Yeka ukuthi izinkanyezi ezingenayo izingane zijabule kanjani zingaziwa kuphela, kodwa iningi labo lifuna ukuzithandela ngokuzithandela ukuqhubeka nomndeni wabo. Lapha uzothola ukukhethwa kwabadumile, abangaba nomntwana owodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile.
Le ntshukumo yazuza ngisho negama elithi "elingenakho ingane" noma, ngokuhumusha, likhululekile kwezingane. Mhlawumbe ngaleyo ndlela othile uzama ukufihla izinkinga zabo ngokuhluleka ukuba nabantwana ezinkomba zezokwelapha noma ngenxa yezizathu zobugovu siqu, besaba ukulahlwa komphakathi.
UKim Cattrall
Inkanyezi yochungechunge oluthinta inhliziyo "Ubulili Nomuzi" uKim Cattrall uye wabonisa kaningi ukungafuni kwakhe ukuba nezingane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umlingisi uthi akasakhathazeki ukuchitha isikhathi esincane nabafowenu futhi edlala nabo, kodwa lapho efika ekhaya, uKim ufuna ukuthula, ubone ukuhleleka nokuphumula, okungenakube nakho nabantwana. Ngisho nangemva kokuhlala emishadweni emithathu, uCatrall uthi akazange azisole ngokuthi akanazo izingane. Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi inkanyezi, ekhuluma ngokukhululekile, yathi ayikwazi ukukhetha isikhathi esifanele sokubeletha kwengane, ihlehliselwa kuze kube yilapho, bese iphuzile kakhulu, kodwa isenaso isifiso sokuba umama.
U-Renee Zellweger
Umlingisi oyinhloko wefilimu ethandwayo "I-Bridget Jones Diary" uRenee Zellweger wayekholelwa njalo ukuthi izingane zingumnikelo wokuphila, okusho "ukuthululela", hhayi isidlo esikhulu. Okubaluleke kakhulu kuye kuye kwaba njalo ukuzinakekela yena kanye nezinto zakhe ozithandayo. Njengoba u-Rene ngokwakhe ethi, wathatha konke ayemnike empilweni, kanti konke akunandaba, futhi akazange abeke umgomo wokuphila iminyaka ethile futhi abelethe ingane.
Kodwa-ke, ngesikhathi ngo-2013 uRenee ehlangana nomkhiqizi wakhe omusha uDoyle Bremhall, umlingisi wanquma ukuba nomntwana, kodwa hhayi ukuzitholela yena, njengoba sekuphuzile kakhulu, kodwa ukuzitholela. Kulokhu, indoda yakhe uZellweger iqinisekisa ukuthi ngaphandle kosizo lwakhe, akakwazi ukubhekana nalo, ngoba nguyena owamcindezela ukwenza lokhu.
3. I-Oprah Winfrey
Umethuli we-TV odume kakhulu u-Oprah Winfrey uthi akazange abe nesifiso esivuthayo sokuba nezingane. Ngisho naseminyakeni yesikole, lapho amantombazane amaningi ephuza ukushada nokuba nomntwana, u-Oprah omncane waphupha ngenye into. Ngalezo zinsuku wayefuna ukuba ngumholi wezombangazwe omkhulu, njengoMartin Luther King, owaletha okuhle kakhulu ebantwini. Kodwa-ke, kukhona enye inguqulo yokungafuni ukuhlala nezingane: eneminyaka engu-14, u-Oprah wayevame ukuxhaswa ngokocansi ngabazala bakhe, umalume nabangane bakhe, futhi ngaleso sikhathi intombazane engathandeki yakhulelwa futhi yazala indodana eyafa ngosuku lwesibili. Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yalezi zinkumbulo, imicabango mayelana nokuzalwa kwezingane zabo yenza iWinfrey kuze kube yilolu suku igxile kakhulu.
Njengoba u-Opraz ngokwakhe ekhuluma, wayenezikhathi eziningi ezingathandeki empilweni yakhe, futhi isitayela sakhe sokuphila, uhlobo lwawo lwemisebenzi, amane angamvumeli ukuba abe nezingane futhi adale idyll yomndeni.
4. I-Mylene Farmer
Umdlali waseFrance nomculi uMilen Farmer akanqikazi ukusho ukuthi wayengenayo izingane ngenxa yecala lakhe. Inkanyezi iphendule lo mbuzo ngokusho ukuthi yona ingumntwana, ngakho ayidingi izingane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, waqeda ubuhlobo bominyaka emihlanu nomlingisi waseMelika uJeff Dahlgren ngoba wayefuna kakhulu izingane zakhe kuye futhi zahlelwa kuso. Namuhla, izingane zaseMilen zishintshwa yi-capuchins ezincane ezihlala endlini yakhe.
5. UGeorge Clooney
Kulo mdlali odumile waseHollywood uGeorge Clooney, inkazimulo ye-bachelor ethanda ukuhlala iseneminyaka eminingi. Wayenezincwadi eziningi ngemuva kokuqala komshado, okwahlukana ngo-1992. Ngokusho kukaClooney ngokwakhe, akaphinde aphinde ashade, futhi uthanda izilwane ngaphezu kwezingane, ngakho ngeke athole inzalo. Kodwa-ke, ngoSeptemba 2014, uClooney wangena enkundleni yobuhle bommeli u-Amal Alamuddin, ephula isifungo sokuqala, esemshada ngokusemthethweni. Ubani owaziyo, u-Amal ongathandabuzeki angonakalisa indlela yakhe yokungazithandi izingane futhi uyomnika indlalifa esikhathini esizayo.
U-Christina Hendricks
UChristina Hendrix wayengenaso isikhathi sokuhamba emgodini obomvu waseHollywood, njengoba waba uphawu olusha lobulili kule nsimu. Inkanyezi ephakamisa ngokuqiniseka okugcwele iqinisekisa umphakathi ukuthi ayikhululekile ingane engu-100%. Umlingisi usetshenziswe iminyaka embalwa, akafuni ukuba nezingane. Futhi njengoba u-Christina ngokwakhe ethi, izingane zingumsebenzi omkhulu, okusobala ukuthi awulungele.
7. Cameron Diaz
Umdlali wesithandwa owaziwayo noCameron Diaz wayenamanoveli amaningi, kodwa akazange ahlele ukuqala izingane, ekholelwa ukuthi impilo yakhe yayinhle, futhi uma bekhona izingane, wayengeke abe nalokhu. Kodwa-ke, maduzane ku-press waqala ukuvela imibiko eminingi ukuthi uCameron wahamba futhi ulungele ukuguqula izimpilo zabo, abelethe izingane futhi azizinikele emndenini. Yiqiniso, kulezi zenzakalo, waxoshwa ngumyeni othandekayo kaBenji Madden. Mhlawumbe, lapho indoda "efanele" enesifazana eceleni kwayo, khona-ke imvelo yakhe yangempela ivuka ukuze idale indawo yomndeni futhi uyivikele. Kodwa ngenkathi izingane ezimbalwa zisekhona.
8. Patricia Kaas
Eyaziwayo emhlabeni wonke umculi waseFrance uPatricia Kaas wayekhulelwe ekuqaleni komsebenzi wakhe, kodwa ukhetho aluzange luthande umntwana, akazange amshiye ingane, naphezu kokukholelwa kwabathandekayo bakhe, ngoba kuye kwakuyinto ebalulekile yokuphila. Namuhla akahlupheki ngenxa yalokhu futhi ukholelwa ukuthi uma ehlangana nomuntu ofanelekayo ekuphileni, angathola ingane ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Kungenzeka ukuthi lezi zizathu ziyisizathu sokuzikhethela wena. Kodwa abanye abalandeli bakholelwa ukuthi emehlweni omculi ubona ubuhlungu nombuzo oyisimungulu: "Kungani impumelelo kwakudingeka ihlawule kakhulu?". Kodwa konke ukunakekelwa kwakhe okungenasidingo umculi ufaka inja yakhe ayithandayo, ehlala ehamba naye ekuhambeni.
9. Eva Longoria
Ubuhle buka-Eva Longoria seluvele budlula eminyakeni engama-40, kepha usengenabantwana futhi akacabangi ngakho. U-Eva ukholelwa ukuthi uma engatholi "indoda efanele" ngaphambi kokuba ahlasele ama-50, ngakho-ke akahlose ukuhlala unina ongashadile, ngakho-ke kungcono ukungabi nabantwana nhlobo. Kodwa umlingisi nomlingisi akaphiki ukuthi uma indoda yakhe ethandekayo ifuna ukuba nezingane ezihlangene, khona-ke ngeke.
10. Bozena Rynska
I-lionessess kanye nomlobi wezintatheli uBozena Rynska akuyona nje ingane engenaye ingane, uyadonsa. Okunye futhi okungenabulungisa futhi okungaqinisekisiwe, uBozhena ukhuluma ngokuzonda abantu abahola impesheni, abantu abakhubazekile nezinye izintambo ezingavimbelwe abantu. Ubiza abantu asebekhulile "abasindile" abaphazamisa kuphela abasha. Futhi izingane zakhe zivele zithukuthele, ngakho-ke uhlale ezwa "cha" uma ebuzwa ngokuqhubeka kwakhe komndeni. I-Rynska iphikisana nezindawo zokudlala zezingane ezakhiweni zezindlu zokuhlala futhi ayizicabangi ukuzifaka ku-sarin.
Ukholelwa nokuthi uma ingane ingaphumeleli, lokhu kuyisihluku, kanti ezinye izingane azidingi nje. Kodwa, lapho eqale ukuhlala emshadweni womphakathi nomsayense wezombangazwe nomsebenzi wezamabhizinisi u-Igor Malashenko, umlobi wezintatheli odabukisayo washintsha okwesikhashana umbono wakhe, waze waze wavumela ukuthi kungenzeka abelethe ingane. Kodwa uMama uMvelo wenqaba ukwenza lokhu, futhi uBozhena kwadingeka axhumane nodokotela abakhethekile bokukhiqiza. Kodwa-ke, maduzane ukungafuni ukuba nezingane kwashiwo intatheli ekhethiweyo, ngakho-ke ngenkathi le nsikazi encane inemine yomsila futhi ihlala yedwa.