Umlingisi waphinde wathatha indlela yokuzibulala. Naphezu kokuthandana noLindsay Shukus nokuhlangana nezingane ezivela emshadweni noJennifer Garner, angabonakala enkampanini yeziphuzo ezidakayo futhi, ngokusho kwezidakamizwa, izidakamizwa ezidakayo. Ngenxa yokusekelwa kwabangane noShukus, wanquma "ukwelashwa" njalo futhi wacela usizo emtholampilo ekhethekile.
Khumbula ukuthi izinkinga zokuphuza utshwala zaqala ngonyaka ka-2000, emva kwalokho izikhathi eziningana zadlulela izinhlelo ezihlukene futhi zahlanganyela ngempumelelo yakhe nezintatheli.
Enkulumweni yakhe, wabelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe:
"Ngifuna ukuphila ngokugcwele, ujabulele ukuxhumana nabantwana nabantu abasondelene nami. Ngifuna ukuba ngcono kubo! Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngifuna baqonde ukuthi ngamunye wethu unobuthakathaka bakhe futhi ngezinye izikhathi udinga usizo. Angikubheki njengento ehlazo ukukhuluma ngezinkinga zami futhi ngifuna usizo, ngiqondiswa yisifiso sokubuyisela futhi ngikhohlwe ngezinkinga zami ngotshwala. "
Omunye wabangane, njenge-incognito, wathi uBen uyesaba ukulahlekelwa inhlonipho yabantwana, yena kanye nobuhlobo obusha, ngakho nganquma ukuthatha impilo yami ngokujulile:
"Yile nkinga ebangela impilo yakhe yonke, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba angakhohlwa izinto eziza kuqala. Kuyoba nzima ukusebenzela wena kanye nezintandokazi zakho. "
Isimo sinzima kangangokuthi ngempelasonto eledlule uBen Affleck waze walahlekelwa umkhosi womshado wodadewabo omthandi wakhe uLindsay Sukus eNew York. Phakathi kwesimemo seholide kanye nethuba lokubona izingane, wakhetha umndeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-paparazzi yamqaphela ngezikhungo eziningana zokuvuselela eLos Angeles, okugxile ekubhekaneni nokuphuza utshwala nezidakamizwa.
Ekupheleni kukaSeptemba, uBen, ngokusho komthombo ofanayo, wamcela ukuba amsize athathe uhlelo lokuvuselela eLos Angeles. Lokhu kuhlangene noJennifer Garner nomfowabo ka-actor uCatheriney Affleck. Ekupheleni kwesimiso, uBen uyaqhubeka nokuvakashela isikhungo sokuqapha isimo sakhe.
- UJennifer Garner uvakashele lowo owayengumfazi kaBen Affleck eHawaii
- I-kayak yamaRoma: Ben Affleck noLindsay Suku eHawaii
- UBen Affleck waphawula i-tattoo enkulu embala ogwini
Umngane we-actor uthi uBen uphezulu kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi:
"Uyazi ukuthi uma kungenjalo manje, kuyoba nzima kakhulu kokubili ubudlelwane nezingane nasemisebenzini. Siyaqonda ukuthi ukulwa nezidakamizwa, akubalulekile ekudleni noma ngokweqile, kuyinselele yokuphila konke. Sizohlala simsekela njalo. Manje unzima kakhulu futhi wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukubuyela ekuphileni okuvamile. Ukwelashwa kuwumsebenzi onzima kuwe. "