Kuhle, lapho umlindi wakho othembekile we-shaggy engavumeli abantu abasolisayo ukuba badlulele kulelofa futhi banqobe amasela ukuba adlule indlu ngeqembu. Kodwa ngokuvamile inja ibonisa intshiseko ngokweqile, ngaso sonke isikhathi isikhalaza ngenxa yesizathu esithile, okwenza izinkinga eziningi kungabi kubanikazi kuphela, kodwa sonke isifunda. Ukubhekana nalokhu ukuziphatha kwezilwane akulula. Abanye bazame ukukhathazeka ngesilwane ngesifuba, bawageze ngamanoni, bawashaye bese bebaphoqa ukuba bayeke ukuhlukumeza abadlulayo. Abanye abemi ukukhazimula okungenangqondo futhi bathuthele ezinsongweni zokushaya, kodwa imiphumela enjalo ngokuvamile ayilethi ukuthula okude. Sizozama ukuqonda isizathu salokhu ukuziphatha kwesilwane sakho bese unikeza iseluleko esisebenzayo.
Kungani inja ibambezela abadlulayo?
Akuyona njalo lokhu kusho ukuthi isibindi somlindi othembekile, kaningi ngokusizwa kwezilwane ezikhazimulayo kubonisa ukwesaba okubangelwa imisindo engavamile ngemuva kodonga noma emgwaqweni. Uma inja izama ukucindezela izindlebe, cindezela umsila bese ufihla lapho umfokazi esondela kumkhawulo, bese ubonisa izimpawu eziyinhloko zokwesaba. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuba khona kwabantu bakho kunciphisa isilwane, futhi uma usesekhaya, akubonakali ukukhathazeka. Kodwa kufanelekile konke ukuya emsebenzini, njengoba ukuziphatha kwesilwane sishintsha, futhi yena, ngenxa yokwesaba noma ngaphandle kwesifiso sokubiza abanikazi, ulethe igxolo lakhe esifundeni sonke ngokugwinya kwakhe kuze kube seqophelweni lokudabuka.
Isizathu sesibili sokukhononda njalo ezinja kuyimzamo yokubusa, ebonakala okokuqala eminyakeni yokuguquka. Isizinda sonke kufanele sizwe umholi wesikhathi esizayo emndenini wezinja. Futhi ukugwinya ngokuvamile kusho isifiso sesilwane sokudla, ukudakwa, ukudlala, okufanayo, kumane kubangele ukunakekelwa kwabamabutho kumuntu wabo.
Indlela yokuqeda inja ukuze igwebe abadlulayo?
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nomsebenzi ukufundisa isilwane ukuze sibeke izwi eqenjini. Ama-Irritants angasetshenziswa ngokuhlukile. Izilwane zihlaba umxhwele lapho zibona isitsha esinomsoco, ithoyizi eliyintandokazi, lijabule lapho lithatha isikhumba esincane noma sehla. Phakathi nalokhu kuvivinya umzimba, nikeza umyalo othi "Izwi!" Ukuze uhlobanise namagxolo. Ukuqedwa kwezwi kumele kuhlotshaniswe nemiyalo ethi "Ukuthula!", "Foo!" Noma "Ukuthula!". Kuyinto efiselekayo ukukhuthaza ukunambitheka kwesilwane bese izifundo ziqiniswa kakhulu.
Umsindo emnyango ungumuntu othukuthele kakhulu, lapha