Amaphupho ahlukile. Ngezinye izikhathi amaphupho angempela, kanti ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala kungenakwenzeka. Zonke lezi zithombe zinezincazelo zazo, ezokusiza ukwazi izenzakalo zesikhathi esizayo kanye nezamanje, nokuziqonda ngokwakho.
Kungani ukuphupha kwasebusika?
Amaphupho anjalo akhombisa ukuqina okukhulu kwe-melancholy, ukudumala okukhulu nokunganeliseki ngokuphila empeleni. I-colder ephusheni, i-monotonous impilo yakho. Lokhu ukubikezelwa kwangempela kwekusasa kwesizungu , okungavinjelwa. Ibusika elifudumele neqhwa eligcwele libikezela ukuthuthukiswa ezindabeni kanye nokuchibiyela kwezempilo, lokhu kuzokwenzeka ngemuva kokusebenzisa umzamo nokubekezela.
Uma kubusika?
Ngobusuku obungakashadi kuyisiginali ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho nomngane wakho womshado buyoba buthaka kakhulu, mhlawumbe ngisho nokusebenzisa ubuqili. Uma uphupha ubusika ebusuku, futhi wazizwa ubanda, ukhuluma ngokulangazelela imizwa yabantu efudumele. Uma kwakukhona inqwaba enkulu yeqhwa ephusheni, ingcebo nokuchuma kulindele wena.
Kusho ukuthini lapho ubusika bephupha ehlobo?
Ukubona iphupho elinjalo ngenkathi efudumele kusho izinkinga ebhizinisini nasekuhwebeni. Ngakho-ke, kufanele bazinake kakhulu futhi bahlole ngokucophelela yonke imibhalo etholakele ukuze bagweme lokhu.
Kuthiwani uma kubusika?
Ngezinye izikhathi ephusheni, unganquma ukuthi iyiphi inyanga ebusika oyiphuphayo, lokhu kuzoba yisinyathelo esengeziwe sokuchazwa okunembile:
- UDisemba inyanga lapho konke okungenzeka khona, into esemqoka emva kokuvusa ukuzinikeza isimo sengqondo esihle ;
- UJanuwari - amaphupho ezishintsha ekuphileni, ukuthuthukiswa kwezindaba zezimali nokuthola izindaba ezinhle;
- NgoFebruwari - ucela ukunakekelwa kwezempilo, ekuboniseni ibhizinisi inhlanhla.
Uma uphupha ngebusika, futhi usezembatho zasehlobo, uthi ngokungafani okukhulu phakathi kwamazwi nezenzo.