Abazali abaningi emva kokuzalwa kwengane baqala ukulalela izibonakaliso, ikakhulukazi uma bethinta ingane. Njengoba wazi, leli gama linethonya elinamandla empilweni yomuntu nangokwakhe, ngakho-ke ukukhetha kwakhe kufanele kuphathwe ngokuziphendulela. Isihloko esivamile ukuthi awukwazi ukubiza indodana yakho ubaba. Amammoni amaningi ekudumiseni angathanda ukubiza ingane yakhe ngokuhlonipha umyeni wakhe, kodwa isibonakaliso sibangela ukungabaza okuningi, okumelwe kuqondwe.
Kungani ungabize ingane egameni likayihlo?
Lesi sibonakaliso sinezincazelo eziningana, isibonelo, ukuhluka okuthandwayo kakhulu ukuthi ngokusho ukuthi amagama afanayo kababa nomntanami azofaka isandla eqinisweni ukuthi owokuqala uzophinda abuyele ekupheleni kwesibini. Ekhuluma ukuthi ingane ingabizwa ngokuthi ubaba, kufanele kubhekiswe okunye okulandelayo: uma abantu ababili abanegama elifanayo behlala ndawonye, bayoba nengelosi eyodwa yokulondoloza. Lokhu kusho ukuthi bobabili ubaba nendodana bayobuthakathaka ngokuvikelwa kwamandla, okusho ukuthi ingozi yezinkinga ezihlukahlukene iyakhula kakhulu.
Kukhona enye incazelo yezimpawu, kungani kungenakwenzeka ukubiza indodana ngegama likababa, ngokusho ukuthi ingane inikezwa uhlamvu olubi. Phakathi kwabantu kunombono wokuthi izingane ezinjalo zingabonakali, zithukuthele futhi azikwazi ukuxhumana nabantu ababazungezile.
Izazi zengqondo nazo zinombono wazo ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukubiza ingane igama likababa, ngakho-ke bacabanga ukuthi akufanelekile ukwenza izinyathelo ezinjalo, ngoba kunengozi enkulu ukuthi indodana ngeke ikwazi ukuthi iyindoda ehlukile noma ngabe iyofuna yini konke ukuphila kwayo Yiba ngcono kunomzali wakho.
Kunezinye izinqatshelwe okufanele zicatshangelwe uma ukhetha igama lomntanakho:
- Abaningi bakhetha ingane yabo igama le-saint, osukwini lokukhumbula ngalo eliseduze. Kulokhu, ungakhethi igama lomfel 'ukholo.
- Kuyinto enqatshelwe ukukhetha ingane igama lomuntu oshonile lomndeni. Kukholelwa ukuthi ingane ingabuyisela isiphetho sezihlobo. Ungakhethi igama lomntwana oshonile emndenini ngomntwana, ngoba isimo singase siphindele.
- Akunconywa ukukhetha ingane hhayi igama kuphela kababa, kodwa futhi umama, nezinye izihlobo eziseduze. Ngokwesibonakaliso, omunye wabo uzofa.
Phakathi kwabantu, uphawu olulodwa oluvamile luvame, ngokusho ukuthi ubani ongakwazi ukutshela noma ubani igama lomntanakhe ngaphambi kwe- christenings , ukuze bangamthandi.