Imithetho yokuziphatha yamantombazane

Ekukhulunywe kwegama elithi "etiquette", abantu abaningi beza engqondweni ngezindlela eziyinkimbinkimbi zokukhonza etafuleni besebenzisa izinsimbi eziningi, abesifazane abahloniphekile baseVictoria kanye nokubanda kwezehlakalo ezisemthethweni zezindlu zobukhosi. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ukuziphatha kuyisethi yemithetho elawula ukuziphatha kwabantu endaweni ethile. Futhi noma ngabe uzibheka njengesihlubuki, uphambene nazo zonke izinkambiso nemithetho yomphakathi, ukwazi ukuthi imithetho esemqoka yesimiso sabesifazane ngeke ihlukumeze. Lokhu kubalulekile ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokuhamba, ngoba ngokuvamile imithetho yokuziphatha emazweni ahlukene ahluke kakhulu, futhi okwenzeka ezweni lakini kungamangaza noma ukushaqeka abantu bezinye izizwe.

Kulesi sihloko, sizokhuluma ngemithetho yanamuhla yaseYurophu yokuziphatha kwabesifazane.

Ukuzikhethela kwentombazane yanamuhla

Umhlahlandlela wansuku zonke wamantombazane uhlanganisa imithetho elandelayo eyisisekelo:

1. Noma yikuphi ukuxhumana kuqala ngokubingelela. Inhloso yalo ukuveza injabulo nenjabulo yomhlangano. Ngesikhathi sokubingelela, izinga lobuhlobo obuhle kufanele lucatshangelwe. Abantu abajwayelene nabo bayokwamukeleka ngamazwi okwanele, umngane oseduze noma isihlobo angamanga esihlathini noma akhonze kalula. Kodwa-ke, ibhalansi kufanele igcinwe phakathi kokubingelela okunesisindo nesiphepho. Khumbula ukuthi kufanele uzwe nalabo obabingelela nabo, hhayi bonke abaseduze kwamamitha ambalwa. Gwema ukuklabalasa okukhulu, ukuvutha kwesiphepho nokuqhaqhazela okukhulu.
2. Esikhathini sezulu sezulu, umfana uphethe isambulela phezu kwentombazane (uma iphakeme noma iphakama elifanayo naye). Njengobahluko omkhulu ekukhuleni, ngamunye uphethe isambulela sakhe. Ukungena ekamelweni, khumbula isidingo sokuvikela abanye emanzini okukhipha kusuka kwesambulela sakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, sebenzisa ikhava noma ushiye isambulela endaweni ekhethekile emnyango.
3. Kukhona emgwaqweni, ikakhulukazi ngenkathi uhamba-kungcolile. Yiqiniso, akekho oyokuvimbela ukuba udle i-ayisikhilimu epaki ebhentshini, kodwa ungangeni ezokuthutha zomphakathi, esitolo noma emnyuziyamu ene-hamburger enezinyosi noma isangweji.
4. Ukuze uvakashele kufanele kube ncamashi ngesikhathi esimisiwe. Ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, izivakashi akufanele ziphuze. Uma ungakwazi ukufinyelela isikhathi esimisiwe, qiniseka ukuxwayisa abanikazi ngakho. Uma kwenzeka udinga ukuhamba ngaphambi kwamanye izivakashi, ungadonseli ukunakwa okukhulu. Shiya ngokuthula, ngaphandle kokuphikisana, futhi-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi usho ukuthi ungabanikazi Bokubambisana futhi ubonge ngokubamukela kwabo.
5. Qapha ukunyakaza kwakho. I-gesticulation esebenzayo ayithinteki nje kuphela abanye, kodwa ayibheki kahle kakhulu.

I-label in the restaurant for intombazane

Uma uya endaweni yokudlela enomnumzane, khona-ke, ngokwemithetho, umfana ungena ekamelweni kuqala. Ukuthatha imenyu, kumele uyidlulisele intombazane, imnike ukuba akhethe kuqala. Khona-ke uthatha imenyu ngokwakhe, wenza ukukhetha futhi uyala izitsha zombili.

Akufanele uqale ukudla ngaphambi kokuba umyalelo ulethwe kuwo wonke umuntu okhona. Okuwukuphela kwesikhashana lapho abanye abantu ngokwabo bezokunikeza khona ukuqala ukudla ngaphandle kokulinda.

Ekupheleni kokudla, izitsha zifakwa epulatifeni ngokufana. Uma uyeka isikhashana ngenkathi udla - izitsha kufanele zibekwe eceleni.

Ngesikhathi sokudla, umuntu akufanele akhiphe, aphikise ukudla ngokuzwakalayo noma aqoke ngokucacile kuwo. Kukhona ummese, noma uhlezi etafuleni, uthola izicucu zokudla ezinamathe amazinyo akho - ukuhlukunyezwa okungenzeka kakhulu kwezenzo zokuziphatha.

Uma ulahlekile ngengozi, usakazekile noma uchithe okuthile - ungethuki futhi ungasheshi ukulungisa ukulungisa iphutha lakho. I-liquid egcweleyo kufanele isuliwe kuphela nge-napkin, futhi ama-crumb ahlakazekile akumele agqunywe phansi.

I-etiquette yebhizinisi yabesifazane

Izambatho zokuzikhethela ezenzelwe abesifazane bebhizinisi zihlinzekela ukuhambisana nesitayela se-classical esemthethweni ngokubukeka. Ukuhluka okuhlukile kwezembatho kuzoba isambatho sebhizinisi (ijazi namabhulukwe noma ingubo) yezimpawu zokuvimbela. Kule ndaba, ukungahambisani okuphelele kwe "top" ne "phansi" kwezingubo akudingekile - unelungelo lokuhlanganisa, isibonelo, ijaji lesanti nesiketi esihlaza okwesibhakabhaka.

Imfuneko esemqoka kunoma yikuphi ukugqoka ukuhlanzeka nokuchithwa. Qinisekisa ukuthi i-suit yakho ihlale ihlanziwe futhi ifakwe, ayikho amabala noma izimbobo kuso. Ngokufanayo, izinwele zakho kanye ne-makeup kufanele kube kuhle. Ukuze ubuke ukubukeka kwakho kusho ukubonisa inhlonipho kwabanye. Kodwa ungazibeki (yenza izicathulo, izicathulo ezihlanzekile, uqondise izinwele zakho, uphephule ikhala lakho, uthinte izindebe zakho, noma usula i-mascara yakho evulekile) emphakathini. Kungcono ukukwenza ekhaya noma "egumbini labesifazane".

Njengoba ungabona, ukuziphatha okungamanje kwabesifazane akuhlinzeki ngemithetho ye-supercomplex noma imisebenzi ekhwabanisayo. Kwanele kuphela ukuba nobungane, ukuziphatha ngokuzivimbela, kodwa kungabambeki, futhi uphathe abanye ngenhlonipho.