Abantu abaningi abakholelwa ekuchazeni amaphupho, abanye ngokuphambene nalokho, balandela zonke izincomo zezincwadi zamaphupho. Kule ndaba, kubalulekile ukuthola incazelo yegolide, ngoba, njengoba bethi, "ngubani obikezelwe uhlomile".
Kungani izinkathazo?
Ukubona ukuhamba kancane kwenhlanzi kubonisa ukuthi empilweni yangempela nonke nenza kancane kancane, yini engasetshenziswa abathandekayo nabaphikisanayo. Umhumushi wephupho ukhuthaza ukuthi ube esheke ukuze ungahlali ngemuva. Enye inkinobho ingaba uphawu lokuqala kwesikhathi esinzima, ngalesi sikhathi kungcono ukungenzi lutho futhi ube nesineke. Inqwaba ye-mucus emkhokheni ephusheni ixwayisa ukuthi maduzane uzonikezwa icala elizokwenza inzuzo, kodwa engekho emthethweni. Kulesi simo, nguwe kuphela onquma ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Ukubona inkinobho ephusheni oye wawela ngengozi kuyinto isixwayiso ukuthi ulindele umsebenzi nabantu abangathandeki. Imisebenzi enjalo ngeke ikujabulise wena noma kubo. Iphupho lapho inhlanzi ifihla khona emanzini kuwuphawu lokuthi ukuziphatha kwakho empeleni akufanelekile. Uma udla izinkinobho ephusheni, ngakho-ke ongenakuqonda uyakutshela ukuthi yisikhathi sokushintsha isimo futhi uphumule kancane. Iphupho, lapho kutholakala khona izimbongolo ezincane, likuxwayisa ukuthi izinkinga ezincane zingabangela izinkinga ezinkulu, ngakho ungavumeli izinto zihambe ngokwazo.
Kungani owesifazane ephupha ngenduku?
Kulokhu, leli phupho liveza ukuthuthukiswa okuphawulekayo esimweni sezinto ezibonakalayo, kanye nokwenyuka kwabanye. Ngentombazane encane, iphupho lithembisa ushintsho empilweni yomuntu siqu ngisho nomshado .
Kungani uphupha inhlanzi enkulu?
Inhlanzi enkulu iwuphawu lokuthi empilweni yangempela umuntu onethonya uzovela ngubani ongakwazi ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga ezikhona.