Ukuhlukaniswa kuyindlela enhle kakhulu yokuthola ukuthi uzizwa kanjani abakhethiweyo nokuthi unenhloso engathí sina. Okubaluleke kakhulu, amasiko anjalo alula futhi awadingi ulwazi noma amakhono. Ukuhlukaniswa ngothando "Ukuthandwa, ukungathandi" kungenziwa ngephepha kanye nepeni noma amakhadi. Ukuze uthole umphumela oqotho kakhulu, udinga ukuthatha izinto ngokungathí sina futhi ungatsheli muntu mayelana nokusetshenziswa komlingo. Ngosizo lokubhula, ungathola ukuthi uzizwa kanjani umlingani wakho, lokho akufunayo ebuhlotsheni, nokuthi kwenzekani esikhathini esizayo.
Indlela yokwazi ukuthi uthanda umuntu - ukuqagela "Li"
Okubalulekile kwalokhu ukubhula ukubuza imibuzo lapho kunezinhlayiya "li". Ngokwenza njalo, kufanele abe neqiniso ngangokunokwenzeka futhi adinga impendulo, noma "yebo" noma "cha." Ngokuba ukubhula, isayensi, okuthiwa i-numerology, izosetshenziswa. Thatha iphepha bese ubhala ipeni ngombuzo oyithandayo. Ngaphansi kwegama ngalinye bhala inombolo, ngenani lezinhlamvu egameni. Bese ubangeze uze uthole inombolo eyodwa. Ake sicabangele isibonelo: "Ingabe u-Alexander uyangithanda?" - 5, 2, 4, 9 = 20 = 2 + 0 = 2. Emva kwalokhu, ungaqhubeka ekuchazeni ukubhula "Ingabe Uyangithanda":
1 - impendulo ihle, kodwa awudingi, ungabaza noma yini, yenza nje imizwa yakho.
2 - impendulo ayibi, kodwa uma kunomuzwa wokuthi konke kuzoba kuhle, bese uthembela intuition yakho.
3 - impendulo iyimfanelo, kodwa izithiyo ezinkulu zingenzeka endleleni.
4 - impendulo ayibi, kuyilapho kunconywa ukuthi imizamo yenziwe ukushintsha isimo samanje.
5 - impendulo ingcono kakhulu, kodwa konke kuxhomeke esimweni esithile.
6 - impendulo ayibi, kodwa umphumela uncike ecaleni.
7 - impendulo ihle, kepha umphumela uzoxhomeka ezenzweni zokutshela inhlanhla.
8 - impendulo ayibi, kodwa kukhona ithuba lokuthi konke kungashintshwa.
9 - lolu suku aluphumelelanga ukubhula.
Ukuqagela emakhadini "Ingabe uyangithanda"
Ngosizo lwesimo esilula, ungathola lokho abakhethiweyo abazizwayo, ukuthi luhlobo luni lobuhlobo oluzoba khona esikhathini esizayo, futhi uthole izincomo eziphathelene nokuphila kwakho. Ukubhula, thatha ipaki elisha lamakhadi angu-36 bese ulibamba ezandleni zakho ukukhokhisa ngamandla. Kungcono ukuqagela ngoLwesibili noma ngoLwesihlanu ngenyanga ekhulayo, njengoba lesi yisikhathi esiphumelele kakhulu sokuthandwa kothando. Ngemuva kokushona kwelanga, khanyisa amakhandlela amhlophe amhlophe futhi uthole amakhadi afanekisela wena nomthandi wakho:
- abantu abangashadile abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-25 - owesifazane nenkosi yamathamborine;
- abantu abashadile abaneminyaka engu-25 kuya ku-50 - owesifazane noma inkosi yezinhliziyo;
- abantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-50 - owesifazane noma inkosi yamaqembu.
Manje siphendukela enkulumweni enhle ngothando "Ingabe uyangithanda". Faka le ndoda ngakwesokudla nenkosi ngakwesobunxele. Ngemuva kwalokho, beka amakhadi njengoba kubonisiwe esithombeni bese uqhubeka nokuhumusha.
- Iqembu lamakhadi ngaphansi kwenombolo 1 lizokuvumela ukuba ufunde izimfihlo ukuthi kukhona kokubili owesifazane nendoda.
- Ukuchazwa kweqembu elilandelayo lamakhadi kuzonikeza umbono wesikhathi esizayo esiseduze sabalingani bobabili.
- Iqembu lamakhadi №3 linikeza isici semicabango yothandana ngamunye.
- Ukuhlukanisa iqembu elilandelayo kuzokwenza kube lula ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izithiyo ezikhona zokuqhubeka kobudlelwane phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane.
- Siyabonga eqenjini lamakhadi inombolo yesi-5, ungathola ukuthi yini wonke umuntu owenza ngempela eshaweni futhi osenhliziyweni.
- Inombolo yekhadi 6 - lena isimo sengqondo sangempela somuntu kuya kwesigamu sesibili.
- Amakhadi akhona phakathi kwenkosikazi nenkosi, okungukuthi, i-Group No. 7,8,9, yile eyedlule, yamanje namanje yombhangqwana, ngokulandelana.
Kubalulekile ukuhumusha la makhadi hhayi ngokuzihlukanisa, kodwa ngamabili. Ukuze ukubhula kukhulume ngokunembile mayelana nokuthi othandekayo uyangithanda, kufanele futhi ucabange izithombe ezivela ekhanda ngenkathi kuhlaziywa. Ngendlela, ungabona amanani amabalazwe lapha.