Ingane encane ephupha indoda noma owesifazane ingaba nesifiso esingenasici sokuba ngumzali, futhi isenzo esivusa amadlingozi empilweni yombala obala. Kodwa, izincwadi ezahlukene zokuphupha zihumusha ngokungaqondani ukuthi umntwana ozelwe usalindeni ngani. Ukuze uqonde ngokunembile ukuthi yini ongayilindela ngemuva kwephupho elinjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula yonke imininingwane yokulala.
Kungani umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephupha owesifazane oyedwa?
Intombazane engashadile eye yabona usana wesilisa ephusheni lingalindela ukuthi kungekudala umuntu uzovela empilweni yakhe ofuna ukumenza isinqumo somshado. Uma ingane ikhala, ubuhlobo bayoba nzima ukwenza, kungenzeka ukuthi u-fan ngeke akhululeke, futhi injabulo yentombazane iyoxhomeka esinqumweni sakhe.
Umfelokazi obone umfana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni angathembela ukuthi empilweni yakhe kuyoba nezinguquko ezinkulu. Ngokuvamile iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukuthuthela kwelinye idolobha noma uhambo olude lwebhizinisi.
Kungani ingane ebelethwe iphupho lentombazane ekhulelwe?
Amaphupho anjalo avame ukusiza ukwazi ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa. Uma intombazane ekhulelwe ibona umfana ephusheni, cishe cishe uzoba nendodana, futhi ngokufanayo, ngokufanayo.
Ukubona amawele amabili noma amaphuphu amaphupho, owesifazane esimweni sokukhulelwa, uthembisa umshado ojabulisayo nokulethwa okulula okulula. Iphupho elinjalo liye lacatshangwa ukuthi lihle, uma owesifazane ebona ezinyangeni zokuqala zokukhulelwa, ngakho-ke angeke asabe isifo noma isifo.
Kungani ingane esanda kuzalwa iphupha indoda?
Umfana obona ingane encane ephusheni angalindela ukukhuthazwa. Ikakhulukazi uma kufanele athokoze umntwana wesilisa noma amgwede ezandleni zakhe. Iphupho elinjalo liveza izinkinga zomsebenzi, okuzoholela ekukhuleni emholweni, yilokho umfana osanda kuzalwa ephupha mayelana nendoda.
Uma ingane ihleka ngenkathi isesandleni somfana ephusheni, ungalindeli ukuthi izinkinga ezikhona zixazululwe ngokwazo. Lo mbono usho ukuthi kunemibuzo empilweni yomuntu okufanele ixazululwe ngokushesha, futhi akufanelekile ukulinda umuntu okuzosiza ekuqedeni lezi zinkinga.
Umntwana okhalayo, lowo umfana angakwazi neze ukuqinisekisa, ngokuphambene nalokho, uthembisa injabulo kuphela nokuqedwa kwezinkinga zempahla. Isibonakaliso esihle ukuthi uma indoda iphupho echazwe yingane. Lokhu kusho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze indoda izothola imali enkulu.