ngesikhathi sokuhlukanisa. Futhi njengoba ukuhlukana kuyisenzakalo esingathandeki kakhulu, indlela engcono kakhulu yokujabula nokujabulisa umuntu kuyoba imbali ekhanyayo. Lesi senzo singaletha kancane kancane, futhi kube nzima, ubudlelwane futhi kuvuselele isimo esidabukisayo.
Singaqiniseka ngokucacile ukuthi umbala ophuzi unengqondo. E-China, liwuphawu lokuphila nokufa ngesikhathi esisodwa. E-Spain, izigqoko eziphuzi zazigqoke izihlubuki, ezazizoshiswa ngomlilo. Esikhathini esedlule, kwakuyifulegi eliphuzi elixwayisa izifo zezifo. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphuzi kuyisibonakaliso selanga, i-gloss yegolide, futhi kuthwala ukufudumala, ingcebo nengcebo.
Ngakho, unganika izimbali eziphuzi? Namuhla uthola abantu abakholelwa enkolelweni, futhi umbala ophuzi awuthwali umthwalo wenganekwane. Ngakho-ke, uma usemusha uveza i-tulips ephuzi, lokhu kungasho into eyodwa kuphela: ufuna ukujabulisa, ukukhombisa ukunaka nokubonisa uthando lwakho.