Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho kungabangela ezinye ubunzima ngezinye izikhathi. Ukucacisa incazelo yawo, umuntu kufanele aqale kusukela ngokucacile njengezithombe ezingenzeka. Isibonelo, akudingeki ubheke impendulo yombuzo walokho okushiwo umusho, kepha ukucacisa ukuthi ngabe lesi siphakamiso siwumshado noma umsebenzi. Kuphela kulesi simo kuzokwazi ukuthola incazelo efanele yephupho lakho futhi uqaphele ulwazi olunjalo.
Ukunikezwa kwesandla nenhliziyo ukuphupha ngani?
Ukubona iphupho mayelana nomshado intombazane noma owesifazane ongashadile kuyinto uphawu oluhle. Futhi ingachazwa ngokwezwi nezwi. Angakwazi futhi ukubikezela okuthile okungalindelekile, kodwa okumnandi. Ladies asezibophe kakade ngomshado, iphupho elinjalo lingabikezela ukuguqulwa empilweni yomuntu siqu ngemvelo enhle, ehlobene nezihlobo, obajwayele, ozakwabo. Noma ukhuluma ngokuqala kokuvumelana konke ekuhlotsheni nomyeni wakhe.
Kungani umhlangano uhlangana?
Amaphupho mayelana nokuqala kobudlelwano phakathi kwabathandi kufanele futhi abhekwe njengempumelelo. Bathembisa le ntombazane ukuthi kuvela ukuzwelana komlingani phakathi kwakhe nendoda ebonakala ephusheni. Ngisho noma umuntu engamazi okwamanje. Iphupho lithi ngokushesha maduze umhlangano othakazelisayo nalesi sihambi uzokwenzeka. Futhi, ukulala kungakhuluma ngokuziphendulela kwentombazane, mayelana nokungakwazi ukuqonda imizwa yakhe .
Ukunikezwa komsebenzi kubonakala kanjani?
Ukunikezwa komsebenzi, okubonwe ephusheni, kufanele kuhunyushwe ngokuthi ukushintsha okusheshayo ngokushesha. Futhi, hhayi ngempela ehlobene nokushintsha emkhakheni wokuqashwa. Mhlawumbe, ngokuphambene nalokho, endaweni yakudala yomuntu umuntu ulindele ukukhushulwa noma ukwanda kweholo. Amanye amabhuku okuphupha embuzweni wokuthi yini isiphakamiso somsebenzi omusha okuphuphayo mayelana nokuphendula okufana nalokhu: umuntu kufanele alungiselele abantu abajwayele ukukwazi, impumelelo futhi, mhlawumbe, ukuhamba kwebhizinisi.