Uma umbuzo wokuthi bangakhula kanjani ubusha bawo futhi ubheke kuncane kuneminyaka yabo iba yinto ephuthumayo kwabesifazane abangaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, isihloko sokuthi ubukeka kanjani esidala siphuthuma kakhulu kumantombazane eneminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu kuya kwamashumi amabili nanhlanu ubudala. Kuyinto engavamile lapho owesifazane ekwazi ukuvumelanisa nesikhathi sakhe. Ekuqaleni ngifuna ukuvuthwa, ngivuthiwe, bese ngifuna ukubuyela ebusheni bami. Kungokwemvelo kunoma yimuphi umuntu. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi amashumi amathathu asekhona futhi akudingeki ukuba alwele isikhathi esithile. Noma kunjalo, ake sibheke ukuthi intombazane ibukeka kanjani ikhulile, futhi yini okudingeka yenziwe ukwenza lokhu.
Ungenzani ukuze ubuke?
Ukwenza isisombululo sokuqala kwentombazane kunoma yikuphi ubudala. Ngosizo lwezimonyo ungakha noma yisiphi isithombe, futhi ushintshe iminyaka yakho. Ama-Makeup ukuze abukeke aseludala kulula kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa amathoni amnyama negcwele. Isibonelo, ama-shadow we-brown, ama-gray and scales amnyama, futhi ukulungiselela ukuhlwa ungathatha ama-violet noma ama-blue shades. Inketho enhle kakhulu yindlela yokwenza amehlo aphumayo , okungabonakali nje ukubonakala okucacile, kodwa futhi kunezela amantombazane amancane ubudala. Shine and lipstick kufanele futhi ukhethwe phakathi kwe-brown and caramel shades, kodwa umbala obaluleke kunazo zonke ku-arsenal yakho ibomvu. I-lipstick ebomvu iyafaneleka kuwo wonke amantombazane, kubalulekile kuphela ukukhetha "umthunzi wakho" ngendlela efanele. Futhi umfanekiso wesiphambano sowesifazane, okubangelwa lo mbala ekwenzeni, kuzonikeza isithombe sakho ubulili obudala.
Futhi, qaphela njalo amashiya akho. Susa ngokucophelela izinwele ezingaphezulu futhi ulungise ukuma ngendlela efanele ukuze kufane nohlobo lobuso bakho. Futhi unake isikhumba, njengoba kubonisa iminyaka yobudala hhayi nje kuphela ekugugeni, kodwa nasebusheni.
Indlela yokugqoka ukuze ubukeke ikhulile?
Uma ufuna ukubheka, ungakukhohlwa kanjani izingubo? Eqinisweni, kuyisibonakaliso sokuqala seminyaka yakho. Ngakho-ke, shiya zonke izinhlobo ze-T-shirts namajee (shiya kuzo ngezimpelasonto nokuhamba) futhi ujwayele isitayela se-classic. Ngokuvamile, isitayela sezingubo ezigqoke izingubo kunezinkomba eziningana, enye ongayikhetha. Isibonelo, ubuhle noma i-minimalism, noma ungangezela impi encane esithombeni. Konke ukuze uthole ukunambitheka kwakho, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu - bheka ubukeka besifazane futhi buhle. Esigqoke izingubo zakho kufanele kube namakhanda, ipketi lepensela, amajackethi nezitsha zokugqoka, futhi futhi - umsizi wesifazane ngamunye - ingubo encane emnyama.
Indlela yokusika izinwele zakho ukuze ubukeke zikhulile?
Sikhuluma ngezinto eziningi ezidingekayo ukuze zibukeke zikhulile, kodwa kukhona enye into ebalulekile - inwele yezinwele. Uma unezinwele ezinde, ama-curls omthando noma ezinye izinwele zokugqoka zesikhumba se-punk, ezingadingeka ukuba uziphe. Yiqiniso, abesifazane abadala bahamba ngezinwele ezinde, ezikhululekile, kodwa sebevele sebefinyelele eminyakeni yabo futhi ukuvala amathenda abenzi babo babonakale njengabantombazane esikoleni. Kodwa kufanele uzame kancane.
Uma ufuna ukuqala ukudala, ke-ke unake ukunakwa kwesigcawu nokuhluka kwawo, kanye nezitayela ezincane. Le ndlela yokugcina, ngendlela, ngokuvamile inendawo yokuvuselela ubuso, kodwa lapho usemncane ukukhanda izinwele ezimfushane okukhethiwe kahle kungakwengeza iminyaka kuwe.
Uziphatha kanjani ukuze ubukeke udala kuneminyaka yakho?
Futhi into yokugcina okufanele ungayikhohlwa yimizamo yokuziphatha. Funda imithetho yezwi elihle futhi ulandele njalo. Yiba nenhlonipho ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukhiye ophansi, ubuhle. Ungaphakamiseli izwi lakho, ungasheshi, ungagcini kakhulu ngesikhathi yengxoxo. Kunemithetho eminingi, bese uzama ukubambelela kubo bonke, ukubheka akudala hhayi nje ngaphandle, kodwa futhi ngaphakathi uzizwe njengowesifazane.
Ngakho sazi ukuthi singabuka kanjani kuneminyaka yethu. Lo msebenzi awunzima kakhulu, kodwa kubalulekile ukusebenza kuwo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngalokhu okuyinhloko: iminyaka yakho izogcina ekugcineni, ngakho-ke thokoza manje eminyakeni yakho encane, ngoba-ke ufuna ukuyibuyisela, kodwa ngeke isebenze.
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