Ingane ayikhulumi - yini okufanele ngiyenze?
Lapho ingane iphenduka iminyaka emibili ubudala, futhi engakhulumi, khona-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi kungabandakanyi ukukhubazeka kwe-hearing hearing, ngemuva kwalokho, kwenzeka ukuthi ngaphambi kwalesi sikhathi, abazali abazi ngisho nangenkinga ekhona. Ngokuvamile, ukukhubazeka kokuzwa kungathathwa ngendlela ingane ephendula ngayo amagama omdala, uma enenkani ngenkani futhi engayiphenduki lapho ephendukela kuye, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuthi ingane izwa izinkinga noma izimo ezingavamile.
Manje abakhulumi bezinkulumo nabahlengikazi baye baqaphela umkhuba ongakaze wachazwe - izingane ziqala ukukhuluma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi eminyakeni engaba ngu-10-15 edlule futhi idokhumenti yabo ibimbi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma abazali becela usizo kumchwepheshe wezinkulumo, lapho ingane ineminyaka engu-2 ubudala futhi engakhulumi, bayelulekwa ukuba balinde kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu, bese beqala ukubhekana nengane.
Ungalinda, kunjalo, kodwa, bonke abazali bafuna ukuthi izingane zabo zikhulume kangcono nomakhelwane Kolya. Ngoba ukukhuluma umntwana kuqala ngesikhathi, udinga ukudala izimo ezinhle zalokhu. Nakuba, uma kubekwa ukuthi ingane izohlala phansi bese ihamba, bese kuthi ingane enjalo, futhi, ingase iphuze kusukela ezimisweni ezivunyelwe ngokuvamile.
Umsebenzi wesikole onomntwana ongakhulumi eminyakeni emibili.
Ukuze ingane iqale ukuzwakala konke okwenzekayo kuye, kufanele kube nezimo zokuphila ezifanele - ikhompyutha eguquliwe, i-TV nomsakazo, futhi unakekele ngokugcwele abazali. Ngaphansi kokunakekelwa akudingekile ukuba usho ukulindela izifiso zengane, lapho umntwana engakwazi, futhi angathanda ukusho okuthize noma abuze, kodwa abazali abanakekelayo sebevele bashesha ukufeza imfundo yengane ngokusho komunye wayo. Kubalulekile ukudala izimo lapho ingane iphoqeleka ukuba ibuze, into ethile, abadala, futhi, nabo, akufanele baqonde ukuhlala kwayo nezinkomba.
Kusukela usemncane nezingane, kufanele udlale imidlalo yeminwe yansuku zonke futhi wenze ama-gymnastics, ewusizo kwamakhono amancane omoto. Zonke lezi zinqubo ezibonakala zingabambisani zizoveza izithelo esikhathini esizayo. Uma ingane ineminyaka engu-2 ubudala futhi engakhulumi, kuyoba usizo kakhulu ukugcoba iminwe, eyenziwa ngokuguqula umunwe ngamunye, ehamba nazo zonke izenzo ngezingqimba zomgogodla.
Abahlinzeki bezinkulumo emakilasini abo basebenzise i-toothbrush evamile, eyenziwa ngokusikhipha ngomunwe, futhi abazali bangathatha le ndlela ukuba bayisebenze. Ungakwazi ukuxhuma ukulayishwa okulula okuhlolisisa , ukufundisa ingane ukuba iphinde ibuyele ukunyakaza okuhlukahlukene kwezindebe bese ulingisa imisindo yezilwane.
Kungani ingane ingakhulumi?
Izingane ezingenakhulumisana zingakhula emkhayeni lapho abazali ngokwabo bengenakuxhumana okuncane futhi bakhetha ukuthula. Ingane ayinawo ozofunda ukukhuluma, kodwa uma eqala ukuya enkulisa, "uchitha" futhi ingane iqala ukuqhuma ngaphandle kokuyeka.
Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, kwenzeka ukuthi emindenini emikhulu omncinyane unenkinga ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo, futhi abazali bayamangala ukuthi kungani ingane ingakhulumi isikhathi eside, ngoba usevele eneminyaka emibili ubudala futhi unomunye umuntu okufanele athathe isibonelo. Lapha inkinga yilapho inani elikhulu labantu abakhuluma njalo, ngaleyo ndlela bangavumeli ingane ukuba ifake amagama, ibone izifiso zayo kuqala. Ingane enjalo ayidingi ukukhuluma, ngoba kakade uyayiqonda ngaphandle kwamagama.
Kunoma yikuphi, uma kunakekelwa okuningi kwengane, izinkondlo kanye nezinkondlo zifundwa kuye, ukudweba, ukulinganisa kanye nokusetshenziswa komunwe kuye, ngakho-ke ngenkathi eneminyaka emithathu ubudala uzokhuluma ngokuqinisekile.