Njengoba wazi, inkathi yobusha iyinkimbinkimbi kunazo zonke kusukela ekubukeni kobudlelwane obuphakathi. Intombazane isivele ifuna ukuzimela, futhi abazali abakakwazi ukumnikeza inkululeko ephelele yokusebenza. Enye yezingqinamba eziphikisanayo ingase ibe yinto enhle kangaka, njengokugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwentsha.
Abazali bavame bakholelwa ukuthi indawo kuphela lapho ungakwazi ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa komntwana osemusha kuyindlu. Lapha, izingane zizobe zingaphansi kokuqapha, inani lotshwala lizobe lilinganiselwe (noma ngeke libe khona ngokuphelele, konke kuncike ekupheleni kosuku lokuzalwa), futhi ekhaya ungagubha usuku lokuzalwa lomfana ongenalutho, okungeke lushiwo mayelana nezinye izinketho. Kodwa, ukukutshela iqiniso, akuzona zonke izingane ezifana nemikhosi enjalo. Ngakho-ke, siphakamisa ukuthi ucabangele ezinye izinketho, lapho ungakwazi ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lwentsha.
Ngakho-ke, sinikeza izindawo eziningana lapho ungachitha khona usuku lokuzalwa lomfana osemusha:
- Emvelweni. Uma inkathi ivumela, khona-ke ungaya ehlathini le shish kebabs, echibini, epikinikini. Konke kuncike ekucabangeni kwakho kanye nemvelo yemvelo. Ngokwenza kanjalo, ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane kufanele zibe ngabantu abadala. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uzodinga ukumema abangane bakho nabangani babo. Kodwa awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokuba khona kwakho. Ikakhulukazi ucabange ukuphepha ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwechibi.
- Ungagubha usuku lokuzalwa ku-cafe. Lapha kuncike ekutheni amandla akho wezezimali, futhi udinga ukumelana nomugqa omuhle - ungahlaziyi ingane ngaphambi kobangani bakho ngetafula elincane kakhulu, kodwa ungalimazi isabelomali somndeni.
- Futhi emadolobheni amaningi kukhona izinhlangano ezikhethekile ezihlinzeka kokubili indawo lapho kugujwa khona usuku lokuzalwa kwengane noma intsha kanye nenhlelo ejabulisayo. Njengomthetho, amaholide anjalo awashibhile, kodwa akhunjulwa ngokuphila.
- Uma usenquma ukwenza iholide ngokwakho, kodwa ungazi kanjani ukuhlela usuku lokuzalwa kwentsha, khona-ke sikunikeza ukuthi uzijwayeze ngezinye zezinombolo.
Kujabulisayo ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwentsha?
- Akudingekile ukumema abantu abaningi abadala emkhosini. Lokhu kusebenza kunkulunkulukazi, ugogo, omkhulu kanye nezinye izihlobo. Yiqiniso, yizivakashi ezibalulekile, kodwa ikakhulukazi hhayi ingane, kodwa kuwe. Futhi ngosuku oluthile lokuzalwa olunjalo ngeke lube mnandi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukwenza amaholide amabili: owodwa kubantu abadala, enye izingane.
- Cabanga ngemibono eminingi ethakazelisayo ngosuku lokuzalwa kwentsha ngangokunokwenzeka. Isibonelo, ukuncintisana okujabulisayo nemiklomelo. Futhi ukhethe okukhethwa kukho amakilasi weselula, hhayi ithebula. Izingane azikwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside endaweni eyodwa, futhi kungcono ukuqondisa amandla abo esiteshini esinokuthula. Uma kungenjalo, emva komkhosi omude, bayothatha indawo yokuhlala. Ungamema abanikazi bezilwane ekhaya uma izingane zinesithakazelo kule hlobo lemidlalo, futhi zibeke ukubamba iholide kubo. Qinisekisa ukuthi zonke izivakashi ezifana nale mbono.
- Cabanga ngokucophelela kwimenyu yosuku lokuzalwa kwentsha. Akufanele kube izitsha okumnandi, kodwa izitsha ezikhangayo. Ngosuku lokuzalwa lomfana osemusha, izivakashi azidli, kepha zijabulise. Ngakho-ke, ngezikhathi ezinjalo, i-pizza, imiqulu, namaqebelengwane ngeke isetshenziswe. Kodwa i-jellied ne-herring ngaphansi kwezingubo zoboya zihamba etafuleni elidala. Kusukela eziphuzweni ungagqoka itafula elimnandi le-soda amanzi, ama-juice, i-champagne yezingane. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngesidlo esibaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimaphi ama-birthdays - ikhekhe! Ungayibhakela wena, noma ungalawula ikhekhe esitolo se-pastry. Amaqebelengwane amasha ngesimo sezimoto, amodoli, abalingiswa be-cartoon abathandayo abazokwenza.
Futhi wokugcina. Akukhathaleki ukuthi unquma kuphi ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lomfana osemusha, into esemqoka ukuthi uhlolisise izifiso zomuntu wokuzalwa.